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Anonymous wrote:Getting into a varsity team in a good high school is extremely competitive. For example for a junior to make it to varsity volleyball, they is often just one spot and there are 20 kids competing for it. I don’t know about other areas but McLean and Langley have extremely competitive teams and you really need to be excellent at your sport if you want to make it on the varsity team.

How do you define a good school? For some reason Catholic schools always come out on top. Otherwise the top schools for sports seem like random towns.

I’m not the pp but I also reside in McLean. I don’t know how our sports compare to other schools. What I do know is that a lot of kids in McLean play baseball and soccer and 100 kids may try out for ~15 spots.

I just posted that my kid is trying out for tennis and there is only one team of 16. There is no freshmen or JV team. 15 players are supposedly returning. There are other schools that may not be able to fill their tennis and golf teams.

I promise I'm not trying to minimize how challenging it is to make the team. But I will highlight that they will (should) take the best 16. And that may mean that some of those returning 15 do not make the team.

I've seen it happen when my freshman DD made the varsity softball team and a returning varsity player did not

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Anonymous wrote:Getting into a varsity team in a good high school is extremely competitive. For example for a junior to make it to varsity volleyball, they is often just one spot and there are 20 kids competing for it. I don’t know about other areas but McLean and Langley have extremely competitive teams and you really need to be excellent at your sport if you want to make it on the varsity team.

How do you define a good school? For some reason Catholic schools always come out on top. Otherwise the top schools for sports seem like random towns.

I’m not the pp but I also reside in McLean. I don’t know how our sports compare to other schools. What I do know is that a lot of kids in McLean play baseball and soccer and 100 kids may try out for ~15 spots.

I just posted that my kid is trying out for tennis and there is only one team of 16. There is no freshmen or JV team. 15 players are supposedly returning. There are other schools that may not be able to fill their tennis and golf teams.

We stopped doing rec because the coaches were terrible. They were parents who favored their untalented kids, screamed and cussed from the sidelines,[b] and had no clue how to teach the basics. They were all about a snack sign up genius too. I'm happy to play for a travel/club baseball team with quality coaches who are former MLB, have no kids on the team, seem to know what they are doing, and don't have a snack sign up. You get what you pay for.

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Anonymous wrote:Getting into a varsity team in a good high school is extremely competitive. For example for a junior to make it to varsity volleyball, they is often just one spot and there are 20 kids competing for it. I don’t know about other areas but McLean and Langley have extremely competitive teams and you really need to be excellent at your sport if you want to make it on the varsity team.

How do you define a good school? For some reason Catholic schools always come out on top. Otherwise the top schools for sports seem like random towns.

Anonymous wrote:Getting into a varsity team in a good high school is extremely competitive. For example for a junior to make it to varsity volleyball, they is often just one spot and there are 20 kids competing for it. I don’t know about other areas but McLean and Langley have extremely competitive teams and you really need to be excellent at your sport if you want to make it on the varsity team.

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Anonymous wrote:But your kids are still unathletic and won’t even play high school . Why put in such effort shoulder 🤷‍♀️

I think because you don’t know at age 8 whether the kid will make the high school team. But if they don’t learn now their chances are pretty slim.

That’s not true. An 8 year old can be coached 5 days a week for years and still not have what it takes. The kid who started at 12 years old who played rec ball and neighborhood ball comes in with unmistaken potential and talent. He’ll be on varsity as a freshman. The 8 year old who gave it all he had won’t be.

This is both true and false…

Intensive training at 8yo is a waste for most sports, absolutely. But these days- age 12 is too late to start from scratch in many sports (not all) and have any expectation of playing in HS. Few kids will be able to begin a sport for the first time and then be able to make varsity 2 years later. That is crazy talk unless it is a tiny high school or unpopular sport.

There is a happy medium: rec sports to learn fundamentals -until the preteen years. Then reevaluate based on the kid’s interests and presumed talent levels.

Anonymous wrote:Getting into a varsity team in a good high school is extremely competitive. For example for a junior to make it to varsity volleyball, they is often just one spot and there are 20 kids competing for it. I don’t know about other areas but McLean and Langley have extremely competitive teams and you really need to be excellent at your sport if you want to make it on the varsity team.

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Anonymous wrote:NP. As a rec parent, my goal with DD is just for her to learn some basics of the game and get some exercise. I would rather she be focused on academics, not athletics. Signed- Nerd who outearns all the jocks from my high school.

Nobody wants to be a nasty troll like you.

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Anonymous wrote:This is a very interesting thread. I have 4th grade boys. They have done tennis, rock climbing, swim team. They are now doing rec basketball and rec baseball this year. They also have been playing an instrument since they were 4 and are in orchestra now: so that's two days a week we go to their music class. They also play chess competitively. They love everything I have introduced them too, but are not yet passionate about one sport. I am glad they have been exposed to many different activities.

But it seems people are saying by age 12 at the latest they will have to choose one sport, get on a good travel team, and get expert coaching/training in order to make the high school team. I had no idea making the high school team was so competitive!

How did you not know this? Do you have no friends or relatives with high school aged kids? This has been true for awhile now.

She may not have known because her kids are otherwise engaged and it shouldn't have to be like that. Unfortunately, that's the reality though

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Anonymous wrote:This is a very interesting thread. I have 4th grade boys. They have done tennis, rock climbing, swim team. They are now doing rec basketball and rec baseball this year. They also have been playing an instrument since they were 4 and are in orchestra now: so that's two days a week we go to their music class. They also play chess competitively. They love everything I have introduced them too, but are not yet passionate about one sport. I am glad they have been exposed to many different activities.

But it seems people are saying by age 12 at the latest they will have to choose one sport, get on a good travel team, and get expert coaching/training in order to make the high school team. I had no idea making the high school team was so competitive!

Actually I think OP is questioning all of it, travel sports but also scheduled kids like yours, with all their various activities.

Anonymous wrote:This is a very interesting thread. I have 4th grade boys. They have done tennis, rock climbing, swim team. They are now doing rec basketball and rec baseball this year. They also have been playing an instrument since they were 4 and are in orchestra now: so that's two days a week we go to their music class. They also play chess competitively. They love everything I have introduced them too, but are not yet passionate about one sport. I am glad they have been exposed to many different activities.

But it seems people are saying by age 12 at the latest they will have to choose one sport, get on a good travel team, and get expert coaching/training in order to make the high school team. I had no idea making the high school team was so competitive!

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Anonymous wrote:This is a very interesting thread. I have 4th grade boys. They have done tennis, rock climbing, swim team. They are now doing rec basketball and rec baseball this year. They also have been playing an instrument since they were 4 and are in orchestra now: so that's two days a week we go to their music class. They also play chess competitively. They love everything I have introduced them too, but are not yet passionate about one sport. I am glad they have been exposed to many different activities.

But it seems people are saying by age 12 at the latest they will have to choose one sport, get on a good travel team, and get expert coaching/training in order to make the high school team. I had no idea making the high school team was so competitive!

How did you not know this? Do you have no friends or relatives with high school aged kids? This has been true for awhile now.

Anonymous wrote:This is a very interesting thread. I have 4th grade boys. They have done tennis, rock climbing, swim team. They are now doing rec basketball and rec baseball this year. They also have been playing an instrument since they were 4 and are in orchestra now: so that's two days a week we go to their music class. They also play chess competitively. They love everything I have introduced them too, but are not yet passionate about one sport. I am glad they have been exposed to many different activities.

But it seems people are saying by age 12 at the latest they will have to choose one sport, get on a good travel team, and get expert coaching/training in order to make the high school team. I had no idea making the high school team was so competitive!