Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 23:20     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

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Anonymous wrote:Came across this sorority house. My college didn’t have sororities, but this looks amazing. Way better than any hisie I’ve ever lived in.

https://www.al.com/entertainment/2016/10/take_a_look_inside_the_new_13.html


Greek life is huge at Alabama and it is a huge cost as well. #richkids


My kid is starting at Bama next week. I am shocked by the wealth on campus. The entire campus is gorgeous: buildings and students. The sorority houses are so picture perfect they look fake. Everyone on campus is super fit. The posts I see on the Bama moms groups indicate their homes are similarly upscale. Everyone is very, very friendly. The moms have local meet ups (including in the dc metro area). They literally offer to drive kids to/from campus, the airport, etc.

Their network is vast. The parent groups hook up kids for internships, jobs, housing, etc. It’s so unlike anything I expected.

I’ve met some kids from the Bama Greek groups, and they are very outgoing, confident, and friendly. Upperclassmen are volunteering to help students move in, move furniture, etc.

I know the Bama Rush Tik Toks are over the top. But I would encourage everyone to reserve labeling everyone.


Our impression exactly! Especially the bold — everyone is super fit, it is noticeable. The school was such a surprise. DS starts there next week!


Super fit? Are you sure. When in college (granted almost 25 years ago), every sorority girl I met had an eating disorder.... seriously...every one.


Was this a state school?


Don't feed the troll. Anyone who claims, "everyone I met," blah blah blah is clearly lying.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 22:41     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

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Anonymous wrote:It’s funny how DCUM is oh-so-surprised by ‘Bama. They must have been expecting the stereotypes they enjoy perpetuating.



It’s the 47th poorest state in the US.


And it’s too Trumpy. They just banned abortion.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 22:04     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:It’s funny how DCUM is oh-so-surprised by ‘Bama. They must have been expecting the stereotypes they enjoy perpetuating.



It’s the 47th poorest state in the US.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 21:54     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Some of you are really closed-minded and just plain wrong about UAlabama.

It has gotten bigger, but when my daughter started, you could pretty much choose your own adventure. Freshmen were able to get research opportunities, if they sought them out. There is something for everyone there.

Kids with a lot of AP/dual credit are able to double and triple major. Nobody speeds through school in 2 or 3 years, because they don't want to. Kids love it there!

If you are in a tough major, you will be surrounded by other smart kids in your tough major. My daughter didn't have one single TA teach a class, which is not the case at many other schools. She also didn't have any HUGE classes like you will find at man other large schools. She had easy access to her professors and even deans of colleges.

Not all students there are fit. Many are though. I didn't know a single sorority girl with an eating disorder.

We really only had a bad experience with one person at the school over the entire 4 years. That's pretty unusual.

I know so many kids who have gotten great jobs after graduating: kids who went to law school and medical school, kids who are working at FAANG companies, kids who went to investment banks, kids who have careers you would want your kids to have.

It really is what you make it.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 20:43     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Came across this sorority house. My college didn’t have sororities, but this looks amazing. Way better than any hisie I’ve ever lived in.

https://www.al.com/entertainment/2016/10/take_a_look_inside_the_new_13.html


Greek life is huge at Alabama and it is a huge cost as well. #richkids


My kid is starting at Bama next week. I am shocked by the wealth on campus. The entire campus is gorgeous: buildings and students. The sorority houses are so picture perfect they look fake. Everyone on campus is super fit. The posts I see on the Bama moms groups indicate their homes are similarly upscale. Everyone is very, very friendly. The moms have local meet ups (including in the dc metro area). They literally offer to drive kids to/from campus, the airport, etc.

Their network is vast. The parent groups hook up kids for internships, jobs, housing, etc. It’s so unlike anything I expected.

I’ve met some kids from the Bama Greek groups, and they are very outgoing, confident, and friendly. Upperclassmen are volunteering to help students move in, move furniture, etc.

I know the Bama Rush Tik Toks are over the top. But I would encourage everyone to reserve labeling everyone.


Our impression exactly! Especially the bold — everyone is super fit, it is noticeable. The school was such a surprise. DS starts there next week!


Super fit? Are you sure. When in college (granted almost 25 years ago), every sorority girl I met had an eating disorder.... seriously...every one.


Was this a state school?
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 20:43     Subject: Re:Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

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Anonymous wrote:55% of Alabama students are from out of state. I think they've made a concerted effort to bring in full-pay OOS students to make the school seem more desirable, and since there aren't enough wealthy AL residents to support a school of that size. I think rushtok is going to attract even more OOS wealthy suburban girls who want their moment in the sun.



well, of course they have to accept that many! How many superstar bama students (4.47+ gpa/ 35 ACT/ etc. etc.) do you know?


Are you inferring that a state that is 33% AA/Hispanic doesn't have any smart people? That would be an ignorant and highly unsavory comment.


Not PP, but this has nothing to do with the racial makeup of the state. And everything to do with the fact that Alabama is the nation's fifth least educated state. The public schools K-12 are some of the worst in the country---it doesn't matter your skin color. Fact is only those who can afford private schools in that state get a good education. Only 26% of population has a bachelor degree, whereas MA leads with 44%.



