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Anonymous wrote:Things that shocked me: Kids not walking a mile to school, or in the rain, or in the cold. Families making lunch every single day. Teacher/or child calling from school that the child forgot something at home. Parents routinely standing at the school door, or at the playground, or wherever the closest is they are allowed. School expectation that a parent has free time -during the school/work day- more than rarely. Kiss and Ride .. the idea that parents make this nonsense part of their day. It's not a private school w/no bus service. Use the bus

Parents are wacko. That's why there is so much anxiety.

While I agree kids are too coddled and 99.8% of this “anxiety” is excuse-making or performative bullshit, I find it odd these things “shock” you.

1) My kids walk 3/4 a mile to school. In a group with other kids. Just like I did in 1980. Most kids do.

2) Yeah, we make their lunch. Better than the school lunch. They’re getting themselves ready during this time. So what?

3) Schools generally prohibit calling home for missing items or might allow it once. This was the policy in our LCPS school.

4) No idea what you’re on about regarding standing close to the door. Most kids find their own way home.

5) Whatever are you prattling on about regarding free time during the work day? You aren’t making sense.

6) Kiss and Ride? What?

+1 who are these weirdos equating packed lunch with snow plow parenting. My kid eats a sandwich, apple slices and gold fish every single day. Not fancy at all! But the school provided lunches are something even I as an adult would find hard to eat, and I am one of the least picky adults in my circle. Providing food your kid will eat is basic parenting.

Actually, basic parenting is making your kids responsible for assembling their own lunch.

People who say this only give their kids pre-packaged processed foods for lunch. Which is fine. But if lunch is left overs and fresh foods that need to be portioned out, cut with a sharp knife, put in containers, etc. then an adult needs to do that. A 7-year-old cannot peel and cut chunks of mango nor cut a square of leftover lasagna and put it in a smaller container, not without making an unnecessary mess and causing more work for his parents. Get real.

Parents need to give their kids more responsibility, and trust that they're capable. It might be more work for you when they're 7, but it pays off down the road.

Lol, no. My parents made lunches for me until the day I graduated high school. I view that as evidence of their love and caring for me. I am a fully functional adult, never dealt with anxiety, cook dinner 6x a week and make my own children’s lunches every day but pizza day. Sorry but you are off on this one.

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Anonymous wrote:Things that shocked me: Kids not walking a mile to school, or in the rain, or in the cold. Families making lunch every single day. Teacher/or child calling from school that the child forgot something at home. Parents routinely standing at the school door, or at the playground, or wherever the closest is they are allowed. School expectation that a parent has free time -during the school/work day- more than rarely. Kiss and Ride .. the idea that parents make this nonsense part of their day. It's not a private school w/no bus service. Use the bus

Parents are wacko. That's why there is so much anxiety.

While I agree kids are too coddled and 99.8% of this “anxiety” is excuse-making or performative bullshit, I find it odd these things “shock” you.

1) My kids walk 3/4 a mile to school. In a group with other kids. Just like I did in 1980. Most kids do.

2) Yeah, we make their lunch. Better than the school lunch. They’re getting themselves ready during this time. So what?

3) Schools generally prohibit calling home for missing items or might allow it once. This was the policy in our LCPS school.

4) No idea what you’re on about regarding standing close to the door. Most kids find their own way home.

5) Whatever are you prattling on about regarding free time during the work day? You aren’t making sense.

6) Kiss and Ride? What?

+1 who are these weirdos equating packed lunch with snow plow parenting. My kid eats a sandwich, apple [b]slices and gold fish every single day. Not fancy at all! But the school provided lunches are something even I as an adult would find hard to eat, and I am one of the least picky adults in my circle. Providing food your kid will eat is basic parenting.

Actually, basic parenting is making your kids responsible for assembling their own lunch.

People who say this only give their kids pre-packaged processed foods for lunch. Which is fine. But if lunch is left overs and fresh foods that need to be portioned out, cut with a sharp knife, put in containers, etc. then an adult needs to do that. A 7-year-old cannot peel and cut chunks of mango nor cut a square of leftover lasagna and put it in a smaller container, not without making an unnecessary mess and causing more work for his parents. Get real.

