Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 19:15     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Anonymous wrote:Younger me would have said not but older me says absolutely.


Younger, older and future me would burn that sh@t down. No fear of confrontation here. Lol

Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 19:13     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Younger me would have said not but older me says absolutely.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 19:12     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Tons of wives
telling cautionary tales (beeewaaare!)
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 19:11     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Anonymous wrote:I did not tell, to protect HER kids. Even though my kids are no children of divorce

Take the high road.

You did the wrong thing and you absolutely did not protect her children.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 19:10     Subject: Re:Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Anonymous wrote:I did. I didn’t follow up. I emailed the husband and felt that was my due diligence. Then I let it go and focused on my own family. I saw they later divorced.


You know these are all made up ?!
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 19:08     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Anonymous wrote:Heck yes, blow it up. I did. DH and AP, each family had two young kids. We're all divorced. Their love story could not withstand being brought out into the open.


That was no “love story”. Lol
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 19:01     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Heck yes, blow it up. I did. DH and AP, each family had two young kids. We're all divorced. Their love story could not withstand being brought out into the open.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 18:58     Subject: Re:Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
I did. I didn’t follow up. I emailed the husband and felt that was my due diligence. Then I let it go and focused on my own family. I saw they later divorced.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 18:57     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Definitely.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 18:56     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
I found his contact info in linked in op.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 18:51     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Anonymous wrote:I did not tell, to protect HER kids. Even though my kids are no children of divorce

Take the high road.


She didn’t think of HER own kids and certainly didn’t think about YOUR kids. Telling her husband what she did is not a bad thing at all. You owe that woman absolutely nothing.

If they never talk to her again, that is a consequence of her own choices.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 18:50     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
I would
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 18:49     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Do it
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 18:47     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
I did not tell, to protect HER kids. Even though my kids are no children of divorce

Take the high road.
Anonymous
Post 04/08/2024 18:43     Subject: Would you tell DH’s AP’s husband?
Anonymous wrote:Just confirmed the affair 100%, sadly both EA and physical now.
Not sure what will happen with me and DH. He’s ending it, as he says he wants “us” over her. But we obv have a LOT to figure out.

But being in a world of anger and pain, I feel that AP should not get off scott free. I’m assuming she loves my DH, so his ending it will hurt. Any reason why I should not blow up her marriage as she/DH have done mine?


No reason not to. I did. Via email to his work address, cc’ing her. FAFO.