Spouse lost interest in sex after having kids.

Anonymous wrote:I am attracted to someone else.

Gross.

Let's get this thread back on track:

His disinterest in making me come.

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Anonymous wrote:Donald Trump and Joe Rogan

What??

Joe Rogan is brilliant and real.

Does he still talk about his non-existent friend's wife who was a teacher and had to put out kitty litter for a student who "identified as a cat" or do you people just move on and pretend he didn't tell a despicable fu**ing ie to "own the libs"?

I agree w/ him on a lot of diet/health issues, but only an idiot would listen to him on politics when his agenda is crystal clear and half-assed. The man hosted a show where people were dared to eat animal nutsacks. He has no business discussing politics, just like most of the idiots with no actual *credentials* It seems cons like their podcasters/radio/TV hosts having no actual education or background in the topics they bleat on about...starting w/ Limbaugh.

As opposed to NPR where you can be suspended for holding the incorrect opinion?

I gave a specific example of Rogan outright LYING. Your turn, rather than some general comment about "opinion." Do you actually have an example of someone "liberal" on NPR being allowed to outright lie to their audience for political purposes and keeping their job? You're supposed to counter what I wrote w/ a similar example.

I am attracted to someone else.

DH has the emotional/relational depth of a kindergartener.

Anonymous wrote:Donald Trump and Joe Rogan

A difference in political opinions and a podcaster are strains in your marriage? I feel sorry for your husband.

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Anonymous wrote:His snoring and my (related) exhaustion.

Do you have another bedroom in the house? My husband started sleeping in the guest room (which is on a different floor and is generally much colder than the rest of the house, so he actually loves it). I highly recommend it. Our marriage is otherwise great now that I don't hate him for ruining my sleep. (I tried multiple kinds of ear plugs, noise machines, and sleeping pills before coming to this solution).

Agreed.We’ve been sleeping in separate rooms for 5 years now and we both love it. We’ve each made our rooms comfortable and inviting so it doesn’t feel temporary. It’s been such a positive move for us and no change in the amount of sex (lots). We just came back from vacation where we shared a bed and I spent most nights gently shaking him every 20 minutes until I gave up and slept on a couch in another room. We would love to sleep in the same bed but it's exhausting for both of us.

Leaving the dirty dishes in the kitchen after eating. (Yes, we have a good marriage. When I'm in a good mood, it doesn't bother me. When I'm irritated by life, it drives me up the wall.)

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Anonymous wrote:His snoring and my (related) exhaustion.

Do you have another bedroom in the house? My husband started sleeping in the guest room (which is on a different floor and is generally much colder than the rest of the house, so he actually loves it). I highly recommend it. Our marriage is otherwise great now that I don't hate him for ruining my sleep. (I tried multiple kinds of ear plugs, noise machines, and sleeping pills before coming to this solution).

Sadly, no. We have a three bedroom apartment - our 11 year old has a single bed in her room and our 7 year old has our old double bed. Many nights I will go in and sleep with her but this isn’t ideal because she’s not great at sleeping through the night on her own and she’s made a lot of progress that we want to encourage. So I try to avoid it. Sometimes I’ll invite my 11 year old to have a “sleep over” in our room and send DH to go sleep in her room. Since I tend to stay up the latest I’m considering some sort of mattress I could put out in our living room at night. He was tested for apnea (negative). I’d like him to lose a little weight and / or go to the ENT. He’s open to both in theory but hasn’t taken steps on either yet. Which maybe is an argument that the actual worst problem in our marriage is we’re busy and he doesn’t prioritize his health. (His sister has had some health issues and for two years I’ve told him the only birthday present I want is for him to get an early colonoscopy- recommended because his sister has had some pre-cancerous polyps removed. He hasn’t done it yet (and he’s not 45 so his doctor hasn’t pressured him, but has approved him for one) and I spend a lot of energy worrying.)

Anonymous wrote:His snoring and my (related) exhaustion.

Do you have another bedroom in the house? My husband started sleeping in the guest room (which is on a different floor and is generally much colder than the rest of the house, so he actually loves it). I highly recommend it. Our marriage is otherwise great now that I don't hate him for ruining my sleep. (I tried multiple kinds of ear plugs, noise machines, and sleeping pills before coming to this solution).

My husband doesn’t seem to understand that money does not grow on trees and thinks that whole life insurance is a good idea.

Whole life IS a good idea for some (wealthy) people.

Dem here. Wondering if the Rogan haters have actually listened to his podcast. He is terrific. Using a word like “dumb” is well dumb. I am guessing you are a one source CNN type as am I but dont let the news skew your viewpoint

Anonymous wrote:Frequently starts unnecessary projects or embarks on side hustles without considering the true cost to herself, anyone else, or the household. Leaves previous projects unfinished when they are no longer the new shiny thing.

Untreated ADD?

Any of the kids have a diagnosis?

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Anonymous wrote:Donald Trump and Joe Rogan

What??

Joe Rogan is brilliant and real.

Troll. No one can be this dumb

You are dumb.

Joe Rogan is great.

He's an ignorant reality TV star with zero credentials. So, not great.
Reminds me of another reality star in some ways . . . .