Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update: We're doing takeout and the whole family knows. Wish us luck.
Anonymous wrote:I posted twice yesterday asking OP why SHE wasn't willing to cook turkey dinner and she had my posts removed. WTH? Why can't you cook, OP, if you are so insistent on having a turkey dinner? What's wrong with YOU?
Anonymous wrote:Thanksgiving is an American holiday. Not Chinese. Don’t eat Chinese food. Gross.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He has said what he’d like and why. Other people’s expectations are irrelevant. The man wants Chinese, give him Chinese, for God’s sake. Those prepared Thanksgiving dinners never really suit everybody. And don’t forget to lay in a supply of Tsing Tao.
Why is "the man's" desire the most important?
He cooks the food.
OP - cook your mom’s turkey, add dressing or mashed potatoes, and a green vegetable. Order the Chinese food and make/buy a pie or three.
Side note: a friend’s mom is Chinese and the last Thanksgiving we went to at their house had a full traditional spread and then 4-5 Chinese dishes. It was awesome.
But when a woman posted saying she wanted to cancel Thanksgiving (the daughter was sick or something), everyone got made and called her selfish. What's the difference?
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update: We're doing takeout and the whole family knows. Wish us luck.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He has said what he’d like and why. Other people’s expectations are irrelevant. The man wants Chinese, give him Chinese, for God’s sake. Those prepared Thanksgiving dinners never really suit everybody. And don’t forget to lay in a supply of Tsing Tao.
Why is "the man's" desire the most important?
He cooks the food.
OP - cook your mom’s turkey, add dressing or mashed potatoes, and a green vegetable. Order the Chinese food and make/buy a pie or three.
Side note: a friend’s mom is Chinese and the last Thanksgiving we went to at their house had a full traditional spread and then 4-5 Chinese dishes. It was awesome.