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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

He's a weaselly 40 year old rich celebrity trying to pressure a young woman to abandon her friends and career for him.

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

+1 He says that he doesn't think they are good partners if she won't follow his list of demands. That's where she should agree and say "you're right!" He even says, no hard feelings. Why does she have hard feelings about it? It's just a dodged bullet on her end. Why is she so mad bringing this up after all this time?

Mental illness

Re the timing, I also think that given the speed this new relationship developed with and the likely similar power imbalance, she might be concerned over whether he will try some of this same stuff with the new person and might want her to be warned a little going in. Which isn't crazy, to me. Or she could be bitter. Or it could be a mix.

Hill could have been much worse than what he did here. But the rules he was imposing weren't "boundaries" for himself, they were his own insecurities that he was imposing on another person rather than do some hard work on his own. Not wanting someone you're dating to wear bathing suits instead of wetsuits while they surf (their job), or post pics of them, or surf with men, or merely TALK TO men that are not on his preapproved list is bizarre and controlling, not appropriate boundary setting like some others on here are claiming.

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

+1 He says that he doesn't think they are good partners if she won't follow his list of demands. That's where she should agree and say "you're right!" He even says, no hard feelings. Why does she have hard feelings about it? It's just a dodged bullet on her end. Why is she so mad bringing this up after all this time?

Maybe because he also says stuff like "I am literally the best boyfriend" while he is trying to stop her from having conversations with or surfing with other men? That would irk me if I were her. Like, wut?

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

+1 He says that he doesn't think they are good partners if she won't follow his list of demands. That's where she should agree and say "you're right!" He even says, no hard feelings. Why does she have hard feelings about it? It's just a dodged bullet on her end. Why is she so mad bringing this up after all this time?

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Anonymous wrote:One thing I think people in this thread are glossing over is that social media engagement is effectively her job/a major part of her job. Following his rules would be akin to asking her to quit her job and become financially dependent on him after only a few months of dating. Which is creepy and weird.

I still think she should never have released these, but his “boundaries” (not boundaries at all, rules for her life) were not reasonable.

This is where I’m at, too.

She kinda sucks.

He sucks more, though. His insecurity is so unattractive. High value LA chicks are going to see those texts and steer clear of him - the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.

Doubtful, their looks are an hourglass and the sands are running out.

People in dc don’t understand how dime a dozen hot girls in la are

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

I didn't see any manipulation. I saw straightforward idiocy.

I think he sounds controlling and like someone else mentioned just started therapy so was all about his "boundaries". At the same time, she had the option to break up with him from the first request/demand he made. Her posting this now seems incredibly petty and childish.

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

In so many words, that is what he said. He was bullying, gaslighting, and trying to manipulate a young girlfriend who lacks his fame and money. Also note the age difference. He's almost 40 and she's early 20s. He's disgusting.

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Anonymous wrote:Who are his parents? I had no idea he was the kid of famous people and a nepo kid?

I think it's kind of a stretch to call him a nepo baby. His parents are in the entertainment industry but not exactly famous. His mom is a costume designer and his dad is an accountant for entertainment clients. I'm sure it gave him a leg up to know some people in that world, and obviously being rich helps you succeed in any field, but it's not like his parents are movie stars.

Not a stretch at all. His parents may not be well-known names, but behind-the-scenes money man attached to all those A-list stars is certainly what put Jonah and Beanie ahead.

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You really think Beanie and Jonah just made it on their own? Their dad is loaded and is money manager for tons of A-listers. He made a few phone calls and voila his kids are two famous actors.

Anonymous wrote:He sure moved fast if these texts were happening in December 2021 and his new girlfriend has already had a baby by July 2023.

That's probably what made her angry. He moved on and she's still seething over some texts from an ex she dated a few months sent way back when instead of getting over it.

Anonymous wrote:He sure moved fast if these texts were happening in December 2021 and his new girlfriend has already had a baby by July 2023.

It's almost certainly an unplanned baby if you look at the timeline (see post above).

Can we talk about Hill's newborn kid?

Born in early June 2023
So that means she got pregnant in early October 2022
Hill wasn't even publicly linked to her until August 2022

So yeah, looks like a pulled goalie situation.

He sure moved fast if these texts were happening in December 2021 and his new girlfriend has already had a baby by July 2023.

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Anonymous wrote:Follow HouseInHabit. She uncovers it all, as always. Ex-girlfriend is bi-polar surfer/model looking for PR a year after they broke up and he has moved on. His texts are actually very encouraging and sane.

Sane?

Stipulating that your partner can have no friends of the opposite sex is not sane. That's manipulative and controlling.

+1. You can't have guy friends, you can't post on instagram, you can't wear a bikini, you can't make money in your profession (a profession which is how I met you!)........ for the privilege of having sex with my creepy fat ugly *ss. Um, where do I sign up for that? He wanted to use this "hot" gal for sex and then discard her. He was never going to marry her. The demands he was making are MAYBE something you can ask of your wife. Not a new girlfriend.

That's not what he said.

It's the entire subtext of his messages.

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