Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:46
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Spanking.
+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.
It’s possible that all spanking isn’t abusive. But all parents who are abusing their child think they’re “spanking”.
All spanking is abusive. This is just nonsense.
Nope.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:39
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
I think some parts of the Baby Led Weaning community seem super intense and rigid, like you’re harming your baby for life by feeding him store-bought puréed carrots.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:29
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
"No gifts" on party invites
Party favors
Party favors
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:27
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Dads who don't do their share at social events, they sit back and relax while the moms are run ragged managing the kids.
Those guys really grind my gears!
The women hiding in their cars scrolling dcum while the dads coach their snotty kids in soccer
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:23
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Raising kids in more dangerous neighborhoods in the city (raises hand).
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:21
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
People who don't monitor their child's online activities.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:21
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Spanking.
+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.
I think spanking is always abusive. I believe you should parent your child as you wish them to behave in the world. Under what circumstances do you think it is appropriate for them to deal with a problem by hitting someone? Spanking advocates want to create this weird exception to the general rule that you should not hit other people where it's okay but only if you are an adult and the other person is a child 100% within your care and control. It's so weird. If you hit your kid, for any reason and under any circumstances, you are teaching them that hitting is an appropriate consequence for bad behavior.
I have a kid with special needs that includes not seeing hierarchy. It's problematic. You are pretending that hierarchy isn't real which is silly. And doesn't do your children any favors. They are not small adults, they are children.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:17
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Spanking.
+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.
It’s possible that all spanking isn’t abusive. But all parents who are abusing their child think they’re “spanking”.
All spanking is abusive. This is just nonsense.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:17
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Anonymous wrote:Dads who don't do their share at social events, they sit back and relax while the moms are run ragged managing the kids.
Those guys really grind my gears!
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:16
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Spanking.
+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.
I think spanking is always abusive. I believe you should parent your child as you wish them to behave in the world. Under what circumstances do you think it is appropriate for them to deal with a problem by hitting someone? Spanking advocates want to create this weird exception to the general rule that you should not hit other people where it's okay but only if you are an adult and the other person is a child 100% within your care and control. It's so weird. If you hit your kid, for any reason and under any circumstances, you are teaching them that hitting is an appropriate consequence for bad behavior.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:15
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
The “Larlo-wears-a-dress-every-day-whyyyy-are-other-kids-misgendering-him” threads
The “siblings-may-not-attend-parties” threads
The “food-allergies-are-a-scam” threads
The “siblings-may-not-attend-parties” threads
The “food-allergies-are-a-scam” threads
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:13
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Spanking.
+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.
It’s possible that all spanking isn’t abusive. But all parents who are abusing their child think they’re “spanking”.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:12
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Dads who don't do their share at social events, they sit back and relax while the moms are run ragged managing the kids.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:11
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Anonymous wrote:Spanking.
+1. Spanking is not always abusive, but most DCUM people will automatically say all hitting is wrong.
Anonymous
06/01/2023 19:07
Subject: S/O What are the major parenting "you do what??" triggers
Parenting views that are just misogyny repackaged.
Lack of water safety.
Lack of car seat use/safety.
Lack of water safety.
Lack of car seat use/safety.