Anonymous
Post 01/26/2022 17:55     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
OP again. Does $300 seem reasonable for a language lesson?


$300 for a single lesson? Of 30 minutes to an hour, or how long? It sounds very high, but if you check online you'll see that one on one language tutors can be anywhere from $30 to $75 per hour. Is the $300 something you saw on the credit card? Isn't that likely for not a single lesson but several lessons? Almost no form of tutoring, music lessons etc. is less than $30 for 30 minutes, BTW, speaking very generally. $300 sounds to me like three weeks' to a month's worth of lessons.

How do you not already know what he is supposedly paying per lesson or per hour?

If you saw such a charge, OP, well, ASK him rather than letting yourself fret and come up with scenarios in your head. That sounds to me like a fee for several lessons, paid all at once.


We each have our own bank accounts in addition to the joint account. That’s how we’ve always done it. I found an ATM receipt on his desk from that morning morning that showed a $300 withdrawal from his account. She likes to get paid in cash evidently. I don’t monitor what he pays since I know he generally is not an extravagant spender.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2022 16:47     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
OP again. Does $300 seem reasonable for a language lesson?
It's the going rate around here for a 1/2 hour to an hour of sex. Not sure about a language tutor. That seems really high for that.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2022 15:29     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
OP again. Does $300 seem reasonable for a language lesson?


A+ trolling for 7 pages, but you flew a little too close to the sun with this comment.

But really, masterclass in trolling up until this comment
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2022 15:24     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
OP again. Does $300 seem reasonable for a language lesson?


$300 for a single lesson? Of 30 minutes to an hour, or how long? It sounds very high, but if you check online you'll see that one on one language tutors can be anywhere from $30 to $75 per hour. Is the $300 something you saw on the credit card? Isn't that likely for not a single lesson but several lessons? Almost no form of tutoring, music lessons etc. is less than $30 for 30 minutes, BTW, speaking very generally. $300 sounds to me like three weeks' to a month's worth of lessons.

How do you not already know what he is supposedly paying per lesson or per hour?

If you saw such a charge, OP, well, ASK him rather than letting yourself fret and come up with scenarios in your head. That sounds to me like a fee for several lessons, paid all at once.
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2022 15:16     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
OP again. Does $300 seem reasonable for a language lesson?


Troll score just dropped to a 1.75
Anonymous
Post 01/26/2022 14:20     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
OP again. Does $300 seem reasonable for a language lesson?


Uh, no.
Anonymous
Post 01/25/2022 18:23     Subject: Am I being paranoid?

OP again. Does $300 seem reasonable for a language lesson?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2022 20:01     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
Wait a sec. Why did she take it into the house?


NP. Well. I suppose it's possible that she was changing into gym clothes there before heading on to the gym? Which would be weird and inappropriate if so but hey. Not that it matters, this is probably the forum fanfic writer anyway.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2022 18:49     Subject: Am I being paranoid?

Wait a sec. Why did she take it into the house?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2022 18:38     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In my current state of mind I just can’t deal with the negativity here, so I’ll look for advice elsewhere. Thanks to all the kind people who gave me good advice before.


Urg. I’m sorry. But you should ignore the haters here! You CAN get good advice.


OP again, thanks. I talked to him about it and am satisfied nothing funny was going on. She was heading to the gym afterwards, which is why she had the duffle bag.


Wonderful news!
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2022 18:37     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In my current state of mind I just can’t deal with the negativity here, so I’ll look for advice elsewhere. Thanks to all the kind people who gave me good advice before.


Urg. I’m sorry. But you should ignore the haters here! You CAN get good advice.


OP again, thanks. I talked to him about it and am satisfied nothing funny was going on. She was heading to the gym afterwards, which is why she had the duffle bag.


Glad to hear, OP.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2022 18:35     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In my current state of mind I just can’t deal with the negativity here, so I’ll look for advice elsewhere. Thanks to all the kind people who gave me good advice before.


Urg. I’m sorry. But you should ignore the haters here! You CAN get good advice.


OP again, thanks. I talked to him about it and am satisfied nothing funny was going on. She was heading to the gym afterwards, which is why she had the duffle bag.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 23:53     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:In my current state of mind I just can’t deal with the negativity here, so I’ll look for advice elsewhere. Thanks to all the kind people who gave me good advice before.


www.survivinginfidelity.com has real advice and support for you.

Good luck.

Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 18:03     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
Anonymous wrote:I don’t know if I were going for a two hour romp I would not bring a duffle bag of stuff


If I thought my husband was banging his young pretty tutor, I wouldn't go away for the weekend knowing he would be spending time with her.

I think many posters pointed out from your descriptions of what he's said about it, your gut feeling and the circumstances, that there is a high likelihood there is something other than tutoring going on.

I would not have been able to go out of town. I would have been spying on this situation myself.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2022 16:35     Subject: Am I being paranoid?
I don’t know if I were going for a two hour romp I would not bring a duffle bag of stuff