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Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

I would prefer a merit scholar over a beauty pageant winner.

Why not both?

I find beauty pageants sad and shallow but truly detest baby peagents.

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Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

In the beginning and when they’re younger perhaps but not after living together.

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Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

I would prefer a merit scholar over a beauty pageant winner.

Why not both?

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Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

I would prefer a merit scholar over a beauty pageant winner.

Ditto. Let’s face it, kids’ll be better off inheriting high IQ and maternal income AND free tutoring and home grown college consulting as well.

Another woman pretending to be a man. You are delusional. Men are driven by sex. They don't get aroused by the thought of "home grown consulting." Handsome men who marry unattractive women are 1) gay or 2) looking for financial and social opportunities. Both cheat with men or good looking women.

I don’t get it, what did the PP said to irk you that much … you seem to need something, vacay maybe?
Then why did my ex cheat on me with an objectively uglier woman? And I'm definitely sex-positive.

Answer: people are complicated and it's not as simple as you present. Maybe you are simple I can't speak to that- but other people have layers.

You can't be serious. You need therapy.

Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

Anonymous wrote:How is it that sometimes incredibly attractive people end up with a partner that’s really unattractive? I recently met a couple where the husband is drop dead GQ gorgeous and his wife is just really homely. And she’s actually quite rude and cold to everyone as well, so how on earth does this happen for a man who looks like such a great catch?

Anonymous wrote:NP. I’ve been thinking about this thread because my husband is more attractive than I am, but I decided it’s impossible to make general statements because beauty is just too subjective.

Husband is objectively hot, but he’s also non-white, which causes some people to overlook him and also left him less secure about his looks. He also usually dresses poorly. At least when we’re out together, I only notice other women staring when he’s fancied up in a suit. (I hate it, it does make me insecure, so I’m glad we don’t dress up very often!)

But then also, I’m hard to categorize. I’m above average, but far from gorgeous or hot. But when I was single I always, *always* had a circle of devoted men who wanted to date me. So there must be more to attraction than purely looks? FWIW, I’m a happy person who I’ve been told has the personality of a beloved kindergarten teacher, and I thiink a lot of men find that appealing. Based on his ex-girlfriend and celebrity crushes, I’m pretty sure I’m exactly my husband’s “type” as well.

But to the extent that you CAN generalize, husband is definitely hotter. He’s also younger and makes more money. But I know I’m a 10/10 as a life partner, and some men genuinely do see intelligence and personality as the most important factor.

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Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

I would prefer a merit scholar over a beauty pageant winner.

Ditto. Let’s face it, kids’ll be better off inheriting high IQ and maternal income AND free tutoring and home grown college consulting as well.

Another woman pretending to be a man. You are delusional. Men are driven by sex. They don't get aroused by the thought of "home grown consulting." Handsome men who marry unattractive women are 1) gay or 2) looking for financial and social opportunities. Both cheat with men or good looking women.

Then why did my ex cheat on me with an objectively uglier woman? And I'm definitely sex-positive.

Answer: people are complicated and it's not as simple as you present. Maybe you are simple I can't speak to that- but other people have layers.

Anonymous wrote:If it’s a handsome man and an unattractive woman I automatically think beard, if it’s a beautiful woman and unattractive man I automatically think Rich.

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Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

No, I think a large majority of men want a women who will have regular, enthusiastic sex with them. They would trade a gorgeous woman for one that is less attractive (but not extremely unattractive) and sex positive. I don’t think most men would marry a woman that is high maintenance, argumentative, or would be a bad mother. Most educated men want someone with an average or above IQ.

Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

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Anonymous wrote:I think a large majority of men, but not all obviously, care more about a woman's appearance and sexiness to look at than anything else about her. Everything else comes second or further down. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to snag a looker and then be all baffled when she turns out to be a psycho or a bad mother or have a nasty personality, etc. They don't mind it too much if she turns out to be kind of low IQ, in fact many seem to prefer that as well.

I would prefer a merit scholar over a beauty pageant winner.