Anonymous
12/18/2022 21:02
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Believe your sister. Cancel the visit. Stepdad is a pedophile. If you choose to not believe it you are responsible when your kids are abused.
This!
This is all the op needs to read. Shaping up to be like her mom, protecting an abuser
OP is a man.
Okay. And the above still applies! Duh…
Anonymous
12/18/2022 21:01
Subject: Re:Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Also it’s a weird accusation that mom knew and helped the abuse to happen.
Is mom crazy or what’s going on?
I personally know of two situations of girls I knew in high school and junior high who were being sexually
Molested by their stepdads and their moms knew.
Sadly it happens
I had one friend in eighth grade his stepfather abused her. She told her mother. I got the feeling that her mother believed her. However, she told her daughter that she couldn’t financially afford to leave the stepfather. So the girl had to keep living with her stepfather who was or had been abusing her. I should’ve called CPS but I was just a kid so I didn’t know to do that
I also know that teenage girls can be over dramatic and can make accusations that not true when they don’t like their stepdad and want full attention of their mother.
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:52
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:What do you mean groping and touching? Like naked body parts touching? Or like she interpreted touch over clothing as bad?
As last long as it’s over clothing who cares if his hand is between her legs? Is that what you mean with this ridiculous statement?
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:48
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:What do you mean groping and touching? Like naked body parts touching? Or like she interpreted touch over clothing as bad?
Exactly
Someone is calling this man rapist already
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:45
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
What do you mean groping and touching? Like naked body parts touching? Or like she interpreted touch over clothing as bad?
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:44
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you shared this with your wife? I’d love to hear her opinion
Op here. This just happened, I have not discussed with my wife yet.
Op here-should have added that yes I will absolutely discuss with her soon and prior to seeing mom and stepdad again.
Buddy I think your wife is going to tell you the trip is canceled, full stop.
+1
No question.
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:44
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My sister recently told me that our stepdad sexually abused her. She did not provide a lot of details, and I didn’t press her. She said it wasn’t rape, but more like groping and touching. She says our mom knew and would help create opportunities for the abuse to happen. My sister said she wanted me to know because I have my own kids now who are around stepdad and mom.
What are my next steps? I have plans this summer to visit my mom and stepdad with my kids. We are planning to rent a cabin together on a lake. It’s already paid for and arranged. Do I cancel?
I am not totally sure I believe my sister. My sister and mom have had a lot of drama over the years. They’ve been estranged for 10 years now. My sister struggles with depression and anxiety but she has a very successful career as a doctor. She’s married and has her own kids who have never met our mother and stepdad.
Do I talk to my mom about this? What about our other sibling?
I wouldn’t automatically believe your sister. I would still go and watch carefully.
Why wouldn’t you? Watch for what??
Because it’s a big accusation and until proven guilty you can’t assume a person did something horrendous like that.
You’re not assuming - they’re telling you. How could they possibly be proven guilty?
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:43
Subject: Re:Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
My H is your sister.
No you can’t protect your kids abuse happens in the blink of an eye.
His family still hangs out with his rapist and we are totally estranged from his family.
We would never be with it around people that thjnk it’s okay to bring children around a known abuser,
No you can’t protect your kids abuse happens in the blink of an eye.
His family still hangs out with his rapist and we are totally estranged from his family.
We would never be with it around people that thjnk it’s okay to bring children around a known abuser,
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:43
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Believe your sister. Cancel the visit. Stepdad is a pedophile. If you choose to not believe it you are responsible when your kids are abused.
This!
This is all the op needs to read. Shaping up to be like her mom, protecting an abuser
OP is a man.
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:41
Subject: Re:Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Also it’s a weird accusation that mom knew and helped the abuse to happen.
Is mom crazy or what’s going on?
Is mom crazy or what’s going on?
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:40
Subject: Re:Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
I can’t imagine not believing my sister but even if I had doubts there is NO WAY I’d take a chance w my kids.
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:39
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My sister recently told me that our stepdad sexually abused her. She did not provide a lot of details, and I didn’t press her. She said it wasn’t rape, but more like groping and touching. She says our mom knew and would help create opportunities for the abuse to happen. My sister said she wanted me to know because I have my own kids now who are around stepdad and mom.
What are my next steps? I have plans this summer to visit my mom and stepdad with my kids. We are planning to rent a cabin together on a lake. It’s already paid for and arranged. Do I cancel?
I am not totally sure I believe my sister. My sister and mom have had a lot of drama over the years. They’ve been estranged for 10 years now. My sister struggles with depression and anxiety but she has a very successful career as a doctor. She’s married and has her own kids who have never met our mother and stepdad.
Do I talk to my mom about this? What about our other sibling?
I wouldn’t automatically believe your sister. I would still go and watch carefully.
Why wouldn’t you? Watch for what??
Because it’s a big accusation and until proven guilty you can’t assume a person did something horrendous like that.
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:39
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Believe your sister. Cancel the visit. Stepdad is a pedophile. If you choose to not believe it you are responsible when your kids are abused.
This!
This is all the op needs to read. Shaping up to be like her mom, protecting an abuser
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:35
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Believe your sister. Cancel the visit. Stepdad is a pedophile. If you choose to not believe it you are responsible when your kids are abused.
This!
Anonymous
12/18/2022 20:34
Subject: Sister recently said our Stepdad sexually abused her
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Have you shared this with your wife? I’d love to hear her opinion
Op here. This just happened, I have not discussed with my wife yet.
Op here-should have added that yes I will absolutely discuss with her soon and prior to seeing mom and stepdad again.
You’d better, jackass. You are really something. DO YOU THINK MAYBE THE ABUSE IS THE REASON FOR THE DEPRESSION AND ESTRANGEMENT?
Eff you.
+1!