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Anonymous wrote:Things that shocked me: Kids not walking a mile to school, or in the rain, or in the cold. Families making lunch every single day. Teacher/or child calling from school that the child forgot something at home. Parents routinely standing at the school door, or at the playground, or wherever the closest is they are allowed. School expectation that a parent has free time -during the school/work day- more than rarely. Kiss and Ride .. the idea that parents make this nonsense part of their day. It's not a private school w/no bus service. Use the bus

Parents are wacko. That's why there is so much anxiety.

While I agree kids are too coddled and 99.8% of this “anxiety” is excuse-making or performative bullshit, I find it odd these things “shock” you.

1) My kids walk 3/4 a mile to school. In a group with other kids. Just like I did in 1980. Most kids do.

2) Yeah, we make their lunch. Better than the school lunch. They’re getting themselves ready during this time. So what?

3) Schools generally prohibit calling home for missing items or might allow it once. This was the policy in our LCPS school.

4) No idea what you’re on about regarding standing close to the door. Most kids find their own way home.

5) Whatever are you prattling on about regarding free time during the work day? You aren’t making sense.

6) Kiss and Ride? What?

+1 who are these weirdos equating packed lunch with snow plow parenting. My kid eats a sandwich, apple slices and gold fish every single day. Not fancy at all! But the school provided lunches are something even I as an adult would find hard to eat, and I am one of the least picky adults in my circle. Providing food your kid will eat is basic parenting.

Anonymous wrote:So many adderall / vyvanse addicts. Not much different from the oxy addicts except easier to OD and die with opiods.

Crazy to me that parents let their kids take ADHD meds.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s coming from the parents. Yes, the low-income children have real hardships. But their parents aren’t out there expecting them to be class president, captain of a varsity team, get a 4.0 and get into Princeton. Upper income parents are a special kind of messed up lately.

My sister is in the rich private school world and her extreme fixation on college admissions is craaaazy. It does make me think I need to do more though. But the way she talks about it, it’s as if her kid (sweet, funny, tall, organized, bright, good grades, self-directed) is on the brink of disaster because she’s not in line for the top colleges.

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Anonymous wrote:Things that shocked me: Kids not walking a mile to school, or in the rain, or in the cold. Families making lunch every single day. Teacher/or child calling from school that the child forgot something at home. Parents routinely standing at the school door, or at the playground, or wherever the closest is they are allowed. School expectation that a parent has free time -during the school/work day- more than rarely. Kiss and Ride .. the idea that parents make this nonsense part of their day. It's not a private school w/no bus service. Use the bus

Parents are wacko. That's why there is so much anxiety.

While I agree kids are too coddled and 99.8% of this “anxiety” is excuse-making or performative bullshit, I find it odd these things “shock” you.

1) My kids walk 3/4 a mile to school. In a group with other kids. Just like I did in 1980. Most kids do.

2) Yeah, we make their lunch. Better than the school lunch. They’re getting themselves ready during this time. So what?

3) Schools generally prohibit calling home for missing items or might allow it once. This was the policy in our LCPS school.

4) No idea what you’re on about regarding standing close to the door. Most kids find their own way home.

5) Whatever are you prattling on about regarding free time during the work day? You aren’t making sense.

6) Kiss and Ride? What?

+1 who are these weirdos equating packed lunch with snow plow parenting. My kid eats a sandwich, apple slices and gold fish every single day. Not fancy at all! But the school provided lunches are something even I as an adult would find hard to eat, and I am one of the least picky adults in my circle. Providing food your kid will eat is basic parenting.

Actually, basic parenting is making your kids responsible for assembling their own lunch.

People who say this only give their kids pre-packaged processed foods for lunch. Which is fine. But if lunch is left overs and fresh foods that need to be portioned out, cut with a sharp knife, put in containers, etc. then an adult needs to do that. A 7-year-old cannot peel and cut chunks of mango nor cut a square of leftover lasagna and put it in a smaller container, not without making an unnecessary mess and causing more work for his parents. Get real.

