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Post 11/10/2023 20:14     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

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Anonymous wrote:As the lead of this show, you are required to put out a lot of energy to seem interesting and active... but I'm not sure if 72-yr-old Gerry is REALLY interested in being a go, go, go person, or if he's fulfilling the obligation to appear that way, while in real life, he simply wants to play pickleball, hang out with friend, and enjoy the lake life... know what I mean.

If Gerry is, at heart, at a time in life where he wants to keep it simple, then Faith and Leslie are not going to be the right "speed" for him. Theresa might be more on that speed level.

That doesn't mean there is anything wrong with Faith, or Leslie or Theresa or Gerry. It's just a matter of finding someone who wants to live life at the same pace as you.


Yes, good point. Although I find Theresa quite boring compared to the other two, maybe that’s better suited to him at this stage in his life.


I don't know what "securities professional" means, but it suggests Teresa is at least somewhat smart. She's 70, so she's probably not on the trading floor, but maybe she owns a brokerage or day trades, who knows. I did find Theresa pretty disingenuous during the whole Kathy spat. But it's probably going to be Teresa.

I just can't see Leslie and Gerry together--she's the wrong "speed" as you say. Also I'm not sure what they talk about besides ATV rides and Leslie's life story. Finding a steady man is great, but you need something more to do/talk about in your daily life. Maybe we just don't see that deeper connection happening.

He should have kept Ellen.

Does anybody else have their fingers crossed for Joan coming back? The producers extended the season from 8 to 9 episodes.


Interesting!! I had forgotten about her.

She seemed like a quality/together person.

(I was appalled by the woman who missed her daughter’s wedding to be on a realty TV show!)


Agreed. Who would miss a child’s wedding to be on tv? She wasn’t reading the room well either. He wasn't that in to her. Didn’t he pick her for a one on one date that was never shown? Did I miss it?


How do you know about the missed wedding but can't remember the one-on-one date?




I am not riveted to the tv the entire episode. I saw her get picked and didn’t see any details of the date or they were super brief.


But they called the daughter to congratulate her on her nuptials ON the one-on-one date.


Is that right? I thought Gerry just pulled her aside during a group date and they called her daughter on the wedding day.
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Post 11/10/2023 19:59     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

Anonymous wrote:You know what I think? Gerry was a slightly dorky guy married to his HS sweetheart for the bulk of his life. I'm sure he loved her dearly, but this is his one and only chance to play the field and feel desirable to a group of hot women for the first time one his life. He got swept up in it and made some mistakes. I think he's probably a pretty nice guy who never imagined in his wildest dreams he could pull a Faith or a Leslie. But at least he's giving some thought to compatibility despite the headiness of it all.


I agree with this
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Post 11/10/2023 19:46     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

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Anonymous wrote:As the lead of this show, you are required to put out a lot of energy to seem interesting and active... but I'm not sure if 72-yr-old Gerry is REALLY interested in being a go, go, go person, or if he's fulfilling the obligation to appear that way, while in real life, he simply wants to play pickleball, hang out with friend, and enjoy the lake life... know what I mean.

If Gerry is, at heart, at a time in life where he wants to keep it simple, then Faith and Leslie are not going to be the right "speed" for him. Theresa might be more on that speed level.

That doesn't mean there is anything wrong with Faith, or Leslie or Theresa or Gerry. It's just a matter of finding someone who wants to live life at the same pace as you.


Yes, good point. Although I find Theresa quite boring compared to the other two, maybe that’s better suited to him at this stage in his life.


I don't know what "securities professional" means, but it suggests Teresa is at least somewhat smart. She's 70, so she's probably not on the trading floor, but maybe she owns a brokerage or day trades, who knows. I did find Theresa pretty disingenuous during the whole Kathy spat. But it's probably going to be Teresa.

I just can't see Leslie and Gerry together--she's the wrong "speed" as you say. Also I'm not sure what they talk about besides ATV rides and Leslie's life story. Finding a steady man is great, but you need something more to do/talk about in your daily life. Maybe we just don't see that deeper connection happening.

He should have kept Ellen.

Does anybody else have their fingers crossed for Joan coming back? The producers extended the season from 8 to 9 episodes.


Interesting!! I had forgotten about her.

She seemed like a quality/together person.

(I was appalled by the woman who missed her daughter’s wedding to be on a realty TV show!)


Agreed. Who would miss a child’s wedding to be on tv? She wasn’t reading the room well either. He wasn't that in to her. Didn’t he pick her for a one on one date that was never shown? Did I miss it?


