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Anonymous wrote:I am 54 dating a 39 year old. When we met I thought he was a few years older and he thought I was a few years younger but here we are and it works, for now.

He must be really weird looking. Is he bold or smth ?

NP - but my MUCH younger bf (bigger age difference than pp above) is very handsome. Extremely handsome I would say. He's been told he could model (but he is not the type to do that lol).

Im much older, fit and very good looking.

So... you really just never know.

Can he afford taking you on dates? Who pays for it, you or him? How do you split the travels?

We usually go 50/50 but he likes to pay for me so sometimes I let him spoil me.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced man 45 years old and I approve your relationship. But on serious note 5 years is nothing, even 10 years is nothing for a woman. Women have far less issue than men as they age, so it's very unlikely that he will end up taking care of you. In fact it's not uncommon for 80 years old women to take care of their 70 years old husbands. I honestly don't know why we men tend to have so many health issues as we age but it is what it is. There are exceptions of course, but the data confirms that men don't age well in the United States.

I don't think this is accurate. Sure, men's health is often not as good as women's and statistically they die younger than women, but as far as appearance goes, women tend to age worse than men. Men are still considered good looking and become "silver foxes" whereas women do not.

Right now five years isn't a big difference, and maybe it won't be in the future, but it could become an issue as they age. That said, I think five years younger for the man would be the maximum.

Of course there are exceptions.

Are you a man or a woman ? I think men and women age about same. Very few men over 50 look attractive /silver foxes to me (a woman in my mid 40s)

Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced man 45 years old and I approve your relationship. But on serious note 5 years is nothing, even 10 years is nothing for a woman. Women have far less issue than men as they age, so it's very unlikely that he will end up taking care of you. In fact it's not uncommon for 80 years old women to take care of their 70 years old husbands. I honestly don't know why we men tend to have so many health issues as we age but it is what it is. There are exceptions of course, but the data confirms that men don't age well in the United States.

I don't think this is accurate. Sure, men's health is often not as good as women's and statistically they die younger than women, but as far as appearance goes, women tend to age worse than men. Men are still considered good looking and become "silver foxes" whereas women do not.

Right now five years isn't a big difference, and maybe it won't be in the future, but it could become an issue as they age. That said, I think five years younger for the man would be the maximum.

Of course there are exceptions.

5 year difference is essentially the same age.

I get why you'd want one to play with, but to keep?

I don't want to raise some other mother's son in my bed. I'm grown. I'm grown with experience.

Very few men can keep up, let alone catch up. It's fun in the beginning, but the lack of maturity gets annoying after a fairly short while.

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Anonymous wrote:My mother is a young 72 and dating a guy in his late 50's. I don't press her on details but she seems very happy. My husband is 52 and he just rolls his eyes and kids my mother about being a cougar.

I think dating younger like this is a huge flex because everyone assumes you must have a torrid sex life and be awesome in the sack to keep your “young stud” satisfied.

It really doesn't take much to keep a man satisfied. Know how to cook, be easy on the eyes, be ggg in bed. Done. Simple.

You just described less than one percent of the female population.

More could be like that, but they are too lazy, too entitled, and too arrogant to perform.

Perform? Ugh. This is where men, even younger men, shoot themselves in the foot. This "I'm the prize" mentality that says women should perform or compete for you. You get fakes who get bored once they've "won their prize".

It's a weird gender role reversal. Women learned that playing "pick me" is a losing game. Men need to learn that, too. Find someone who is actually good in bed and likes doing the stuff you like doing, and then make it easier for them to continue doing those things. Make it clear how happy you are with those things.

But some of y'all act like you expect to be wooed forever and, well, it's not the look. Women get bored, too.

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Anonymous wrote:My mother is a young 72 and dating a guy in his late 50's. I don't press her on details but she seems very happy. My husband is 52 and he just rolls his eyes and kids my mother about being a cougar.

I think dating younger like this is a huge flex because everyone assumes you must have a torrid sex life and be awesome in the sack to keep your “young stud” satisfied.

It really doesn't take much to keep a man satisfied. Know how to cook, be easy on the eyes, be ggg in bed. Done. Simple.

You just described less than one percent of the female population.

More could be like that, but they are too lazy, too entitled, and too arrogant to perform.

It's not a performance for some of us, but 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous wrote:My mother is a young 72 and dating a guy in his late 50's. I don't press her on details but she seems very happy. My husband is 52 and he just rolls his eyes and kids my mother about being a cougar.

I think dating younger like this is a huge flex because everyone assumes you must have a torrid sex life and be awesome in the sack to keep your “young stud” satisfied.

I think people under$tand what these relation$hip$ are about.

My mother is the 72 year old and her BF has far more money than her so it’s not about money. Thinking of her as being awesome in the sack is a bad visual for me but she is very fit and athletic so she could be and all power to her.

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Anonymous wrote:My mother is a young 72 and dating a guy in his late 50's. I don't press her on details but she seems very happy. My husband is 52 and he just rolls his eyes and kids my mother about being a cougar.

I think dating younger like this is a huge flex because everyone assumes you must have a torrid sex life and be awesome in the sack to keep your “young stud” satisfied.

It really doesn't take much to keep a man satisfied. Know how to cook, be easy on the eyes, be ggg in bed. Done. Simple.

You just described less than one percent of the female population.

More could be like that, but they are too lazy, too entitled, and too arrogant to perform.

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Anonymous wrote:My mother is a young 72 and dating a guy in his late 50's. I don't press her on details but she seems very happy. My husband is 52 and he just rolls his eyes and kids my mother about being a cougar.

I think dating younger like this is a huge flex because everyone assumes you must have a torrid sex life and be awesome in the sack to keep your “young stud” satisfied.

It really doesn't take much to keep a man satisfied. Know how to cook, be easy on the eyes, be ggg in bed. Done. Simple.