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Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'8 woman and I don't really understand why any woman needs a 6 ft plus man! I prefer him to be at my height or slightly taller so we can be kissing on the same level. I dated men over 6 ft and they were clumsy dancing, and in bed and almost too heavy for some positions (all were slim or athletic).

Oddly, the vast majority of men who play professional sports in the US are over 6 feet. They’re generally pretty nimble. I’d agree that the 7 footers rarely run/ move well, but that’s a big difference and some still manage it - aka the NBA.

Maybe you’re clumsy in bed? Because if your man is too heavy to F you you’re weak or he’s a big fat dolt.

I prefer my men educated, grad degree and higher. These men are usually clumsy. Maybe I'm clumsy, too and thus it's easier for me to f...k men who are between my height 5'8 to 6ft. Also, I don't date fatties my own BMI is 20 so I'm very unforgiving of fat. But height - I don't hear as long as he's at least my height

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Anonymous wrote:You can control fatness, you can’t control height. Heightism is real and accepted discrimination.

Go lookup the heights of nearly every single CEO and politician, hardly any are below 5’7”-5’8”. Numerous studies have shown that height significantly impacts your lifetime earnings and promotions, even after adjusting for education and experience. It’s basically discrimination against men for a genetic trait. Literally it is no different than discrimination against a person because of their race.


It impacts men far more than women. Height isn’t anywhere near as import for women as it is for men.

Ok you cannot control how pretty you are, or how big your boobs are.

No one likes a whiny person. You can control that.

Anonymous wrote:You can control fatness, you can’t control height. Heightism is real and accepted discrimination.

Go lookup the heights of nearly every single CEO and politician, hardly any are below 5’7”-5’8”. Numerous studies have shown that height significantly impacts your lifetime earnings and promotions, even after adjusting for education and experience. It’s basically discrimination against men for a genetic trait. Literally it is no different than discrimination against a person because of their race.


It impacts men far more than women. Height isn’t anywhere near as import for women as it is for men.

Anonymous wrote:Everyone has physical preferences OP.

Women tend to like height and men tend to like facial beauty and other attributes such as a thin waist, big boobs, or round butt.

Anonymous wrote:Women, in general, prefer tall men over short men. There is an actual study on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vv5wfypQbL8

Women want a guy that is at least 6 feet tall, 7 inches in the pants, and makes at least six figures. Most women lie because they don't want to be perceived as pretentious. The only exception to this rule is a short man immediately gets attention from women who are either an athlete or a musician.

Anonymous wrote:Women, in general, prefer tall men over short men. There is an actual study on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vv5wfypQbL8

Women want a guy that is at least 6 feet tall, 7 inches in the pants, and makes at least six figures. Most women lie because they don't want to be perceived as pretentious. The only exception to this rule is a short man immediately gets attention from women who are either an athlete or a musician.

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Anonymous wrote:It irks me when women demand the guy to be at least 6 feet instead of just wanting a guy that is taller than them.

It annoys me when men want a woman size 4 or less instead of just wanting one who is thinner than them

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Anonymous wrote:I think women in all cultures prioritize tall men but lately it’s become more of a thing for women to obsess about. With the rise of dating apps and hookup culture young women care mostly about how hot a guy is as opposed to long term partner material, and height is something you can easily filter in one of these apps. I think it’s become harder for short men to compensate with income too because women want the full package. A short guy with a high status career is still undesirable. I’m a 5’5 man and married now but dating was brutal even though I was earning in the top 1-2% and hitting the gym 4-5 days a week. I’ve had better luck with foreign women in general but still plenty of women in other countries who want a tall guy so it’s not a slam dunk. My wife is American.

Dating was brutal because you were looking for a very attractive woman, when your height kicks you out of that status for men.

My family has very tall and very shirt men. None of them struggles to date. I would even argue that some of the shorter men got the best partners. But they had to work harder on their personalities. Same story goes for women. The less attractive you are, the more impressive you have to be. Big deal!

+1 not so attractive women with not so attractive bodies have a hard time dating, too.

Anonymous wrote:https://www.apa.org/monitor/julaug04/standing#:~:text=The%20findings%20suggest%20that%20someone,for%20gender%2C%20age%20and%20weight.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'8 woman and I don't really understand why any woman needs a 6 ft plus man! I prefer him to be at my height or slightly taller so we can be kissing on the same level. I dated men over 6 ft and they were clumsy dancing, and in bed and almost too heavy for some positions (all were slim or athletic).

Oddly, the vast majority of men who play professional sports in the US are over 6 feet. They’re generally pretty nimble. I’d agree that the 7 footers rarely run/ move well, but that’s a big difference and some still manage it - aka the NBA.

Maybe you’re clumsy in bed? Because if your man is too heavy to F you you’re weak or he’s a big fat dolt.

I prefer my men educated, grad degree and higher. These men are usually clumsy. Maybe I'm clumsy, too and thus it's easier for me to f...k men who are between my height 5'8 to 6ft. Also, I don't date fatties my own BMI is 20 so I'm very unforgiving of fat. But height - I don't hear as long as he's at least my height

I mean, tall men are also more financially successful so you can try to highbrow this as a more “educated” choice, that’s fine. I was just referring to the idea that tall men are clumsy in bed. They aren’t when they’re millionaires playing a game for a living, or in the boardroom. I’m sure there’s plenty of cute smart, lesser earning shorties out there

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Anonymous wrote:I am 6'1 but most people think I am least 6'4 and that's because I am skinny with a straight posture.

I wiish I was 5'7 and bigger though. I am not going to feel you guys my weight lol but I wish I wasn't skinny.

And as a skinny man don"t even get me started. I can start my own thread. And women have been the most hard toward me. They often tell me do you eat, you are so skinny, I can break you (wish they knew about my third leg lol), eat more. Because I am so skinny for them I guess they don't even see my height lol.

Men on the other hand notice my height before noticing my weight. And most men don't even mention my weight but they do notice the height. And this makes me think men are more conscious of height because that's likely something they have been judged on positively or negatively. Women notice my weight first surprise surprise lol

I'm off the market, but tall skinny men have ALWAYS been my jam. Too bad that we get older and fatter. But I love a tall skinny man. Not all women don't like it.

Anonymous wrote:It irks me when women demand the guy to be at least 6 feet instead of just wanting a guy that is taller than them.