Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The LADIES making good decisions, based on values and genuine compatibility. Very happy with the outcomes here!
+1000
Same! Except a little sad for Devin.
I’m sad for him but he’ll be okay.
Virginia is likely going to end up alone and that’s clearly not what she wants. He’s a good guy but they weren’t really a match because she can’t get past the politics or religion of his family. Seems like she wants to be religious-ish but isn’t.
The trend now is for people to choose a “brand” of religion that fits their already-formed convictions about the world instead of allowing God to speak into their lives and transform them. People like this (Sara) already have a religion on culture and value themselves and their own viewpoint as higher than anything God will instruct. She’ll tolerate going to church only as long as it affirms what she already thinks. Churches have allowed themselves to be an instrument of delivering faith that conforms to the current culture without any inconvenience rather than a guidepost and guardrail to preventing us from self-indulgence and conformity to the world that separates us from God.
Plus, in this case, the odds of Virginia finding an attractive, intelligent, sensitive, committed, educated black man who loves her and will settle down with her are statistically not high and she doesn’t seem to realize this.
Devin is likely to find someone but needs to get better at searching for someone who actually puts God first. No prenup. That was a ridiculous sign that he chose to ignore. Women who take marriage covenant seriously are not pushing for a prenup because the marriage isn’t ending.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The LADIES making good decisions, based on values and genuine compatibility. Very happy with the outcomes here!
+1000
Same! Except a little sad for Devin.
I’m sad for him but he’ll be okay.
Virginia is likely going to end up alone and that’s clearly not what she wants. He’s a good guy but they weren’t really a match because she can’t get past the politics or religion of his family. Seems like she wants to be religious-ish but isn’t.
The trend now is for people to choose a “brand” of religion that fits their already-formed convictions about the world instead of allowing God to speak into their lives and transform them. People like this (Sara) already have a religion on culture and value themselves and their own viewpoint as higher than anything God will instruct. She’ll tolerate going to church only as long as it affirms what she already thinks. Churches have allowed themselves to be an instrument of delivering faith that conforms to the current culture without any inconvenience rather than a guidepost and guardrail to preventing us from self-indulgence and conformity to the world that separates us from God.
Plus, in this case, the odds of Virginia finding an attractive, intelligent, sensitive, committed, educated black man who loves her and will settle down with her are statistically not high and she doesn’t seem to realize this.
Devin is likely to find someone but needs to get better at searching for someone who actually puts God first. No prenup. That was a ridiculous sign that he chose to ignore. Women who take marriage covenant seriously are not pushing for a prenup because the marriage isn’t ending.
Devin brings absolutely nothing to the table. She did all that for his birthday and he refused to help her carry it up?? That is a metaphor for their relationship. She would have carried that man on her back at every step. Professionally unsuccessful, heavily in debt yet spending thousands on shoes, bad in bed, unromantic, ashamed to voice his values (rightfully so). Weak across the board. Virginia is far better off alone than with a complete and utter loser like that. She’ll be fine.
+100
Virginia is better off remaining single than with that loser. Sure Devin may have been a nice-ish guy (despite clearly being MAGA), but not partner material for anyone who didn't want to be his replacement mommy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The LADIES making good decisions, based on values and genuine compatibility. Very happy with the outcomes here!
+1000
Same! Except a little sad for Devin.
I’m sad for him but he’ll be okay.
Virginia is likely going to end up alone and that’s clearly not what she wants. He’s a good guy but they weren’t really a match because she can’t get past the politics or religion of his family. Seems like she wants to be religious-ish but isn’t.
The trend now is for people to choose a “brand” of religion that fits their already-formed convictions about the world instead of allowing God to speak into their lives and transform them. People like this (Sara) already have a religion on culture and value themselves and their own viewpoint as higher than anything God will instruct. She’ll tolerate going to church only as long as it affirms what she already thinks. Churches have allowed themselves to be an instrument of delivering faith that conforms to the current culture without any inconvenience rather than a guidepost and guardrail to preventing us from self-indulgence and conformity to the world that separates us from God.
Plus, in this case, the odds of Virginia finding an attractive, intelligent, sensitive, committed, educated black man who loves her and will settle down with her are statistically not high and she doesn’t seem to realize this.
Devin is likely to find someone but needs to get better at searching for someone who actually puts God first. No prenup. That was a ridiculous sign that he chose to ignore. Women who take marriage covenant seriously are not pushing for a prenup because the marriage isn’t ending.
Devin brings absolutely nothing to the table. She did all that for his birthday and he refused to help her carry it up?? That is a metaphor for their relationship. She would have carried that man on her back at every step. Professionally unsuccessful, heavily in debt yet spending thousands on shoes, bad in bed, unromantic, ashamed to voice his values (rightfully so). Weak across the board. Virginia is far better off alone than with a complete and utter loser like that. She’ll be fine.
Anonymous wrote:They went way too easy on Dave. That man is full of a steaming pile of crap.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The LADIES making good decisions, based on values and genuine compatibility. Very happy with the outcomes here!
+1000
Same! Except a little sad for Devin.
I’m sad for him but he’ll be okay.
Virginia is likely going to end up alone and that’s clearly not what she wants. He’s a good guy but they weren’t really a match because she can’t get past the politics or religion of his family. Seems like she wants to be religious-ish but isn’t.
The trend now is for people to choose a “brand” of religion that fits their already-formed convictions about the world instead of allowing God to speak into their lives and transform them. People like this (Sara) already have a religion on culture and value themselves and their own viewpoint as higher than anything God will instruct. She’ll tolerate going to church only as long as it affirms what she already thinks. Churches have allowed themselves to be an instrument of delivering faith that conforms to the current culture without any inconvenience rather than a guidepost and guardrail to preventing us from self-indulgence and conformity to the world that separates us from God.
Plus, in this case, the odds of Virginia finding an attractive, intelligent, sensitive, committed, educated black man who loves her and will settle down with her are statistically not high and she doesn’t seem to realize this.
Devin is likely to find someone but needs to get better at searching for someone who actually puts God first. No prenup. That was a ridiculous sign that he chose to ignore. Women who take marriage covenant seriously are not pushing for a prenup because the marriage isn’t ending.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The LADIES making good decisions, based on values and genuine compatibility. Very happy with the outcomes here!
+1000
Same! Except a little sad for Devin.
Anonymous wrote:Poor Monica. Joey never took it seriously. He can take his unwashed dandruff hair and board off, dude.
Anonymous wrote:Poor Monica. Joey never took it seriously. He can take his unwashed dandruff hair and board off, dude.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Daniel and Taylor: I love couples that appreciate each other!
So sweet, those two!
I'm so glad he stuck by her after her IG meltdown.
I thought it was interesting that they got married before having sex. Christianity came up a lot this season. Didn’t realize Minnesota was such a religious place!