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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

It is really disturbing that a 25 year old’s first instinct when faced with a troubling situation was to text her mother. What has happened to this generation?

Also, it’s creepy and gross but not a crime to film in public. Calling the police was not the right advice.

Incorrect. These guys were likely involved in sex trafficking.

Really? Not a chance anyone is abducting white women from a Starbucks in Reston.

You are correct. They photograph them, get their license plate number, get someone to look that up, get an address then abduct them while they are getting into their car. The photographs are to shop them around to prospective customers.

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

I wouldn't have known exactly what to do and I'm 34.

Really? Grow a spine. Walk over and say "please stop filming me." DUH

Good way to get punched by two men who tower over you

+1. Men often do stuff like this knowing if you confront they will escalate it. They want trouble.

OP, you and your DD should both read The Gift of Fear.

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

It is really disturbing that a 25 year old’s first instinct when faced with a troubling situation was to text her mother. What has happened to this generation?

Also, it’s creepy and gross but not a crime to film in public. Calling the police was not the right advice.

Incorrect. These guys were likely involved in sex trafficking.

Really? Not a chance anyone is abducting white women from a Starbucks in Reston.

You are correct. They photograph them, get their license plate number, get someone to look that up, get an address then abduct them while they are getting into their car. The photographs are to shop them around to prospective customers.

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

It is really disturbing that a 25 year old’s first instinct when faced with a troubling situation was to text her mother. What has happened to this generation?

Also, it’s creepy and gross but not a crime to film in public. Calling the police was not the right advice.

Incorrect. These guys were likely involved in sex trafficking.

Really? Not a chance anyone is abducting white women from a Starbucks in Reston.

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

I wouldn't have known exactly what to do and I'm 34.

Really? Grow a spine. Walk over and say "please stop filming me." DUH

Good way to get punched by two men who tower over you

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Anonymous wrote:Human traffickers or Sex offenders.

Make sure that your DD is never alone, parks safely, carries a pepper spray, has her location sharing on.

Hahaha. Human traffickers don’t look for victims in suburban Starbucks. They look for economically vulnerable and isolated young women, not 20 somethings who are so spoiled and coddled that they call Mommy when someone looks at them wrong.

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

It is really disturbing that a 25 year old’s first instinct when faced with a troubling situation was to text her mother. What has happened to this generation?

Also, it’s creepy and gross but not a crime to film in public. Calling the police was not the right advice.

Meh, not OP but I don't think it's disturbing. I'm 46, but in my 20s I had many strange men make me nervous in public. Women are conditioned to not rankle men or make them uncomfortable so I would tolerate it - try to not rock the boat - then after the encounter I'd always regret it. I used to feel horrible about it until social media in the last 10 years introduced me to a ton of feminists who would call out and label this behavior as totally normal survival skills.

I'd love to think a 25 year old woman would go over and call these guys out - but in the moment it's normal to freeze.

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

I wouldn't have known exactly what to do and I'm 34.

Really? Grow a spine. Walk over and say "please stop filming me." DUH

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

It is really disturbing that a 25 year old’s first instinct when faced with a troubling situation was to text her mother. What has happened to this generation?

Also, it’s creepy and gross but not a crime to film in public. Calling the police was not the right advice.

Incorrect. These guys were likely involved in sex trafficking.

Really? Not a chance anyone is abducting white women from a Starbucks in Reston.

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

I thought OP was going to say her daughter was in middle/high school.

Something like this should only happen if the DD is 15, not 25. Your daughter has no coping abilities, OP.

My DD is 4’11” She looks 15. To be honest, she was concerned about calling police because the men were not white, and therefore did not want to cause a scene (her friend with her was also not white, so no, they are not racist. So she contacted me I told my daughter that we should not consider race when it comes to creepy behavior - err on the side of caution.

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Anonymous wrote:Your DD is immature.

The pedo posted here.

Sexual attraction to a 25 year old is not pedophilia

Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

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Anonymous wrote:Your 25 year old daughter couldn’t figure out what to do without your help? Yikes.

I wouldn't have known exactly what to do and I'm 34.

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Anonymous wrote:My 25 year old DD and her friend were in the Plaza America Reston Starbucks when a young woman approached my daughter and said two older (50s) men were sitting together filming on their phone, mostly my DD who was facing them. My DD immediately texted me (I’m out of town) and asked what she should do. I said call the police and let them handle it. Both girls were reluctant to do so, so told a male Barista who bravely went over and approached the men, telling them to delete the recording. The girls left and went to her friend’s Mom’s home. I called the non-emergency number and the officer was very nice, but said that it was not a crime unless it was lewd filming (i.e. in a bathroom stall, etc).

When I get back I’m going to that Starbucks and leaving a huge tip in their cup.

Yep, it's not a crime. One of my kids has a deranged stalker fellow student filming him at high school. Nothing the school can do, but tell her to stop. They cannot take her phone. They cannot ask to see what she filmed. She can deny. You are allowed to film in public places. It's totally creepy. Police can do nothing. That was kind of the barista, but they do not have to erase it or stop. The laws need to catch up with phones.

Thought it was illegal to film without consent if the film is recording audio.