How do you know about the missed wedding but can't remember the one-on-one date?


I am not riveted to the tv the entire episode. I saw her get picked and didn’t see any details of the date or they were super brief.


But they called the daughter to congratulate her on her nuptials ON the one-on-one date.
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Post 11/10/2023 19:15     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

He's a guy who was in a 43 yr relationship. He's going to mesh with a wiman who lived a similar life. Someone who fits into being part of a couple as easily as he does. That's obviously where both Theresa anf Gerry lived most of their lives.

That's different than Leslie. Sounds like she has been more of an independent single person with relationships here and there.

I like Leslie enough (not her taste in dance moves). But Theresa just makes the most sense for Gerry. Their big hurdle will be location and who loses regular contact with their kids/ grandkids. Maybe they will split their time ???
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Post 11/10/2023 18:31     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

Faith said she thought he needed someone more steady than she is. That also suggests Theresa.
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Post 11/10/2023 18:11     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

Anonymous wrote:I would love for Susan to be the Golden Bachelorette. She has good energy and people connect with her, which makes for good tv.

Just watched Hometowns episde and I do think Leslie is a better fit for Gary. Easier connection with family, less pressure. Unless producers are trying to trip viewers up. I've never watched the Bachelor before, so don't know the game.



I've been on the Leslie train but after watching the promo footage I now think it's Theresa. Looks like Gerry's daughters will be skeptical of Leslie (is she really all in?) He said in an interview his daughters' feedback was important and that they mirrored concerns he had. I think he will pick Theresa because he's confident she will be all in, adore and be committed to him etc. I still see the passion with Leslie, but it is true Theresa is the more practical choice in most respects.
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Post 11/10/2023 15:07     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

Anonymous wrote:I think they're setting of Joan for Golden Bachelor, but I also agree it would be hard to watch her face for so long. I also don't find her as charismatic as some of the others. My vote would be for Sandra, Susan, Marina, or Nancy. I'd even be happy with Faith, maybe.


Boring and face is to tight
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Post 11/10/2023 15:06     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

I would love for Susan to be the Golden Bachelorette. She has good energy and people connect with her, which makes for good tv.

Just watched Hometowns episde and I do think Leslie is a better fit for Gary. Easier connection with family, less pressure. Unless producers are trying to trip viewers up. I've never watched the Bachelor before, so don't know the game.
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Post 11/10/2023 13:39     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

Anonymous wrote:best description of Teresa, Baby Jane, manipulative, snarky, and I hope he does end up with her. Hes a goofball, cant stop comoaring women to his dead wife. What a jerk.


Chill, team Leslie. You can do better than this.
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Post 11/10/2023 12:20     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

Anonymous wrote:best description of Teresa, Baby Jane, manipulative, snarky, and I hope he does end up with her. Hes a goofball, cant stop comoaring women to his dead wife. What a jerk.



This is nuts.
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Post 11/10/2023 12:10     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

Anonymous wrote:best description of Teresa, Baby Jane, manipulative, snarky, and I hope he does end up with her. Hes a goofball, cant stop comoaring women to his dead wife. What a jerk.


You are SO judgemental.

Have you ever lost a spouse?

Don''t judge until you have.
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Post 11/10/2023 12:04     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

best description of Teresa, Baby Jane, manipulative, snarky, and I hope he does end up with her. Hes a goofball, cant stop comoaring women to his dead wife. What a jerk.
Anonymous
Post 11/10/2023 11:10     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

Anonymous wrote:I think they're setting of Joan for Golden Bachelor, but I also agree it would be hard to watch her face for so long. I also don't find her as charismatic as some of the others. My vote would be for Sandra, Susan, Marina, or Nancy. I'd even be happy with Faith, maybe.


I’d love to see Edith of the great gray hair.

I liked Faith a lot, but I don’t think they can do a bachelorette where the premise is that you have to agree to move to rural WA to be chosen.
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Post 11/10/2023 10:44     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

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Anonymous wrote:This show proves to me that the ladies who don't mess with their faces look the best. No botox for me, will resist the temptation.



100%


It’s the mouths more than anything!



All of it, the hard glassy faces. No bueno.


Same! The natural faces 100% look better than the weird fake faces.



ITA.
Anonymous
Post 11/10/2023 10:43     Subject: The Golden Bachelor

I think they're setting of Joan for Golden Bachelor, but I also agree it would be hard to watch her face for so long. I also don't find her as charismatic as some of the others. My vote would be for Sandra, Susan, Marina, or Nancy. I'd even be happy with Faith, maybe.