Anonymous wrote:And yet again and again there are parents who let their children go off with stranger women who statistically are more likely to physically abuse kids.
Shame shame shame
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wow, a totally normal interaction with an elderly neighbor who was probably bored out of his gourd until this kind woman and her kids showed up is now "grooming"? Come on, 99.9% of people are NOT sexual predators. Stop living your life in fear, you'll be much happier.
Your head is buried so deep it must be halfway to China.
No you’ve been brainwashed by media hype. Pp is right, less than 5% of adults are child abusers and sadly 40% or abusers are other adolescents. Not worth it to live your life in fear. Teach your kids to be firm about body boundaries but not to live in fear of everyone.
I am hardly brainwashed by media, poster. I am a former prosecutor of sex crimes against both adults and children. I’ve had thousands of hours of training and experience in the field. It is insanity to allege that only .1% of people are sexual predators given the prevalence of victims of sexual predation - child and adult victims alike. A very tiny fraction of the cases that occur are ever reported and an even tinier fraction ever get charged and see the inside of a courtroom, but sexual abuse of children and adults is EPIDEMIC in this society. Anyone asserting otherwise is naive in the extreme - or maybe doth protest too much.
+1. Police also believe everyone is a criminal because everyone they meet is a criminal. /s
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He's in his 80's for pete's sake. I think you are projecting your own mental issues onto this poor man.
Literally JUST dealt with an 80 year old pervert on the metro. Perverts do not stop being perverts just because they’re old.
This is not some city pervert. This is an old guy who has urges to garden. Most men that old don't even have prostates anymore. I'd be more worried he'd die of a heart attack or stroke while driving the golf cart.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My H is a child abuse investigator and predators definitely look for single women with young children. They also try to separate the moms from the kids... go shopping I'll watch the kids, I'll take the kids to the movie you need a break, etc.
she's not going to listen to you because like the women on this thread most people live in lalaland where nice old men befriend little kids because they are kind.
In the real world people sexually molest infants and young children at a very high rate and they target single women with young children.
I'd say, "I'm worried that the kids are not safe alone with him." Then leave it alone.
At a very high rate??
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wow, a totally normal interaction with an elderly neighbor who was probably bored out of his gourd until this kind woman and her kids showed up is now "grooming"? Come on, 99.9% of people are NOT sexual predators. Stop living your life in fear, you'll be much happier.
Your head is buried so deep it must be halfway to China.
No you’ve been brainwashed by media hype. Pp is right, less than 5% of adults are child abusers and sadly 40% or abusers are other adolescents. Not worth it to live your life in fear. Teach your kids to be firm about body boundaries but not to live in fear of everyone.
I am hardly brainwashed by media, poster. I am a former prosecutor of sex crimes against both adults and children. I’ve had thousands of hours of training and experience in the field. It is insanity to allege that only .1% of people are sexual predators given the prevalence of victims of sexual predation - child and adult victims alike. A very tiny fraction of the cases that occur are ever reported and an even tinier fraction ever get charged and see the inside of a courtroom, but sexual abuse of children and adults is EPIDEMIC in this society. Anyone asserting otherwise is naive in the extreme - or maybe doth protest too much.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Wow, a totally normal interaction with an elderly neighbor who was probably bored out of his gourd until this kind woman and her kids showed up is now "grooming"? Come on, 99.9% of people are NOT sexual predators. Stop living your life in fear, you'll be much happier.
Your head is buried so deep it must be halfway to China.
No you’ve been brainwashed by media hype. Pp is right, less than 5% of adults are child abusers and sadly 40% or abusers are other adolescents. Not worth it to live your life in fear. Teach your kids to be firm about body boundaries but not to live in fear of everyone.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He's in his 80's for pete's sake. I think you are projecting your own mental issues onto this poor man.
Literally JUST dealt with an 80 year old pervert on the metro. Perverts do not stop being perverts just because they’re old.
This is not some city pervert. This is an old guy who has urges to garden. Most men that old don't even have prostates anymore. I'd be more worried he'd die of a heart attack or stroke while driving the golf cart.
So there are no sex offenders in the country? That’s absurd.
