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Anonymous wrote:What about guys who are into ladyboys?
I think that is still in the range of into feminine, right?
So maybe that is fine.

I assume you mean ts? No gay guy is into ts girls regardless of the equipment they are packing. That is a straight guy thing only.

So if a guy is into fem ts's (i.e chicks with dicks)... do they count as bi or straight?

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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.

If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.

Sure, but these are fair assumptions.

Absolutely false. How many Bi people do you actually know? There are many monogamous Bi people. We aren't more likely to cheat.

If you're a bi woman, you are completely missing the point.

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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

Queerphobia? Lol. Right 👍 a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a man who is bi, and now it’s “queerphobia?” Try listening and learning from people instead of labeling.

If you are writing someone off because of stereotypes, prejudices and unfair assumptions, that's phobic.

Sure, but these are fair assumptions.

Absolutely false. How many Bi people do you actually know? There are many monogamous Bi people. We aren't more likely to cheat.

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Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here.
1. I exist
2. I'm not a lesbian
3. I'm not looking for male attention
4. I'm monogamous and always have been. Have never cheated.
5. It is Bi-phobic to not date a Bisexual person. You are literally afraid of them and have prejudices against them. That's what a phobia is. That's what this entire thread is.

So if I choose not to date a person because she is bi, then I'm afraid of them, have a phobia and are prejudiced against them? That's laughable and, well, kind of stupid. It's called a sexual preference, not a phobia.

https://bi.org/en/articles/biphobia-is-not-just-watered-down-homophobia

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Anonymous wrote:What about guys who are into ladyboys?
I think that is still in the range of into feminine, right?
So maybe that is fine.

I assume you mean ts? No gay guy is into ts girls regardless of the equipment they are packing. That is a straight guy thing only.

Anonymous wrote:Interesting that the hypothetical situation many (including myself) imagine here is that bi man is in a relationship with a woman and cheats with man. What about bi men in relationship with other men cheating with women? Does that happen?

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Anonymous wrote:No. Call me biphobic if you want, but I don’t believe I owe anyone dates if I don’t want to date them. You’re allowed to say no to anyone for any reason.

I think women are guilt tripped enough into dating men they don’t want to date without also adding this to the list.

Don't use Feminism to cover up your Queerphobia. Lemme guess you are a TERF too, eh?

I’m not. But bottom line is, no one has to date anyone they don’t want to date for any reason at all.

I think part of the problem is we’ve equated “sexual attraction” with “human rights”. Doing so means that only people we find sexually/romantically attractive deserve rights. I can recognize that everyone is human deserving of certain rights, without needing to be attracted or romantically interested in them. Just like I’m not romantically interested in certain ethnicities, people in larger bodies, people with lower intelligence, etc but I still recognize their humanity.

I am Black and only interested in dating Black women so shove your shock face wherever you want but there is nothing wrong with these feelings, nor if someone from any other race feels the same way.

Sorry I can't accept whites saying they only want to date whites. B.c that's what the Klan people from my hometown say.

PP here. Funny thing is, when I said I’m not interested in certain ethnicities…..I’m not attracted to white men. Like at all. MY H and almost all the men I’ve dated are BIPOC. I’m sure now you’ll say I’m fetishizing them, so I can’t really win.

Interesting how your mind went to “whites only dating whites” when it could have meant a wide variety of things.

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Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.

Every straight man I’ve dated has asked for anal sex so you are really limiting your choices here

Anonymous wrote:I’m a bi male. I enjoy sex with men, but I don’t want to be in a relationship with one. I want to marry a woman.

Anonymous wrote:No I would not date a man who is turned on by other men. I also wouldn’t date a man who is into threesomes or ass play or bondage, etc. It’s not a phobia. I just wouldn’t feel sexually compatible with someone into stuff that I’m not attracted to/comfortable with.