Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My appearance is the least interesting thing about me. I guess it’s a good screening opportunity as well.
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If someone pays too much attention to their appearance, they usually don't have a very interesting life (since most of their time is spent on their appearance)! I have nothing in common with the "let's see how fast we can burn my husband's money" crowd, who are usually primping and preening, or at the country club, or some other vapid thing.
I think men who need the trophy wives want to feel valued, and have their own pile of insecurity and issues (which a trophy wife will never fix).
It is one thing to want to take care of oneself,
it's another thing to be blowing your husband's money on all sorts of beauty treatments (the lashes, the brows, etc.) each month.
OP, if you are at your own personal ideal weight, that should be enough. I have put on a few during covid, and I am just trying to get back into the mindset of what it was before covid times.