Anonymous wrote:I picked my college based on whether I had to live on campus or not. I refused to live on campus. You can't cook, you have to pay for laundry and it's way more expensive than an apartment.
Anonymous wrote:So many issues with finding off-campus housing, lease issues, landlord issues, big PIA and doing it as early as sophomore year was not a plus.
I like the campus camaraderie of schools that require on campus living longer. My kid will be attending one with a 3-year requirement. The upperclassmen have more townhouse like on campus accommodations. Sophomores more apartment style and Freshmen traditional dorms.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So many issues with finding off-campus housing, lease issues, landlord issues, big PIA and doing it as early as sophomore year was not a plus.
I like the campus camaraderie of schools that require on campus living longer. My kid will be attending one with a 3-year requirement. The upperclassmen have more townhouse like on campus accommodations. Sophomores more apartment style and Freshmen traditional dorms.
What school?
Anonymous wrote:So many issues with finding off-campus housing, lease issues, landlord issues, big PIA and doing it as early as sophomore year was not a plus.
I like the campus camaraderie of schools that require on campus living longer. My kid will be attending one with a 3-year requirement. The upperclassmen have more townhouse like on campus accommodations. Sophomores more apartment style and Freshmen traditional dorms.
Anonymous wrote:There’s a word for college kids who must have four years of housing: nerds.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I can see why some parents would want the ease and certainty of guaranteed housing. But for those kids who are jetting off to colleges that are IN metropolitan cities like Nashville, Houston, NYC, LA - there is nothing more freeing than living independently outside of the constraints and rules of the school. Kids who live off campus actually have to be an adult in the city. Landlords, utilities, maintenance, package deliveries, sublets, parking - they need to handle all this. And, at least to my kid and their friends, there's thankfully no more required meal plan. They figure out the local grocery stores and make runs to trader joe's for the week's provisions, split the costs, and figure out who is cooking meals. My kid was actually bummed they Had to stay on campus Sophomore year. But, it's likely equally a factor of the type of kids who choose these kinds of universities over a small suburban or rural campus.
This post made me laugh. You seem to think "the type of kids who choose these kinds of universities" are... better? Smarter? There is nothing better or smarter in choosing an urban school as opposed to a suburban or rural campus. Everyone eventually gets their own place and lives independently.
Way to jump to a conclusion. I made no such remark. But absolutely the kids who want to live on an isolated campus in the Berkshires are looking for something very different at 18 years old than a kid who wants to live in LA and NYC. I’m not saying they can’t get to independence eventually. But some kids are ready for and looking for the excitement of a city as their backdrop at 18. Some don’t want anything to do with it.
My kids already live in a city. Oldest is going to an urban campus— but it has a defined campus.
I was going to say similar. Friends of mine who lived in Manhattan all their lives loved going to remote colleges. They were already pretty independent. PP claiming otherwise is without a clue.
Anonymous wrote:I picked my college based on whether I had to live on campus or not. I refused to live on campus. You can't cook, you have to pay for laundry and it's way more expensive than an apartment.
Anonymous wrote:Some families cannot afford for their kid to live off campus which often requires a car (another expense) Some schools are in areas where off campus housing is more expensive. Most of the time a car would be required (to get to and from campus easily, get groceries) etc.
My kid is looking for a school where the majority of students live on campus. I lived on campus all four years during college and enjoyed the convenience. It was also nice not to have to worry about cooking. Had no problem adulting after graduation and getting my own apartment in NYC without help from a parent. And got married soon after that and had a baby by age 24.