Anonymous wrote:Separate rooms. Till married. I am not going to be greeted in the morning by them exiting the same room. But also I'm not policing during the night, where they are --- not thinking about it.

But WHY?? It makes no sense. Why should she be subjected to seeing gross old people (hint: that's you) doing the same thing? You're all adults. This attitude toward sex is beyond bizarre

Separate rooms. Till married. I am not going to be greeted in the morning by them exiting the same room. But also I'm not policing during the night, where they are --- not thinking about it.

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Anonymous wrote:All problems can be solved by guests staying in a motel, hotel, Airbnb, or campground.

I do, when visiting people, even my parents, and I prefer it when others do while visiting me.

+1

I feel like staying at anybody's house or anybody staying at my house is invasion of everyone's privacy.

Thank God, we’re not family

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Anonymous wrote:I mean, when your college aged boy and his girl friend are back home from the winter break, do you prepare one bedroom or separated two bedrooms for them?

Doesn't his girlfriend want to spend winter break with her own family?

It’s a month long. They spend part of it with their family and part of it with their boyfriend’s family.

During Covid, we had my son’s girlfriend with us for six months. Her mom and dad both worked in the hospital and they didn’t want her exposed.

Anonymous wrote:Separate rooms until engaged. Our house, our rules. They survived!

Most of us don’t want our children to survive us.

*however a kid's significant others should be an exception so both sides get to know each other

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Anonymous wrote:All problems can be solved by guests staying in a motel, hotel, Airbnb, or campground.

I do, when visiting people, even my parents, and I prefer it when others do while visiting me.

+1

I feel like staying at anybody's house or anybody staying at my house is invasion of everyone's privacy.

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Anonymous wrote:Separate rooms until engaged. Our house, our rules. They survived!

I survived my family too - doesn't mean I like them.

Do they like you?

Anonymous wrote:All problems can be solved by guests staying in a motel, hotel, Airbnb, or campground.

I do, when visiting people, even my parents, and I prefer it when others do while visiting me.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:separate rooms!!!

They should have a little respect for YOUR house.

My house has solid beds. They won't break any. House is fine.

I am deceased.

Anonymous wrote:I mean, when your college aged boy and his girl friend are back home from the winter break, do you prepare one bedroom or separated two bedrooms for them?

Doesn't his girlfriend want to spend winter break with her own family?

Anonymous wrote:Separate rooms until engaged. Our house, our rules. They survived!

I survived my family too - doesn't mean I like them.

Separate rooms until engaged. Our house, our rules. They survived!

Anonymous wrote:All problems can be solved by guests staying in a motel, hotel, Airbnb, or campground.

I do, when visiting people, even my parents, and I prefer it when others do while visiting me.

College students don't have money.

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Anonymous wrote:First two years, separate rooms. Juniors and up, same.

Do you give credit for AP and IB exam scores?

LOL