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Anonymous wrote:50 and newly single. Ready to move on. But where/how on earth does one meet men these days? Is it the most depressing and scant selection imaginable or are there inexplicably single / available men to date at this age?

The denture cream aisle at CVS?

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Anonymous wrote:Best place for people over 50 is work. I know two people in my department that married people from the same agency. They were either divorced or widowed. They retired with double fed retirement benefits! Sweet.

Man here with single male friends. Most of my male friends would definitely shy away from any flirting or meeting people at work -- no reason to risk a sexual harrassment charge that can ruin your career. Plenty of other places to meet people.

At your typical Fed agency or with older workers (50+) nobody is concerned with harassment. If your friends are going after the young non-senior employees that’s something else entirely. I have so many GS-14/15 co-workers that met their spouses on the job.

All the men at my Fed job are gay

You apparently work at the State Dept.

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Anonymous wrote:Best place for people over 50 is work. I know two people in my department that married people from the same agency. They were either divorced or widowed. They retired with double fed retirement benefits! Sweet.

Man here with single male friends. Most of my male friends would definitely shy away from any flirting or meeting people at work -- no reason to risk a sexual harrassment charge that can ruin your career. Plenty of other places to meet people.

At your typical Fed agency or with older workers (50+) nobody is concerned with harassment. If your friends are going after the young non-senior employees that’s something else entirely. I have so many GS-14/15 co-workers that met their spouses on the job.

All the men at my Fed job are gay

Anonymous wrote:Tennis. So many single older men in more or less decent shape.

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Anonymous wrote:Best place for people over 50 is work. I know two people in my department that married people from the same agency. They were either divorced or widowed. They retired with double fed retirement benefits! Sweet.

Man here with single male friends. Most of my male friends would definitely shy away from any flirting or meeting people at work -- no reason to risk a sexual harrassment charge that can ruin your career. Plenty of other places to meet people.

At your typical Fed agency or with older workers (50+) nobody is concerned with harassment. If your friends are going after the young non-senior employees that’s something else entirely. I have so many GS-14/15 co-workers that met their spouses on the job.

+1 the younger crowd will think its creepy bc they’ve been conditioned to “understand” that light flirtation and paying compliments to feel out the dating waters at work (where you spend more than half your life!) to be harrassment or creating a hostile work environment. But as long as you stick to the over 50 crowd you’ll probably be fine.
IMO Cuomo’s main issue with this was he started dipping into the under 40s (and under 30s!) pool with his “flirtation” and he’s no George Clooney or Brad Pitt so it was creepy from the jump!

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Anonymous wrote:Best place for people over 50 is work. I know two people in my department that married people from the same agency. They were either divorced or widowed. They retired with double fed retirement benefits! Sweet.

Man here with single male friends. Most of my male friends would definitely shy away from any flirting or meeting people at work -- no reason to risk a sexual harrassment charge that can ruin your career. Plenty of other places to meet people.

At your typical Fed agency or with older workers (50+) nobody is concerned with harassment. If your friends are going after the young non-senior employees that’s something else entirely. I have so many GS-14/15 co-workers that met their spouses on the job.

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Anonymous wrote:Why do you need a man?

Cock, companionship and money

Money? That's sad.

Be that as it may, it’s a driving force for many women

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Anonymous wrote:Best place for people over 50 is work. I know two people in my department that married people from the same agency. They were either divorced or widowed. They retired with double fed retirement benefits! Sweet.

Man here with single male friends. Most of my male friends would definitely shy away from any flirting or meeting people at work -- no reason to risk a sexual harrassment charge that can ruin your career. Plenty of other places to meet people.

At your typical Fed agency or with older workers (50+) nobody is concerned with harassment. If your friends are going after the young non-senior employees that’s something else entirely. I have so many GS-14/15 co-workers that met their spouses on the job.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m super skeptical that an average looking women over 50 could date a guy under 50 who is more than 5 years younger. I’ve just never seen it, except with movie stars. In my experience, the guys are usually a couple years older or up to 10 years older.

I just posted upthread that I am dating men 8-10 years younger. I don't know what to tell you. I look great for my age.

I’m 45 and doing the same. High 6 figure earner who is attractive and fit. It’s not hard, none of us want to remarry and we have all had our kids- life is short why limit yourself to only older men? Silly.

Well, I'm realistic. I'm a low or mid six figures earner who is maybe a 6 on a 1-10 scale (basically average). No way I'm kidding myself that some guy in his 30s would be interested in me for more than a hot minute. You guys sound like you are probably really good looking -- I'm sure that helps! I bet when you were younger, guys bought you drinks at bars, and cops let you off with just a warning for speeding...

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Anonymous wrote:Best place for people over 50 is work. I know two people in my department that married people from the same agency. They were either divorced or widowed. They retired with double fed retirement benefits! Sweet.

Man here with single male friends. Most of my male friends would definitely shy away from any flirting or meeting people at work -- no reason to risk a sexual harrassment charge that can ruin your career. Plenty of other places to meet people.

Anonymous wrote:Best place for people over 50 is work. I know two people in my department that married people from the same agency. They were either divorced or widowed. They retired with double fed retirement benefits! Sweet.

Anonymous wrote:I am a divorced woman in my 60s who is not looking for a man but if I was I would easily find one on the golf course. I play on public courses, sometimes they put me with other players if there is less than four players in their group. Other times I end up playing with two or three other singles, none of us know each other. The ones I end up playing with are 90% guys and an occasional woman or two, and many of them are single. They range in age from late teens to late 80s with many in your age range. Typically it is fun to chat with them and even during covid it is not at all necessary to get closer than 6 or even 10 or more feet from anyone while playing golf.

You do not really need to be any good at golf. On most public courses there are plenty of people who are just learning or who have played for years and suck anyway. Lots of us out there just hacking around and having fun. If you are worried about it take a few lessons before you play a real game.

I go by myself but if you must go with a friend bring one other woman but no more than that. I find the guys, of all ages, are usually friendly and nice almost without exception.

If you are looking for a high earner or a man with means then skip the public courses and go for a country club, assuming you can afford it.

Golf courses are just full of guys, some of them are already taken obviously but there are also plenty who aren't.