Anonymous
Post 02/12/2023 15:46     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:There is a trophy wife in our neighborhood who has a identical one pieces in different colors for each day of the week. She rides bike around for 20 - 30 minutes and then runs around for 3-4 laps.

She is gorgeous.

DHs favorite is the baby blue one, mine is the blush one.


I'd be noticing and picking favorites too.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 08:31     Subject: Re:Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:Here's the answer - from a woman; laying it all out on YouTube....



This woman is way too wordy.
I have seen a shorter version of the second video before but this full one is really something. That gal is a legit nutcase. Just wow. Really makes me feel bad for men at the gym. It also pisses me off because men are the majority of people at any gym and I like to have friendly interactions with other gymgoers. I do not want men to be afraid to talk to me just because they will be worried I will accuse them of being a creep.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 07:58     Subject: Re:Working out in skin tight garb
Here's the answer - from a woman; laying it all out on YouTube....

Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 16:42     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I call BS on all the women that say they wear the "ass crack" leggings to be "more comfortable." I work out quite a bit and have never needed to put on the wedgie-inducer to get a good squat. Just be honest, you don't mind turning a few heads and the feeling of being attractive. I see so many looking at their asses in the mirror, or that being the center of focus on social posts.

The good news is, it's only a matter of time before men start doing the same "because it's so comfortable." Then we'll see how easy it not to stare at the cucumbers in the tights...


+1 exactly.


MYOB

Who cares what people wear.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 16:40     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Grow up. You are in control of yourself and your actions.


As a man, I have to agree with this. Don’t make women feel uncomfortable at the gym by looking at them. You’re in control of where and for how long you look. Focus on your workout. What she is wearing is not your business even if it is ridiculous.


Dude here, and I agree with this.

On a related note, a young and very fit/strong woman at my gym was doing power cleans (an exercise I was thinking about adding to my workout). I was totally watching her to see exactly what she was doing, then felt like a creep when she noticed me watching b/c I'm sure she thought I was ogling her. Oh well...


That's when you ask a question: "I couldn't help but notice you were doing XYZ. I'm interested. Can you tell me more/show me?" You avoid the creep factor by focusing on the action and asking for her advice. When she tells you whatever, you say thank you, and walk away.


Yeah, don't do that.


I would disagree. I love lifting and happy to talk to anyone who asks me questions at the gym.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 16:25     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Grow up. You are in control of yourself and your actions.


As a man, I have to agree with this. Don’t make women feel uncomfortable at the gym by looking at them. You’re in control of where and for how long you look. Focus on your workout. What she is wearing is not your business even if it is ridiculous.


Dude here, and I agree with this.

On a related note, a young and very fit/strong woman at my gym was doing power cleans (an exercise I was thinking about adding to my workout). I was totally watching her to see exactly what she was doing, then felt like a creep when she noticed me watching b/c I'm sure she thought I was ogling her. Oh well...


That's when you ask a question: "I couldn't help but notice you were doing XYZ. I'm interested. Can you tell me more/show me?" You avoid the creep factor by focusing on the action and asking for her advice. When she tells you whatever, you say thank you, and walk away.


Yeah, don't do that.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 15:39     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
OP, did it look something like this? Just a female version?

https://www.facebook.com/reel/530931285754745
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 06:36     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:I am a strong advocate for women’s only gyms and this thread strengthens that. So much judgement around women’s bodies and appearance.


A lot of woman like the judgement and want to be the one on top of food chain. So basically it is ok for a woman to publicly compete for social status with other, but men aren’t supposed to notice at all?

Just as much a woman issue as a man issue.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2023 21:14     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m embarrassed by this, but there is a woman in my gym who always comes to workout in basically a superhero suit — skin tight elastic, all one color.

She is very attractive, and I honestly find it distracting. I don’t want to leer but it actually means if I’m just looking in her general direction, I kind of feel like I have to stare away from here (versus if someone normal looking is in front of me while I work out I don’t pay them any mind).

Is this actually comfortable to work out on, is she trying to dress up for attention? It’s a bright silver color, so very eye catching.

Im an old dad, I don’t want to be checking her out while she works out, but I’m only human. I don’t know what answer I want, I just find it frustrating!


Keep your eyes to yourself mister. She isn't dressing for you. Howegotistical. It isn't always about you. Would you like it if someone told you what to wear?


Most of us know what's appropriate attire for exercising in public.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2023 21:11     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They do it for attention. No one finds this comfortable.


+1 I feel so sad for those women who show up at the gym in full makeup and botox butts. I always assume they are hookers looking for clients.


Aw, is that you, brunch granny?


Are you the girl that pretends to read while standing on the corner?
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2023 21:08     Subject: Working out in skin tight garb
Anonymous wrote:I call BS on all the women that say they wear the "ass crack" leggings to be "more comfortable." I work out quite a bit and have never needed to put on the wedgie-inducer to get a good squat. Just be honest, you don't mind turning a few heads and the feeling of being attractive. I see so many looking at their asses in the mirror, or that being the center of focus on social posts.

The good news is, it's only a matter of time before men start doing the same "because it's so comfortable." Then we'll see how easy it not to stare at the cucumbers in the tights...


+1 exactly.