Anonymous wrote:Why would he be this hurtful to you?
Anonymous wrote:He loves you in many ways. WHy focus on one?
Think about owning a car. No car has all the qualities you want 100%. The sports car has no cargo space, the minivan handles poorly, the SUV uses too much gas, etc. So what?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Break up. But in your next relationship, don’t fish for compliments by comparing your body to porn stars’ bodies.
Also consider not watching porn to begin with. I can’t believe so many people still think this is healthy behavior in a committed relationship.
why not?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Break up. But in your next relationship, don’t fish for compliments by comparing your body to porn stars’ bodies.
Also consider not watching porn to begin with. I can’t believe so many people still think this is healthy behavior in a committed relationship.
Anonymous wrote:My partner let it slip last night that he has never found me super attractive. He said I’m attractive and sexy but not hot or physically beautiful. He said he’s still very attracted to me. I have been told I have very nice big breasts - which I thought he loved - but he said they are nice but not the best. This has devastated me - I want my partner to feel like I’m super attractive and he loves my body. I’m thinking of parting ways with him but I’m not sure if I’m overreacting.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You both sound shallow.
I don't think it's shallow for a woman to not want her partner to say to her that "I don't find you super attractive".
I'm not super attractive, neither is DH. But, I would never say that to him, or vice versa. DH says I'm beautiful all the time, but I know he knows that I'm not super attractive.
Someone who says that to a person that they supposedly love is just mean.
How did this happen, OP? Were you asking questions and pressing? Was he drunk? Were you arguing? Or ???
OP here. We were watching P@rn and he was watching one with big breasts and I said those look like mine and he said
“ no, hers are better. I jokingly said
“ what..you don’t like mine” and he said that they weren’t the best he’s had but he likes them. I did pry and he told me it’s okay because he’s sure there’s things that I don’t like about him. Then he said I wasn’t as attractive as his previous partners but I’m the nicest and have the best personality. I got mad and left.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would break up.
There are times whenl honesty is not the best policy. Partners should really like their partners' looks and keep quiet about flaws and imperfections.
I don't know why, in recent times, people feel the need for brutal honesty all the time.
Folks, just because you have a thought in your mind that does not mean it needs to come out of your mouth, your keyboard, whatever. Unless your partner had some very good reason for saying what he did, and I cannot imagine what that would be, he should have kept his mouth shut. It was unkind, unnecessary, and unhelpful. Not sure what he thought he was gaining by saying what he said.
Anonymous wrote:I would break up.
There are times whenl honesty is not the best policy. Partners should really like their partners' looks and keep quiet about flaws and imperfections.