Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm surprised nobody has posted in 5 days. Are supplies improving?
Thankfully there definitely seems to be more availability downtown at CVS and Walgreens after weeks with bare shelves.
Anonymous wrote:I'm surprised nobody has posted in 5 days. Are supplies improving?
Anonymous wrote:Only read the first couple of pages but, as expected, DCUM is stunningly defensive.
I agree with you OP (and I have a nursing infant myself). IME, the women that are physically able to breastfeed but choose not to are either:
1) Extreme extroverts, don’t like the idea of being “tethered” to baby
2) Stressed out with short maternity leaves, other kids, lack of help
Nobody on earth can help #1. But #2 could easily be helped by giving long maternity and paternity leaves (like say… Canada or UK). And maybe better retirement benefits so that grandparents don’t have to work into their 70s and instead can help during that critical time that breastfeeding has to be established.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Not every mother can breastfeed (supply, pain, everlasting latch issues, prescriptions that contraindicate, etc.). Not every mother enjoys breastfeeding.
I think maximizing options and supporting mothers in the choices that are best for them and their family are best. Not assuming one choice is best for all.
No, not every mother, but the VAST majority. The lack of support and information are the biggest barrier. Do you "enjoy" giving your child a bottle? I don't understand that reason.
I saw a new great grampa give a two month old baby his bottle. No question they both enjoyed it very much! MY DH gave my daughter her first bottle of the morning everyday. It was a lovely time for them. He was sad when bottles ended.
Wow! Great Grandchild?? Must have been old!!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know many, many women have valid reasons for using formula. I tend to think some do, understandably, to simplify their lives and relieve the burden of being tethered to baby for 12 months nursing - either because of stress, going back to work, or some other non-medical reason (for mom or baby).
I can't help but wonder how many families use formula out of convenience, and how we might all be better served if we gave women the space, time and support to breastfeed. I recognize that there are different interests at play.
This is not meant to suggest any judgment or incite any breastmilk/formula wars.
I'm watching the news unfold today about Biden invoking the defense production act to produce formula. Heaven knows there are so many broken parts in our systems, but I've been mulling this over for weeks now. Why aren't we putting any effort into breastfeeding education??
I'm about 10 years out now from having had an infant. A coworker recently returned and mentioned using formula to both give dad an "opportunity" to feed and to get a break. And I felt a little sad for her.
For those of you closer to this stage, I'm curious about your take on this. I sense a level of panic around this formula shortage and I wonder how many parents actually medically need it, and how many are on it out of convenience and why we don't do anything to help support those families?
How dare you judge others!
I had my reasons for not breast feeding and they are none of your business I raised six children all Ivy League all Stem majors all did more than fine .
You are literally a moron
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Not every mother can breastfeed (supply, pain, everlasting latch issues, prescriptions that contraindicate, etc.). Not every mother enjoys breastfeeding.
I think maximizing options and supporting mothers in the choices that are best for them and their family are best. Not assuming one choice is best for all.
No, not every mother, but the VAST majority. The lack of support and information are the biggest barrier. Do you "enjoy" giving your child a bottle? I don't understand that reason.
I saw a new great grampa give a two month old baby his bottle. No question they both enjoyed it very much! MY DH gave my daughter her first bottle of the morning everyday. It was a lovely time for them. He was sad when bottles ended.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I know many, many women have valid reasons for using formula. I tend to think some do, understandably, to simplify their lives and relieve the burden of being tethered to baby for 12 months nursing - either because of stress, going back to work, or some other non-medical reason (for mom or baby).
I can't help but wonder how many families use formula out of convenience, and how we might all be better served if we gave women the space, time and support to breastfeed. I recognize that there are different interests at play.
This is not meant to suggest any judgment or incite any breastmilk/formula wars.
I'm watching the news unfold today about Biden invoking the defense production act to produce formula. Heaven knows there are so many broken parts in our systems, but I've been mulling this over for weeks now. Why aren't we putting any effort into breastfeeding education??
I'm about 10 years out now from having had an infant. A coworker recently returned and mentioned using formula to both give dad an "opportunity" to feed and to get a break. And I felt a little sad for her.
For those of you closer to this stage, I'm curious about your take on this. I sense a level of panic around this formula shortage and I wonder how many parents actually medically need it, and how many are on it out of convenience and why we don't do anything to help support those families?
How dare you judge others!
I had my reasons for not breast feeding and they are none of your business I raised six children all Ivy League all Stem majors all did more than fine .
You are literally a moron
Anonymous wrote:OMG the way some lactivists are soo excited about this formula shortage. When the "liquid gold" and "breast is best" doesn't give you quite the smug satisfaction it used to, now you can say "sorry you were so concerned about your **convenience**, now your baby will just die I guess!" #fappingforArmageddon, indeed.
Anonymous wrote:I heard a statistic on NBC News with Lester Holt that gave me pause. He said, “Over 60% of the formula purchased in this country did so using WIC vouchers”. Basically, low income and nationally deficient children under 5. Who exactly is supposed to promote breastfeeding?
Anonymous wrote:I know many, many women have valid reasons for using formula. I tend to think some do, understandably, to simplify their lives and relieve the burden of being tethered to baby for 12 months nursing - either because of stress, going back to work, or some other non-medical reason (for mom or baby).
I can't help but wonder how many families use formula out of convenience, and how we might all be better served if we gave women the space, time and support to breastfeed. I recognize that there are different interests at play.
This is not meant to suggest any judgment or incite any breastmilk/formula wars.
I'm watching the news unfold today about Biden invoking the defense production act to produce formula. Heaven knows there are so many broken parts in our systems, but I've been mulling this over for weeks now. Why aren't we putting any effort into breastfeeding education??
I'm about 10 years out now from having had an infant. A coworker recently returned and mentioned using formula to both give dad an "opportunity" to feed and to get a break. And I felt a little sad for her.
For those of you closer to this stage, I'm curious about your take on this. I sense a level of panic around this formula shortage and I wonder how many parents actually medically need it, and how many are on it out of convenience and why we don't do anything to help support those families?
Anonymous wrote:Only read the first couple of pages but, as expected, DCUM is stunningly defensive.
I agree with you OP (and I have a nursing infant myself). IME, the women that are physically able to breastfeed but choose not to are either:
1) Extreme extroverts, don’t like the idea of being “tethered” to baby
2) Stressed out with short maternity leaves, other kids, lack of help
Nobody on earth can help #1. But #2 could easily be helped by giving long maternity and paternity leaves (like say… Canada or UK). And maybe better retirement benefits so that grandparents don’t have to work into their 70s and instead can help during that critical time that breastfeeding has to be established.