Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My Gen Z kids say they have no interest in bringing children into a world they believe is doomed. Maybe in time they’ll change their minds, but in not going to get my hopes up for grandchildren.
+1
Hopefully society can turn it around, but as of right now my kids think the world is doomed.
Growing up with insane Trump/MAGAs running around will do that to a generation.
Only if their parents and mainstream media make them believe that's a bigger problem than it is. My Gen Z kids know better. They know that Hamas, terrorists, and Putin and the dying of our natural habitats from factory farming are the biggest threats to the planet. Not the changing dynamics of American politics.
Anonymous wrote:Why have kids when you can stay single and focus more of your time on your career and your own happiness?
Anonymous wrote:Based on your views and perceptions, how do you think Gen Z will handle having kids, will they have more kids or less kids? It seems like for the oldest Zoomers, they aren’t having much kids.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My Gen Z kids say they have no interest in bringing children into a world they believe is doomed. Maybe in time they’ll change their minds, but in not going to get my hopes up for grandchildren.
+1
Hopefully society can turn it around, but as of right now my kids think the world is doomed.
Growing up with insane Trump/MAGAs running around will do that to a generation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just want my kid to have a relationship— not looking ahead to kids.
I would say a majority of the women 40 and younger in my office are childless by choice.
childfree
All your ancestors with its trials and tribulations only for a weakling to come and end the genetic lineage because you’re a snowflake
We’re both of any of you infertile? If so, completely understandable. If not, disturbing option to choose others over your own flesh and blood.
Why the narcissism? My DH and I adopted our 3 kids. He himself is an adoptee and we strongly agreed adoption only.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I just want my kid to have a relationship— not looking ahead to kids.
I would say a majority of the women 40 and younger in my office are childless by choice.
childfree
All your ancestors with its trials and tribulations only for a weakling to come and end the genetic lineage because you’re a snowflake
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Give them a few years. When I was 21 I didn't want to get married or have kids. I changed my mind at 25. Had to finish grad school, then git married at 30, kida at 31 and 33. You change a lot in your 20s!
+1. I didn’t even want to get married when I was 21, let alone have kids. The dream was to be single forever.
+1 no desire for kids. Married at 28 and having fun, living it up.
Two months before I turned 35 I decided to give it a try. I had one at 35 and one at 37. I knew I definitely wanted a second. But- was a hard decision to get to the first for husband and I. We could have seen life either way. Of course, once first was born we couldn’t imagine life without him. But, it’s hard. Our sons (19&16) have been so easy. No major problems, straight A students, kind, self-motivated, good friend groups, etc. but being a parent not only costs a ton of $$$—it’s also so much work.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Give them a few years. When I was 21 I didn't want to get married or have kids. I changed my mind at 25. Had to finish grad school, then git married at 30, kida at 31 and 33. You change a lot in your 20s!
+1. I didn’t even want to get married when I was 21, let alone have kids. The dream was to be single forever.