Anonymous wrote:It was all on the OTHER computer that belonged to the child with the same first name. the school was in rush to retaliate and didn’t check properly basics. The most appalling thing is that my child was aware that that child is always on a bad website during school hours. That’s the scary part…. And they only discover it because they want to dig up dirt on my son because I complained that I couldn’t get access to the missing assignments…

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry about my presentation.

I just needed to figure out where to go to navigate this so I posted pretty quickly dictating and not seeing the letters very well due to deteriorating eyesight.

I think — with the help form here — my plan is to email the principal because the assistant principal is proving useless, copy county ombudsman, request my son is granted till September the time to complete those assignments (as now I don’t know when will i get him back to being motivated… He needs some rest). And move out!!!

And hold off on media - I just don’t have the space at this time to accomplish it. I can always write a book later. I promise the style will be more coherent.

What the actual F are yo talking about? That is . . . next year.

Anonymous wrote:I am sorry about my presentation.

I just needed to figure out where to go to navigate this so I posted pretty quickly dictating and not seeing the letters very well due to deteriorating eyesight.

I think — with the help form here — my plan is to email the principal because the assistant principal is proving useless, copy county ombudsman, request my son is granted till September the time to complete those assignments (as now I don’t know when will i get him back to being motivated… He needs some rest). And move out!!!

And hold off on media - I just don’t have the space at this time to accomplish it. I can always write a book later. I promise the style will be more coherent.

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Anonymous wrote:He was accused of something that would draw attention of a local law enforcement.

He has ADHD.

I have been in contact with School about lack of support on their part in response to my multiple emails requesting help. I told them that I intend to contact the county and mass media. This is of course, our desperation to get School ‘adequate’ attention (as they were simply footballing my child around ) and I really meant it and I still mean it. After all me and my husband pay a lot of taxes to support the school.

It is right after I complained, the school in rush, pulled my son in and accused him. he right away, pointed out that it’s a different child with the same first name who should be accused. I believe that was the schools way to shut me down, but instead it escalated even more. They didn’t even get their basic facts straight… digital footprint is usually associated with full names so all they had to do is to check which Larla did that…

Very tough times.

In summary: This was a very brief case of mistaken identity, that was cleared up quickly. OP's son is not in trouble. But (i) OP believes that it was in retaliation for her pressing about homework assignments, (ii) is contacting the ombudsman (or someone else) because of it, and (iii) wants to switch schools because of it.

Conclusion: Op is off her rocker.

You mention digital footprint. If something your child sent to someone or received from someone, don’t you have have the emails or whatever it is on your side? Could you not just print that out and present?

You say “which Larla.” Is that supposed to be your son or is there also a girl involved that you could get help from?

They school accused her kid of something that another child did and he had to stay home until they realized the mistake. The kid is now upset, understandably and probalby has rumors going around about him even though he is innocent. It wasn't that hard to follow.

This is op. Thanks for your help to explain. Emotions are still raw so my style is not perfect.

To add, the school called me and said on the phone - “we found xyz that your son searched online and he did it at midnight from your home.” — I was speechless for I don’t know how long. Then somehow I gathered myself and said I want to find out more and who exactly is the person who gave my son the idea for that search, because based on my conversation, there is always someone at school influencing my child to choose bad choices…

The school then asked if I could bring my son over with his laptop. When the school showed their XYZ pictures to my son he got immediately visibly upset and immediately replied that was a different Larlo! That Larlo is always on that website!

The quote above is now sitting in my head like PTSD.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry about my presentation.

I just needed to figure out where to go to navigate this so I posted pretty quickly dictating and not seeing the letters very well due to deteriorating eyesight.

I think — with the help form here — my plan is to email the principal because the assistant principal is proving useless, copy county ombudsman, request my son is granted till September the time to complete those assignments (as now I don’t know when will i get him back to being motivated… He needs some rest). And move out!!!

And hold off on media - I just don’t have the space at this time to accomplish it. I can always write a book later. I promise the style will be more coherent.