Kids are fine with a sandwich with ham/turkey and cheese or a hard boiled eggs or cheese and crackers. They can put a piece of fruit in too. A banana, apple, clementine and others don’t require cutting. My kid at a variation of this for years and he made it himself starting in 2nd/3rd grade. He never had hot meals because he wouldn’t be able to heat it up at school. I ate a cheese sandwich every day for at least 6 yrs. Stop making excuses for your kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Things that shocked me: Kids not walking a mile to school, or in the rain, or in the cold. Families making lunch every single day. Teacher/or child calling from school that the child forgot something at home. Parents routinely standing at the school door, or at the playground, or wherever the closest is they are allowed. School expectation that a parent has free time -during the school/work day- more than rarely. Kiss and Ride .. the idea that parents make this nonsense part of their day. It's not a private school w/no bus service. Use the bus

Parents are wacko. That's why there is so much anxiety.

While I agree kids are too coddled and 99.8% of this “anxiety” is excuse-making or performative bullshit, I find it odd these things “shock” you.

1) My kids walk 3/4 a mile to school. In a group with other kids. Just like I did in 1980. Most kids do.

2) Yeah, we make their lunch. Better than the school lunch. They’re getting themselves ready during this time. So what?

3) Schools generally prohibit calling home for missing items or might allow it once. This was the policy in our LCPS school.

4) No idea what you’re on about regarding standing close to the door. Most kids find their own way home.

5) Whatever are you prattling on about regarding free time during the work day? You aren’t making sense.

6) Kiss and Ride? What?

+1 who are these weirdos equating packed lunch with snow plow parenting. My kid eats a sandwich, apple slices and gold fish every single day. Not fancy at all! But the school provided lunches are something even I as an adult would find hard to eat, and I am one of the least picky adults in my circle. Providing food your kid will eat is basic parenting.

Actually, basic parenting is making your kids responsible for assembling their own lunch.

People who say this only give their kids pre-packaged processed foods for lunch. Which is fine. But if lunch is left overs and fresh foods that need to be portioned out, cut with a sharp knife, put in containers, etc. then an adult needs to do that. A 7-year-old cannot peel and cut chunks of mango nor cut a square of leftover lasagna and put it in a smaller container, not without making an unnecessary mess and causing more work for his parents. Get real.

Parents need to give their kids more responsibility, and trust that they're capable. It might be more work for you when they're 7, but it pays off down the road.

Anonymous wrote:It is big pharma pushing meds. It is not only kids over-diagnosed. It is the same with adults.

Just look at ADHD symptoms. Very normal stuff. Nobody is on point all the time. Pushing Amphetamines to very normal people.

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Anonymous wrote:Not the PP but working parents do not need to cart their kids around to activities that take the place of family dinners and bedtime. My neighbor has an 8 yr old in aftercare and then takes him to a bunch of activities after that. A few nights per week he has soccer/lacrosse until 9pm. No way is that good for anyone.

What dog do you have in this fight if you have to use a neighbor as an example? How old are your kids?

Mine are 2 and 4. I will not be shuttling them around everywhere. I honestly don’t have the time or energy (or money).

Yes you will.

Nope. No dinero. I’m DCUM poor. My kids qualify for free preschool and free school meals.

I don’t think your kids coming home doing nothing but playing video games and watching TV after school will be coming out ahead in the end, speaking of what’s “good for anyone.”

We don't have a TV or internet at home. Just a data plan for my phone. We get home at 6ish and I make dinner while they play with toys, look at books, etc. We eat, I give them baths, and read to them and they go to bed. Dishes, laundry, pack lunch for the next day, send some work emails, read a chapter of a book, go to bed. Unless I win the lottery, this setup won't change. I don't have money for extras like activities, wifi, etc. I feel lucky if I have money for free fruit instead of frozen.

Your children's world is going to change when they get older. Prepare to change with them.

Unless they can counterfeit some money, not much can change.

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Anonymous wrote:Not the PP but working parents do not need to cart their kids around to activities that take the place of family dinners and bedtime. My neighbor has an 8 yr old in aftercare and then takes him to a bunch of activities after that. A few nights per week he has soccer/lacrosse until 9pm. No way is that good for anyone.

