Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m pp and I’m not talking about people with severe dementia. Just generally about facilities. We as a country don’t prioritize prevention and thriving.
What are the steps to preventing dementia that we as a country should prioritize? What type of "thriving" specifically are you looking for?
And severe dementia can develop quicker than the loved ones/caregivers realize. When someone is around the dementia patient frequently they don't see it and are often in denial.
Anonymous wrote:I think of a nursing home as a bed in a sometimes shared room with strangers. One grandmother was on Medicaid and in such a place.
My mom is in assisted living and has her own one-bedroom apartment so we call it her apartment instead of a nursing home.
Her being at home was making me stressed and ill. The medication management was a nightmare and she was taking meds at wrong times or not at all despite our signs.
She did not want people in the house.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes to therapeutic lying, but please go tour some assisted living places. These are not the nightmare nursing homes you or she is imagining. My mother is absolutely thriving in hers after being depressed and undernourished and dirty at home.
Same here. Mother perked up once living in AL and eating more than just cookies.
Anonymous wrote:I think of a nursing home as a bed in a sometimes shared room with strangers. One grandmother was on Medicaid and in such a place.
My mom is in assisted living and has her own one-bedroom apartment so we call it her apartment instead of a nursing home.
Her being at home was making me stressed and ill. The medication management was a nightmare and she was taking meds at wrong times or not at all despite our signs.
She did not want people in the house.
Anonymous wrote:These stories of fell and couldn’t get up should not be happening any more. Buying an allle watch with alerts is cheaper than nursing care. My parents are in their 90s and still living independently. Two out of 7 of my elderly relatives had dementia. I just don’t know why we can’t accept euthanasia for people at the state where they are no longer themselves. That’s what we’d all want l, but no one will do it so you end up with people planning to take their lives when they are still competent — that’s a tragedy. I do thing there will be a sea change. Gen X just looks at this very differently than my parents generation, which has a lot of moral baggage about this stuff.
Anonymous wrote:Yes to therapeutic lying, but please go tour some assisted living places. These are not the nightmare nursing homes you or she is imagining. My mother is absolutely thriving in hers after being depressed and undernourished and dirty at home.