Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP back with an update:

We divorced and it was finalized last month. For a million reasons I’m grieving, and it sounds so ridiculous, but I truly think this is the day my marriage died and there was no going back. I just couldn’t do it all on my own, anymore.

The bad news is that I’m alone. The good news is I don’t have to constantly anticipate being left in my times of most need (which, was a recurring theme).

No, it wasn’t just this incident. But I think this literally was the one that broke the camels back.

(Hugs). You did the right thing. It truly is better to be alone than to have expectations and hopes that your spouse will be there for you when you need it and be disappointed time and again.