What dog do you have in this fight if you have to use a neighbor as an example? How old are your kids?

Mine are 2 and 4. I will not be shuttling them around everywhere. I honestly don’t have the time or energy (or money).

Yes you will.

Nope. No dinero. I’m DCUM poor. My kids qualify for free preschool and free school meals.

I don’t think your kids coming home doing nothing but playing video games and watching TV after school will be coming out ahead in the end, speaking of what’s “good for anyone.”

We don't have a TV or internet at home. Just a data plan for my phone. We get home at 6ish and I make dinner while they play with toys, look at books, etc. We eat, I give them baths, and read to them and they go to bed. Dishes, laundry, pack lunch for the next day, send some work emails, read a chapter of a book, go to bed. Unless I win the lottery, this setup won't change. I don't have money for extras like activities, wifi, etc. I feel lucky if I have money for free fruit instead of frozen.

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Anonymous wrote:Not the PP but working parents do not need to cart their kids around to activities that take the place of family dinners and bedtime. My neighbor has an 8 yr old in aftercare and then takes him to a bunch of activities after that. A few nights per week he has soccer/lacrosse until 9pm. No way is that good for anyone.

What dog do you have in this fight if you have to use a neighbor as an example? How old are your kids?

Mine are 2 and 4. I will not be shuttling them around everywhere. I honestly don’t have the time or energy (or money).

Yes you will.

Nope. No dinero. I’m DCUM poor. My kids qualify for free preschool and free school meals.

I don’t think your kids coming home doing nothing but playing video games and watching TV after school will be coming out ahead in the end, speaking of what’s “good for anyone.”

We don't have a TV or internet at home. Just a data plan for my phone. We get home at 6ish and I make dinner while they play with toys, look at books, etc. We eat, I give them baths, and read to them and they go to bed. Dishes, laundry, pack lunch for the next day, send some work emails, read a chapter of a book, go to bed. Unless I win the lottery, this setup won't change. I don't have money for extras like activities, wifi, etc. I feel lucky if I have money for free fruit instead of frozen.

Your children's world is going to change when they get older. Prepare to change with them.

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Anonymous wrote:Not the PP but working parents do not need to cart their kids around to activities that take the place of family dinners and bedtime. My neighbor has an 8 yr old in aftercare and then takes him to a bunch of activities after that. A few nights per week he has soccer/lacrosse until 9pm. No way is that good for anyone.

What dog do you have in this fight if you have to use a neighbor as an example? How old are your kids?

Mine are 2 and 4. I will not be shuttling them around everywhere. I honestly don’t have the time or energy (or money).

Yes you will.

Nope. No dinero. I’m DCUM poor. My kids qualify for free preschool and free school meals.

I don’t think your kids coming home doing nothing but playing video games and watching TV after school will be coming out ahead in the end, speaking of what’s “good for anyone.”

We don't have a TV or internet at home. Just a data plan for my phone. We get home at 6ish and I make dinner while they play with toys, look at books, etc. We eat, I give them baths, and read to them and they go to bed. Dishes, laundry, pack lunch for the next day, send some work emails, read a chapter of a book, go to bed. Unless I win the lottery, this setup won't change. I don't have money for extras like activities, wifi, etc. I feel lucky if I have money for free fruit instead of frozen.

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Anonymous wrote:Not the PP but working parents do not need to cart their kids around to activities that take the place of family dinners and bedtime. My neighbor has an 8 yr old in aftercare and then takes him to a bunch of activities after that. A few nights per week he has soccer/lacrosse until 9pm. No way is that good for anyone.

What dog do you have in this fight if you have to use a neighbor as an example? How old are your kids?

Mine are 2 and 4. I will not be shuttling them around everywhere. I honestly don’t have the time or energy (or money).

Yes you will.

Nope. No dinero. I’m DCUM poor. My kids qualify for free preschool and free school meals.

I don’t think your kids coming home doing nothing but playing video games and watching TV after school will be coming out ahead in the end, speaking of what’s “good for anyone.”