Anonymous wrote:I'm not asking to see his survey. Why should I? I asked him to pay for the damage his workers made to my property. It's my property even if his claim is true, which I doubt. I sent him and his wife a very polite request for repayment, and they both ignored it. They didn't reply that they didn't owe me anything, they simply didn't reply at all. That tells me that very likely, his claim that my fence is on his property is NOT true. Otherwise he would have said so in writing.

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Anonymous wrote:OP You should be aiming towards the landscaper who is far more likely to respond.

It's NOT her fence!

All she has is his word on that. He just claims that it's true, he didn't show her a survey.

OP deserves the hate for the weird ableist 'he has ASD' shit, but I don't get the hate about the fence. She has no proof it's on his land. He hasn't provided any proof, he just claims it exists.

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Anonymous wrote:OP You should be aiming towards the landscaper who is far more likely to respond.

It's NOT her fence!

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Anonymous wrote:Try getting your money back from the landscapers or just let it go

Shouldn't the landscaper have paid for the damage they cause?

Anonymous wrote:The subject line of this thread (using the word A-hole) tells me that OP seems hot-headed.

Anonymous wrote:I have no idea if the fence is technically on his property. He didn't show me any survey.

I gave my survey to the fence installers eight years ago, and they installed it inside the property line.

I'm more upset at his behavior than anything else. Normal people don't behave like this. He has six acres! Even if my fence were an inch or two on his property (an honest mistake in any case) why would that matter to him? If the situation were reversed, it wouldn't matter to me. And he has shown me no proof whatsoever that the fence is on his property. He just claims it is as an excuse to not pay to repair my fence.

I don't get it.

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Anonymous wrote:I had a neighbor like you. She was noisy, came to scream on my door, accused me to do some things on purpose, and told lies about me to other neighbors who knew me from years. She even lied to a police officer who came per my request.
She used to do all sorts of stupid things to get attention.

We have a neighbor like that too and keeps trying to take our property. One did and its so frustrating. Then they lie and tell all kinds of terrible things to other people about us who have no clue as we keep to ourselves.

You sound a little paranoid and pretty vague about your situation. How can someone repeatedly be trying to take your property? Do a boundary survey and get boundary markers. It's a very simple way to establish the true property line, if that's the issue.

We have a survey and they later did one. Their plants are on our property and where they want to put the fence is on ours too. Another neighbor put a fence on our property and we called permitting as they pulled a permit and agency refused to help. We know exactly where the lines are.

Anonymous wrote:I have no idea if the fence is technically on his property. He didn't show me any survey.

I gave my survey to the fence installers eight years ago, and they installed it inside the property line.

I'm more upset at his behavior than anything else. Normal people don't behave like this. He has six acres! Even if my fence were an inch or two on his property (an honest mistake in any case) why would that matter to him? If the situation were reversed, it wouldn't matter to me. And he has shown me no proof whatsoever that the fence is on his property. He just claims it is as an excuse to not pay to repair my fence.

I don't get it.

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Anonymous wrote:I had a neighbor like you. She was noisy, came to scream on my door, accused me to do some things on purpose, and told lies about me to other neighbors who knew me from years. She even lied to a police officer who came per my request.
She used to do all sorts of stupid things to get attention.

We have a neighbor like that too and keeps trying to take our property. One did and its so frustrating. Then they lie and tell all kinds of terrible things to other people about us who have no clue as we keep to ourselves.

You sound a little paranoid and pretty vague about your situation. How can someone repeatedly be trying to take your property? Do a boundary survey and get boundary markers. It's a very simple way to establish the true property line, if that's the issue.

We have a survey and they later did one. Their plants are on our property and where they want to put the fence is on ours too. Another neighbor put a fence on our property and we called permitting as they pulled a permit and agency refused to help. We know exactly where the lines are.

If you can’t get along with the neighbors on both sides, perhaps you should consider that you might be the problem.

Anonymous wrote:I have no idea if the fence is technically on his property. He didn't show me any survey.

I gave my survey to the fence installers eight years ago, and they installed it inside the property line.

I'm more upset at his behavior than anything else. Normal people don't behave like this. He has six acres! Even if my fence were an inch or two on his property (an honest mistake in any case) why would that matter to him? If the situation were reversed, it wouldn't matter to me. And he has shown me no proof whatsoever that the fence is on his property. He just claims it is as an excuse to not pay to repair my fence.

I don't get it.