+1. It’s a poorly educated state.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 20:38     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:So you're the one posting all the Alabama nonsense and sorority rushing nonsense? Greek life by definition is discriminatory and unethical to have on campus, since most colleges provide financial perks to those groups even when their recruitement strategy is problematic. I don't care how luxurious the digs are, OP.



No, universities and colleges do not provide any financial perks. I was both treasurer and President if my sorority. However, the reverse is true: 75 percent if alumni donations come those involved in the Greek system while at college.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 19:48     Subject: Re:Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

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Anonymous wrote:55% of Alabama students are from out of state. I think they've made a concerted effort to bring in full-pay OOS students to make the school seem more desirable, and since there aren't enough wealthy AL residents to support a school of that size. I think rushtok is going to attract even more OOS wealthy suburban girls who want their moment in the sun.



well, of course they have to accept that many! How many superstar bama students (4.47+ gpa/ 35 ACT/ etc. etc.) do you know?


Quite a few, actually. Some are going to the "top 20" colleges that everyone on this board drools over, and there are a few going to private colleges in the 30-50 range with excellent merit aid, but most are going to the Alabama or Auburn Honors Programs because they got a full ride. Same with the bright kids I know in Georgia and Florida. They'll have a great college experience and save all of their college fund money for graduate school (or a downpayment on a house). These states have hit on a great formula to keep their brightest kids in state for college and attract kids from OOS. Judging by the number of applications that Auburn got this year, there are a lot of smart kids from other states who are looking for a good education at a reasonable price.

There are a number of middle of the road kids at Alabama who are "full pay," but tuition, room and board are about $26,000, so it's not a huge lift. And I wouldn't place too much emphasis on average SAT/ACT scores. Expensive tutors and taking the test multiple times is not a thing in Alabama. In the past, anyway, kids would take the test once, cold, and if they scored high enough to get into Bama or Auburn, they were done. That may change as Auburn, in particular, gets more competitive.

I do think Tik Tok and Youtube have opened the eyes of the rest of the country to the appeal of the campus facilities and lifestyle at these southern colleges. Before, I guess they assumed "southern" = shabby? First class facilities & education, better weather, attractive people -- what's not to like?


$26k per semester. $50k+ per year.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 18:09     Subject: Re:Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:Meh, I can’t really judge this property until they show pictures of the tanning salon.


Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 17:59     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Came across this sorority house. My college didn’t have sororities, but this looks amazing. Way better than any hisie I’ve ever lived in.

https://www.al.com/entertainment/2016/10/take_a_look_inside_the_new_13.html


Greek life is huge at Alabama and it is a huge cost as well. #richkids


My kid is starting at Bama next week. I am shocked by the wealth on campus. The entire campus is gorgeous: buildings and students. The sorority houses are so picture perfect they look fake. Everyone on campus is super fit. The posts I see on the Bama moms groups indicate their homes are similarly upscale. Everyone is very, very friendly. The moms have local meet ups (including in the dc metro area). They literally offer to drive kids to/from campus, the airport, etc.

Their network is vast. The parent groups hook up kids for internships, jobs, housing, etc. It’s so unlike anything I expected.

I’ve met some kids from the Bama Greek groups, and they are very outgoing, confident, and friendly. Upperclassmen are volunteering to help students move in, move furniture, etc.

I know the Bama Rush Tik Toks are over the top. But I would encourage everyone to reserve labeling everyone.


Our impression exactly! Especially the bold — everyone is super fit, it is noticeable. The school was such a surprise. DS starts there next week!


Super fit? Are you sure. When in college (granted almost 25 years ago), every sorority girl I met had an eating disorder.... seriously...every one.


How many did you meet? A handful or most of the women who were in sororities at your school? Your sentence implies it was a large number. I'm also curious where you attended. I find it concerning that no one on your campus addressed the mental health needs of such a large portion of the student body. I'm older than you, and my university absolutely had supports in place for students struggling with eating disorders.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 17:59     Subject: Re:Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

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Anonymous wrote:55% of Alabama students are from out of state. I think they've made a concerted effort to bring in full-pay OOS students to make the school seem more desirable, and since there aren't enough wealthy AL residents to support a school of that size. I think rushtok is going to attract even more OOS wealthy suburban girls who want their moment in the sun.



well, of course they have to accept that many! How many superstar bama students (4.47+ gpa/ 35 ACT/ etc. etc.) do you know?


Quite a few, actually. Some are going to the "top 20" colleges that everyone on this board drools over, and there are a few going to private colleges in the 30-50 range with excellent merit aid, but most are going to the Alabama or Auburn Honors Programs because they got a full ride. Same with the bright kids I know in Georgia and Florida. They'll have a great college experience and save all of their college fund money for graduate school (or a downpayment on a house). These states have hit on a great formula to keep their brightest kids in state for college and attract kids from OOS. Judging by the number of applications that Auburn got this year, there are a lot of smart kids from other states who are looking for a good education at a reasonable price.

