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Anonymous wrote:So how is this thread ok but the thread asking about women’s libido was taken down?

That asked more detail.

It was in no way more graphic if NSFW is the criterion.

Anonymous wrote:My wife has turned me down so many times and I don't find it to be an issue at all. Sometimes she is just not in the mood. Other times she is not feeling well. I mean she is not a sex machine or a sex slave.

I assume wives view it similarly when they are turned down no?

No, they don’t.

Anonymous wrote:So how is this thread ok but the thread asking about women’s libido was taken down?

That asked more detail.

Anonymous wrote:So how is this thread ok but the thread asking about women’s libido was taken down?

Omg it was??

So how is this thread ok but the thread asking about women’s libido was taken down?

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Anonymous wrote:This one is easy.

Men rarely, if ever say NO to sex.

I state this as a fact….vs. an opinion.

Lol.

I married the only guy in the world who can or leave sex. He's the only guy I've ever known who felt like that. Given his extremely low energy levels, it's probably low T.

My econometrics teacher taught us the concept of selection bias. Women who get rejected aren't going to bother responding on this thread. Those who never get rejected will enthusiastically say they don't. It's human to brag when you feel desired all the time. I'm sure if there are public surveys on this many of you will be surprised to learn that wives do get rejected and not once but many times even in the absence of an affair. Testosterone levels in men don't stay high forever they do decrease. And as men's testosterone starts to decrease so does libido . High libido is then replace with irritability. I'm sure some menopausal women experience something similar no?

Anonymous wrote:If he had a bad fall and injured his back...why did you ask him for sex? Seems pretty inconsiderate.

I see OP is studiously ignoring this point…

Anonymous wrote:I do say no to DW not because I want to or don't find her attractive; it is just that at 66 my libido has taken a huge dive.

Is she hot?
I'd be glad to help you out.
You can watch if you like.
- guy that's done this before

My wife has turned me down so many times and I don't find it to be an issue at all. Sometimes she is just not in the mood. Other times she is not feeling well. I mean she is not a sex machine or a sex slave.

I assume wives view it similarly when they are turned down no?

Anonymous wrote:This is weird, no? The other day we went skiing and he had a bad fall and hurt himself. Later we were lounging back at the condo and I suggested sex. At first he said no he is too sore and I was fine with it. But then 20 min later he was like, does the offer still stand??? Lmao. Poor thing was obviously struggling too.

I got to thinking about it and he has literally never said no to sex in 20 years. Meanwhile, I sometimes make up having a “bad period” when I don’t feel like it.

Is this normal for men and women? It makes me feel kinda bad for men.

Ugh you still like him and everything? That’s cute.

Anonymous wrote:I do say no to DW not because I want to or don't find her attractive; it is just that at 66 my libido has taken a huge dive.

I'm sure you are not the only man who has turned down his wife. I'm honestly very surprised by the high number of women here who are claiming to have never been turned down

Anonymous wrote:This is weird, no? The other day we went skiing and he had a bad fall and hurt himself. Later we were lounging back at the condo and I suggested sex. At first he said no he is too sore and I was fine with it. But then 20 min later he was like, does the offer still stand??? Lmao. Poor thing was obviously struggling too.

I got to thinking about it and he has literally never said no to sex in 20 years. Meanwhile, I sometimes make up having a “bad period” when I don’t feel like it.

Is this normal for men and women? It makes me feel kinda bad for men.

So he’s injured and you decide it’s a good time to ask for sex? Sounds fake.

I do say no to DW not because I want to or don't find her attractive; it is just that at 66 my libido has taken a huge dive.

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Anonymous wrote:If your Johnson is still working you are most less likely to say No. But if you have reached that point where your Johnson is not always reliable and you are in denial (is refusing to see a doc for Viagra) then you will look for excuses to say No. Women don't always understand the "trauma" that men go through when their Johnson is no longer reliable. If you are a man Our culture emphasizes your erection and size when it comes to sex. When your erection is no longer reliable even your own wife will start putting pressure on you to get it fixed. It is what it is.

Which is incredibly ridiculous given that women's satisfaction usually does not depend on your member.

Certainly does for me. I need it to be very firm. Limp d does nothing for me.

You need d to o?

There ARE women like this. They get very worked up with other ways but can't finish unless they get d. As the person supplying the d, this put a lot of pressure on me to perform and have good timing. Not complaining here.

The d can be attached to an i l d o instead of a m a n.

True, but it's nice to have a human on the other end.

normal