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Miraclemomma wrote:I really enjoyed reading this post. Yes, men like women they have to work for. I learned this the hard way and the easy way. But the key is matching up with a man who truly gets a little thrill/kink/excitement from meeting a woman's impossible demands.

I have met many men like this. I am not a WASP. I am petite/short and curves in the right places. I smile ALOT. I have had many men take me on trips to exotic locations, show up with big items and offer me things that I can't provide for myself.

I took some of them up on the offers. I failed in a major way by falling for someone who didn't spoil me like he should and I regret giving him a chance.

We should celebrate women who are in happy relationships. Their men also take honor in adoration and showering of the things a woman desires. I am so happy to read about happy healthy relationships and spoiled wives. You deserve it!

I detect a little DC hate. Many women in the DC area are more brains over beauty. So there is a thread of resentment if a beautiful woman can secure an awesome life without spending 20 years in school and slogging her life away in front of a laptop for money.

I hope to find another man who spoils me like my previous lovers. It feels amazing to know someone cares about your well being on every level. It can happen at all income levels. But you must match with a man who truly values spending on his woman. My last spoiler was so easy. I gave him a financial gift for his graduation and he said, "You know I am just going to turn around and spend this on you". I knew immediately that he was the right man for me. I have tested other men and knew that maybe they were givers but they didn't want to give to me. I left those relationships immediately.

You sound like a prostitute

Miraclemomma wrote:I really enjoyed reading this post. Yes, men like women they have to work for. I learned this the hard way and the easy way. But the key is matching up with a man who truly gets a little thrill/kink/excitement from meeting a woman's impossible demands.

I have met many men like this. I am not a WASP. I am petite/short and curves in the right places. I smile ALOT. I have had many men take me on trips to exotic locations, show up with big items and offer me things that I can't provide for myself.

I took some of them up on the offers. I failed in a major way by falling for someone who didn't spoil me like he should and I regret giving him a chance.

We should celebrate women who are in happy relationships. Their men also take honor in adoration and showering of the things a woman desires. I am so happy to read about happy healthy relationships and spoiled wives. You deserve it!

I detect a little DC hate. Many women in the DC area are more brains over beauty. So there is a thread of resentment if a beautiful woman can secure an awesome life without spending 20 years in school and slogging her life away in front of a laptop for money.

I hope to find another man who spoils me like my previous lovers. It feels amazing to know someone cares about your well being on every level. It can happen at all income levels. But you must match with a man who truly values spending on his woman. My last spoiler was so easy. I gave him a financial gift for his graduation and he said, "You know I am just going to turn around and spend this on you". I knew immediately that he was the right man for me. I have tested other men and knew that maybe they were givers but they didn't want to give to me. I left those relationships immediately.

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

What is the purpose of your post? You want to brag to random strangers? Kudos! You have a man! You have kids! You have housekeeper! Congrats! (PS you do realize a good percentage of people posting here have all these things? Like PP said maybe not in Ohio, but this DMV)

The purpose of my post was to respond to the quoted post about attracting a man vs making him stay. Somehow people here don’t want to believe that these relationships can work. Some men love to spoil their wives and some women love to be spoiled.

Nice try. You are trying to brag (and failing because no one is impressed). It’s so lame that you look at the house you own and a housekeeper as “spoiling” by your husband. You are being spoiled by having a housekeeper? What year is this 1940? My husband isn’t spoiling me by us, jointly, buying a beach house together, lol.

You are right I don’t consider our house, housekeeper or possible beach house as spoiling me. My husband spoils me by providing the means so that my day is free to do my hobbies, cook, workout, garden, etc., he takes me out to nice dinners, dancing, etc. whenever I want, etc. Maybe everyone has their own definition of spoiling.

Dancing isn’t allowed in Ohio

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

What is the purpose of your post? You want to brag to random strangers? Kudos! You have a man! You have kids! You have housekeeper! Congrats! (PS you do realize a good percentage of people posting here have all these things? Like PP said maybe not in Ohio, but this DMV)

The purpose of my post was to respond to the quoted post about attracting a man vs making him stay. Somehow people here don’t want to believe that these relationships can work. Some men love to spoil their wives and some women love to be spoiled.

Nice try. You are trying to brag (and failing because no one is impressed). It’s so lame that you look at the house you own and a housekeeper as “spoiling” by your husband. You are being spoiled by having a housekeeper? What year is this 1940? My husband isn’t spoiling me by us, jointly, buying a beach house together, lol.

You are right I don’t consider our house, housekeeper or possible beach house as spoiling me. My husband spoils me by providing the means so that my day is free to do my hobbies, cook, workout, garden, etc., he takes me out to nice dinners, dancing, etc. whenever I want, etc. Maybe everyone has their own definition of spoiling.

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

What is the purpose of your post? You want to brag to random strangers? Kudos! You have a man! You have kids! You have housekeeper! Congrats! (PS you do realize a good percentage of people posting here have all these things? Like PP said maybe not in Ohio, but this DMV)

The purpose of my post was to respond to the quoted post about attracting a man vs making him stay. Somehow people here don’t want to believe that these relationships can work. Some men love to spoil their wives and some women love to be spoiled.

Nice try. You are trying to brag (and failing because no one is impressed). It’s so lame that you look at the house you own and a housekeeper as “spoiling” by your husband. You are being spoiled by having a housekeeper? What year is this 1940? My husband isn’t spoiling me by us, jointly, buying a beach house together, lol.

Anonymous wrote:Any men attracted to women who are a little spoiled or high maintenance? Tell me about it?

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

What is the purpose of your post? You want to brag to random strangers? Kudos! You have a man! You have kids! You have housekeeper! Congrats! (PS you do realize a good percentage of people posting here have all these things? Like PP said maybe not in Ohio, but this DMV)

The purpose of my post was to respond to the quoted post about attracting a man vs making him stay. Somehow people here don’t want to believe that these relationships can work. Some men love to spoil their wives and some women love to be spoiled.

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Anonymous wrote:If my guy buddies are any indication: they are extremely attracted to a woman who presents herself as well put-together. Hair always 'done', manicured nails, always dressed to show off her figure rather than for comfort.

Then when they get together, the sex is apparently great for a while, but soon they start complaining about how high maintenance she is. Wears heels to a picnic in the park and then complains about having trouble walking in the grass. Expects them to always carry her luggage if they go on a trip. Demands at least an hour to get ready before they can go out anywhere, even just a neighborhood restaurant for a weeknight dinner.

They don't seem to get the correlation between these two things. You can be physically attracted to someone but not be a good personality match. But if you keep going for the same type and keep getting the same result, you might want to look at why that is.

There is a difference in high maintenance and spoiled.

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Anonymous wrote:It's one thing to attract a man. It's another thing entirely to make him stay.

I’m pp and we have been married 27 years. 3 kids 25, 22, and 19. Our relationship has only gotten better over the years. Now that the kids are all either on their own or in college we can travel more and are looking at beach houses.

This sounds very MC.

Sure, if our 10k sqft house and live in housekeeper are MC then we are MC.

What is the purpose of your post? You want to brag to random strangers? Kudos! You have a man! You have kids! You have housekeeper! Congrats! (PS you do realize a good percentage of people posting here have all these things? Like PP said maybe not in Ohio, but this DMV)