There are a number of middle of the road kids at Alabama who are "full pay," but tuition, room and board are about $26,000, so it's not a huge lift. And I wouldn't place too much emphasis on average SAT/ACT scores. Expensive tutors and taking the test multiple times is not a thing in Alabama. In the past, anyway, kids would take the test once, cold, and if they scored high enough to get into Bama or Auburn, they were done. That may change as Auburn, in particular, gets more competitive.

I do think Tik Tok and Youtube have opened the eyes of the rest of the country to the appeal of the campus facilities and lifestyle at these southern colleges. Before, I guess they assumed "southern" = shabby? First class facilities & education, better weather, attractive people -- what's not to like?


Toliet bowl politics?
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 17:49     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Came across this sorority house. My college didn’t have sororities, but this looks amazing. Way better than any hisie I’ve ever lived in.

https://www.al.com/entertainment/2016/10/take_a_look_inside_the_new_13.html


Greek life is huge at Alabama and it is a huge cost as well. #richkids


My kid is starting at Bama next week. I am shocked by the wealth on campus. The entire campus is gorgeous: buildings and students. The sorority houses are so picture perfect they look fake. Everyone on campus is super fit. The posts I see on the Bama moms groups indicate their homes are similarly upscale. Everyone is very, very friendly. The moms have local meet ups (including in the dc metro area). They literally offer to drive kids to/from campus, the airport, etc.

Their network is vast. The parent groups hook up kids for internships, jobs, housing, etc. It’s so unlike anything I expected.

I’ve met some kids from the Bama Greek groups, and they are very outgoing, confident, and friendly. Upperclassmen are volunteering to help students move in, move furniture, etc.

I know the Bama Rush Tik Toks are over the top. But I would encourage everyone to reserve labeling everyone.


Our impression exactly! Especially the bold — everyone is super fit, it is noticeable. The school was such a surprise. DS starts there next week!


Super fit? Are you sure. When in college (granted almost 25 years ago), every sorority girl I met had an eating disorder.... seriously...every one.

Then of course they look fit. They probably exercise excessively too.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 17:48     Subject: Re:Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:55% of Alabama students are from out of state. I think they've made a concerted effort to bring in full-pay OOS students to make the school seem more desirable, and since there aren't enough wealthy AL residents to support a school of that size. I think rushtok is going to attract even more OOS wealthy suburban girls who want their moment in the sun.


Alabama specifically targets Illinois students, as that's a state where the only really good state school is UIUC and it's incredibly difficult to get into UIUC CS/Engineering/Business. So the smart kids who don't want to be full pay at a $70-80K school and who want the big school/sports experience are attracted to Alabama.

SAT of 1420+ and GPA of 3.5+ will get you automatic $28K merit. OOS tuition with fees is ~$32K. So $4K in tuition for an OOS student is a great deal if you are looking for a large, sports focused, greek focused state university and are willing to live in Alabama for 4 years. Given that many get rejected in state at UIUC, it's an affordable choice for many

https://scholarships.ua.edu/freshman/out-of-state/


It sounds awesome. I have a friend whose daughter is going to bama and now I know why. It will be on my radar for my kids.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 17:37     Subject: Re:Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:55% of Alabama students are from out of state. I think they've made a concerted effort to bring in full-pay OOS students to make the school seem more desirable, and since there aren't enough wealthy AL residents to support a school of that size. I think rushtok is going to attract even more OOS wealthy suburban girls who want their moment in the sun.



well, of course they have to accept that many! How many superstar bama students (4.47+ gpa/ 35 ACT/ etc. etc.) do you know?


Quite a few, actually. Some are going to the "top 20" colleges that everyone on this board drools over, and there are a few going to private colleges in the 30-50 range with excellent merit aid, but most are going to the Alabama or Auburn Honors Programs because they got a full ride. Same with the bright kids I know in Georgia and Florida. They'll have a great college experience and save all of their college fund money for graduate school (or a downpayment on a house). These states have hit on a great formula to keep their brightest kids in state for college and attract kids from OOS. Judging by the number of applications that Auburn got this year, there are a lot of smart kids from other states who are looking for a good education at a reasonable price.

There are a number of middle of the road kids at Alabama who are "full pay," but tuition, room and board are about $26,000, so it's not a huge lift. And I wouldn't place too much emphasis on average SAT/ACT scores. Expensive tutors and taking the test multiple times is not a thing in Alabama. In the past, anyway, kids would take the test once, cold, and if they scored high enough to get into Bama or Auburn, they were done. That may change as Auburn, in particular, gets more competitive.

I do think Tik Tok and Youtube have opened the eyes of the rest of the country to the appeal of the campus facilities and lifestyle at these southern colleges. Before, I guess they assumed "southern" = shabby? First class facilities & education, better weather, attractive people -- what's not to like?
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2022 17:16     Subject: Anyone have their daughter in this sorority at Bama?

Anonymous wrote:Yikes. I was in a low-key sorority at Cornell, and we definitely didn't have anything like this house.


So was I! I wonder if we were in the same house.