I wouldn’t be at all surprised if a lot of the “you have anxiety” and “he’s just nice” posters are men and sex offenders themselves - gaslighting mothers to make them feel rude or paranoid for taking reasonable precautions to protect their children.
JFC. No wonder so many kids these days have anxiety if this is what their parents instill in them. You have completely lost your mind.
You must be new to the internet. You never know who you’re really talking to.
People playing without a full deck of cards is who I am talking to. You, for one and all the rest of the loons on this thread.
Who you’re talking to is someone who has two friends molested by a stepfather or family “friend” and a DC with a friend who developed an online friendship with a man pretending to be a young girl. Their parents weren’t awful, negligent people: they just didn’t know.
You are unbelievably naive about people and the internet, yes.
You're still a few cards shy of a full deck.
You’re a teenage troll. And maybe someone who shouldn’t be around children.
Anonymous wrote:
My No. 1 concern would be preschoolers riding on a golf cart with him. With anyone, really. No way to know if he thinks it's fun to let them ride unbelted -- do those carts even have belts to begin with? -- because "it's just a cart and mom doesn't need to know," etc. Not great vehicles for such small kids, with a driver who may or may not have the best vision or reaction time. And yes, even in "just" a golf cart, even if they are not on any actual roadway, he needs to have decent reaction time and vision. If my friend were close, I'd mention that aspect to her about sending the kids off alone with him on the cart.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He's in his 80's for pete's sake. I think you are projecting your own mental issues onto this poor man.
Literally JUST dealt with an 80 year old pervert on the metro. Perverts do not stop being perverts just because they’re old.
This is not some city pervert. This is an old guy who has urges to garden. Most men that old don't even have prostates anymore. I'd be more worried he'd die of a heart attack or stroke while driving the golf cart.
So there are no sex offenders in the country? That’s absurd.
I wouldn’t be at all surprised if a lot of the “you have anxiety” and “he’s just nice” posters are men and sex offenders themselves - gaslighting mothers to make them feel rude or paranoid for taking reasonable precautions to protect their children.
JFC. No wonder so many kids these days have anxiety if this is what their parents instill in them. You have completely lost your mind.
You must be new to the internet. You never know who you’re really talking to.
People playing without a full deck of cards is who I am talking to. You, for one and all the rest of the loons on this thread.
Who you’re talking to is someone who has two friends molested by a stepfather or family “friend” and a DC with a friend who developed an online friendship with a man pretending to be a young girl. Their parents weren’t awful, negligent people: they just didn’t know.
You are unbelievably naive about people and the internet, yes.
You're still a few cards shy of a full deck.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He's in his 80's for pete's sake. I think you are projecting your own mental issues onto this poor man.
Literally JUST dealt with an 80 year old pervert on the metro. Perverts do not stop being perverts just because they’re old.
This is not some city pervert. This is an old guy who has urges to garden. Most men that old don't even have prostates anymore. I'd be more worried he'd die of a heart attack or stroke while driving the golf cart.
So there are no sex offenders in the country? That’s absurd.
I wouldn’t be at all surprised if a lot of the “you have anxiety” and “he’s just nice” posters are men and sex offenders themselves - gaslighting mothers to make them feel rude or paranoid for taking reasonable precautions to protect their children.
JFC. No wonder so many kids these days have anxiety if this is what their parents instill in them. You have completely lost your mind.
You must be new to the internet. You never know who you’re really talking to.
People playing without a full deck of cards is who I am talking to. You, for one and all the rest of the loons on this thread.
Who you’re talking to is someone who has two friends molested by a stepfather or family “friend” and a DC with a friend who developed an online friendship with a man pretending to be a young girl. Their parents weren’t awful, negligent people: they just didn’t know.
You are unbelievably naive about people and the internet, yes.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He's in his 80's for pete's sake. I think you are projecting your own mental issues onto this poor man.
Literally JUST dealt with an 80 year old pervert on the metro. Perverts do not stop being perverts just because they’re old.
This is not some city pervert. This is an old guy who has urges to garden. Most men that old don't even have prostates anymore. I'd be more worried he'd die of a heart attack or stroke while driving the golf cart.