You’re a troll, correct? This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read. You’re going to write a book! LOL!

And you are clearly form the school. Be ready for the recordings of my crying child after what you have done.

Holy cow. OP is on track to blow up her family's whole world and not even see herself do it. I hope there is a co-parent doing damage control.

I also have the picture of my son with really really red eyes from crying because of the school… this is what the school did and they need to know. an apology email to parents is not gonna cut it. They need to apologize to my son as well in person.

That's never going to happen. A school will never apologize because apologizing is admitting guilt and admitting guilt opens them up even more if a lawsuit is brought.

Get your kid some therapy and stat working on healing. If he really is that traumatized, healing needs to happen. REAL healing.

The school already apologized via email. Focus on your son’s healing and not the school.

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Anonymous wrote:I have no idea what the problem is but try contacting the ombuds who is there to help families navigate problems. https://www.fcps.edu/ombuds

You can also fine the regional assistant superintendent for your child’s school and contact them. Find your school on the FCPS website and it will say which region and link you to that office.

Thank you — I will contact them.

Anonymous wrote:It was all on the OTHER computer that belonged to the child with the same first name. the school was in rush to retaliate and didn’t check properly basics. The most appalling thing is that my child was aware that that child is always on a bad website during school hours. That’s the scary part…. And they only discover it because they want to dig up dirt on my son because I complained that I couldn’t get access to the missing assignments…

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry about my presentation.

I just needed to figure out where to go to navigate this so I posted pretty quickly dictating and not seeing the letters very well due to deteriorating eyesight.

I think — with the help form here — my plan is to email the principal because the assistant principal is proving useless, copy county ombudsman, request my son is granted till September the time to complete those assignments (as now I don’t know when will i get him back to being motivated… He needs some rest). And move out!!!

And hold off on media - I just don’t have the space at this time to accomplish it. I can always write a book later. I promise the style will be more coherent.

You’re a troll, correct? This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read. You’re going to write a book! LOL!

And you are clearly form the school. Be ready for the recordings of my crying child after what you have done.

Holy cow. OP is on track to blow up her family's whole world and not even see herself do it. I hope there is a co-parent doing damage control.

I also have the picture of my son with really really red eyes from crying because of the school… this is what the school did and they need to know. an apology email to parents is not gonna cut it. They need to apologize to my son as well in person.

That's never going to happen. A school will never apologize because apologizing is admitting guilt and admitting guilt opens them up even more if a lawsuit is brought.

Get your kid some therapy and stat working on healing. If he really is that traumatized, healing needs to happen. REAL healing.

The school already apologized via email. Focus on your son’s healing and not the school.

Anonymous wrote:Is there a language barrier getting in the way of communications between you and the school? Seems like perhaps that could be the case.

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Anonymous wrote:I am sorry about my presentation.

I just needed to figure out where to go to navigate this so I posted pretty quickly dictating and not seeing the letters very well due to deteriorating eyesight.

I think — with the help form here — my plan is to email the principal because the assistant principal is proving useless, copy county ombudsman, request my son is granted till September the time to complete those assignments (as now I don’t know when will i get him back to being motivated… He needs some rest). And move out!!!

And hold off on media - I just don’t have the space at this time to accomplish it. I can always write a book later. I promise the style will be more coherent.

You’re a troll, correct? This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read. You’re going to write a book! LOL!

And you are clearly form the school. Be ready for the recordings of my crying child after what you have done.

Holy cow. OP is on track to blow up her family's whole world and not even see herself do it. I hope there is a co-parent doing damage control.

I also have the picture of my son with really really red eyes from crying because of the school… this is what the school did and they need to know. an apology email to parents is not gonna cut it. They need to apologize to my son as well in person.

That's never going to happen. A school will never apologize because apologizing is admitting guilt and admitting guilt opens them up even more if a lawsuit is brought.

Get your kid some therapy and stat working on healing. If he really is that traumatized, healing needs to happen. REAL healing.