Women and older guys remind me of a joke. What are three most important numbers to a 55 year old divorcee?

Answer: 20, 80 and 105

Net worth of $20 million
Age 80
Current body temperature of 105

Anonymous wrote:Given that sex is non-negotiable to men and always will be, and women start to have more trouble with it after menopause, what really is the right answer to this? I find it incredible that most 55+ men married to similarly aged or older women are not boning younger women just because they still can. Just for the release not for the intimacy and without ever leaving their wives. I'm not saying I like, condone, promote or defend it. Just that it is actually a difficult situation for which I have some sympathy. Am I wrong?

If a man is taking viagra, he is working against nature and will expect his partner to also take something to work against their nature.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a myth that there are lots of young women who would have sex with 55 plus men. Or 40 plus.

48 yo recent divorcee absolutely slaying the mid 20s women on Tinder. I'm not even that handsome and I'm only 5 ft 9.

So, who are these women? Why has no one ever met them? Are they prostitutes?

I slept with one of my mid 40s college professors. Does that make me a prostitute?

Only if you got paid? Do you take Venmo?

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a myth that there are lots of young women who would have sex with 55 plus men. Or 40 plus.

48 yo recent divorcee absolutely slaying the mid 20s women on Tinder. I'm not even that handsome and I'm only 5 ft 9.

More data please. Slaying could be once a year

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Anonymous wrote:Given that sex is non-negotiable to men and always will be, and women start to have more trouble with it after menopause, what really is the right answer to this? I find it incredible that most 55+ men married to similarly aged or older women are not boning younger women just because they still can. Just for the release not for the intimacy and without ever leaving their wives. I'm not saying I like, condone, promote or defend it. Just that it is actually a difficult situation for which I have some sympathy. Am I wrong?

Maybe because most younger women don’t want to sleep with old married guys?

Sometimes the most obvious reason is the truth. The married men who are actually able to attract a younger woman is minuscule.

Most older women, including their wives, don't want to sleep with old married guys either.

Yes older women and their wives…..

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Anonymous wrote:Given that sex is non-negotiable to men and always will be, and women start to have more trouble with it after menopause, what really is the right answer to this? I find it incredible that most 55+ men married to similarly aged or older women are not boning younger women just because they still can. Just for the release not for the intimacy and without ever leaving their wives. I'm not saying I like, condone, promote or defend it. Just that it is actually a difficult situation for which I have some sympathy. Am I wrong?

Maybe because most younger women don’t want to sleep with old married guys?

Sometimes the most obvious reason is the truth. The married men who are actually able to attract a younger woman is minuscule.

Most older women, including their wives, don't want to sleep with old married guys either.

Anonymous wrote:Given that sex is non-negotiable to men and always will be, and women start to have more trouble with it after menopause, what really is the right answer to this? I find it incredible that most 55+ men married to similarly aged or older women are not boning younger women just because they still can. Just for the release not for the intimacy and without ever leaving their wives. I'm not saying I like, condone, promote or defend it. Just that it is actually a difficult situation for which I have some sympathy. Am I wrong?

Maybe because most younger women don’t want to sleep with old married guys?

Sometimes the most obvious reason is the truth. The married men who are actually able to attract a younger woman is minuscule.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a myth that there are lots of young women who would have sex with 55 plus men. Or 40 plus.

48 yo recent divorcee absolutely slaying the mid 20s women on Tinder. I'm not even that handsome and I'm only 5 ft 9.

So I just can't reconcile what I now from family members/young women who post on here and what this guy is saying. I think the comment one of the posters made about shallow pool makes sense since it sounds like very small percent of these young women are willing to date these older men. It just doesn't make sense otherwise with the anecdotal data in front of us.

Age gap relationship of 15+ years where man is older is 100% all about the money, even if it isn't the form of cash in an envelope (or however these things happen) and instead in the form of wanting to land a rich husband or sugar daddy. I mean, I can't think of any other reason, but there are some damaged people out there.... And not knocking people who date or marry for money, but without the money, I'm guessing older guy has a hard time keeping his lady happy, which is much less likely to be the case in a more evenly matched relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:Women only have trouble when they are stuck with the same partner too long.

I’ve been stuck with my husband for 33 years and I have no problem being monogamous. Good men continue to keep things fresh and fun and being in love is a big part of it.

Bingo! Same here, married more than 30 years and we are still very much in love and still love to be intimate together many times each week.

It is so great to have the kids out of the house and never have to worry about pregnancy. It’s like when we were first married all over again.

I really can't believe this, but I'm happy for you.

DP. That's incredibly sad. Another long time married couple (25 years; 51 and 50) that still bone many times per week. Very much still hot for one another with no performance issues.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a myth that there are lots of young women who would have sex with 55 plus men. Or 40 plus.

48 yo recent divorcee absolutely slaying the mid 20s women on Tinder. I'm not even that handsome and I'm only 5 ft 9.

do you spend a lot of money on dates?

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Anonymous wrote:Women only have trouble when they are stuck with the same partner too long.

I’ve been stuck with my husband for 33 years and I have no problem being monogamous. Good men continue to keep things fresh and fun and being in love is a big part of it.

Bingo! Same here, married more than 30 years and we are still very much in love and still love to be intimate together many times each week.

It is so great to have the kids out of the house and never have to worry about pregnancy. It’s like when we were first married all over again.

I really can't believe this, but I'm happy for you.

Anonymous wrote:Given that sex is non-negotiable to men and always will be, and women start to have more trouble with it after menopause, what really is the right answer to this? I find it incredible that most 55+ men married to similarly aged or older women are not boning younger women just because they still can. Just for the release not for the intimacy and without ever leaving their wives. I'm not saying I like, condone, promote or defend it. Just that it is actually a difficult situation for which I have some sympathy. Am I wrong?

I'm a 56 year old woman, and it takes great strength of character not to bone younger men instead of my 58 year old husband.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a myth that there are lots of young women who would have sex with 55 plus men. Or 40 plus.

48 yo recent divorcee absolutely slaying the mid 20s women on Tinder. I'm not even that handsome and I'm only 5 ft 9.

So, who are these women? Why has no one ever met them? Are they prostitutes?

They're from Canada. You wouldn't know them.

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Anonymous wrote:It’s a myth that there are lots of young women who would have sex with 55 plus men. Or 40 plus.

48 yo recent divorcee absolutely slaying the mid 20s women on Tinder. I'm not even that handsome and I'm only 5 ft 9.

So, who are these women? Why has no one ever met them? Are they prostitutes?

I slept with one of my mid 40s college professors. Does that make me a prostitute?