Anonymous wrote:Telling you he would “destroy you” if you were to get involved - that’s just a bunch of brooding actor melodrama horses**t, c’mon. If he weren’t famous or sexually attractive then you’d be doing exactly what I’m currently doing (as someone who dated lots of actors in my twenties) - massively rolling your eyes.

I’m sure it was exciting and challenging and getting those rare “I love you’s“ and intense gazes gave you a high but honestly, life is complicated and difficult enough without an elusive partner who would “destroy you” (gimme a break).
He’s done you a favor, what a dou**e canoe.

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

I can’t disclose the show, it would be a dead giveaway.

People date actors. I was a groupie at first. It’s just embarrassing now when I think about it in hindsight.

Im not a troll. It’s just I have almost no one else to discuss this with - my friends are tired of hearing about him and think I stopped seeing him.

Anonymous wrote:He obviously is in an exclusive relationship. Maybe he was for a while and got caught hooking up with you.

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

It was on and off for 8 years. 2.5 of which I was married. I hadn’t seen him since 2017 when I got into a serious relationship with my (now) ex and the father of my daughter. I got married in 2018 and sadly divorced in 2020. I contacted ex shortly after my divorce.

Yes - I’ve met his friends. We’ve gone out to dinners. We’ve had weekends together, I’ve met some of his family. He confided in me about slot of things and vice versa. A couple times when he’s been drunk he’s told me he loves me, but knows he would "destroy" me if we were ever to be serious.

I had to go to therapy because after we had this conversation something in me changed. I always had feeling for him. My therapist wasn’t helpful at all and told me I had such a strong attraction to him because sometimes humans just form attachments to people they find attractive. Ok. Not helpful at all.

We’ve been talking for a few months. He’s an actor in a popular TV show that is currently filming. I was supposed to see him when he’s on his break. He had just a ton of money and influence, I was always attracted to his high speed lifestyle.

And now, like a total cliche I’ve eaten a gigantic piece of chocolate ganache cake and am watching old episodes of the TV show he’s on. I feel physically ill. I was way more into it than he was. I should have seen the signs that he was giving me one word responses and leaving me on read. I feel so lame.

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

I can’t disclose the show, it would be a dead giveaway.

People date actors. I was a groupie at first. It’s just embarrassing now when I think about it in hindsight.

Im not a troll. It’s just I have almost no one else to discuss this with - my friends are tired of hearing about him and think I stopped seeing him.

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

I can’t disclose the show, it would be a dead giveaway.

People date actors. I was a groupie at first. It’s just embarrassing now when I think about it in hindsight.

Im not a troll. It’s just I have almost no one else to discuss this with - my friends are tired of hearing about him and think I stopped seeing him.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

It was on and off for 8 years. 2.5 of which I was married. I hadn’t seen him since 2017 when I got into a serious relationship with my (now) ex and the father of my daughter. I got married in 2018 and sadly divorced in 2020. I contacted ex shortly after my divorce.

Yes - I’ve met his friends. We’ve gone out to dinners. We’ve had weekends together, I’ve met some of his family. He confided in me about slot of things and vice versa. A couple times when he’s been drunk he’s told me he loves me, but knows he would "destroy" me if we were ever to be serious.

I had to go to therapy because after we had this conversation something in me changed. I always had feeling for him. My therapist wasn’t helpful at all and told me I had such a strong attraction to him because sometimes humans just form attachments to people they find attractive. Ok. Not helpful at all.

We’ve been talking for a few months. He’s an actor in a popular TV show that is currently filming. I was supposed to see him when he’s on his break. He had just a ton of money and influence, I was always attracted to his high speed lifestyle.

And now, like a total cliche I’ve eaten a gigantic piece of chocolate ganache cake and am watching old episodes of the TV show he’s on. I feel physically ill. I was way more into it than he was. I should have seen the signs that he was giving me one word responses and leaving me on read. I feel so lame.

Definitely a troll.

Anonymous wrote:Op here.

It was on and off for 8 years. 2.5 of which I was married. I hadn’t seen him since 2017 when I got into a serious relationship with my (now) ex and the father of my daughter. I got married in 2018 and sadly divorced in 2020. I contacted ex shortly after my divorce.

Yes - I’ve met his friends. We’ve gone out to dinners. We’ve had weekends together, I’ve met some of his family. He confided in me about slot of things and vice versa. A couple times when he’s been drunk he’s told me he loves me, but knows he would "destroy" me if we were ever to be serious.

I had to go to therapy because after we had this conversation something in me changed. I always had feeling for him. My therapist wasn’t helpful at all and told me I had such a strong attraction to him because sometimes humans just form attachments to people they find attractive. Ok. Not helpful at all.

We’ve been talking for a few months. He’s an actor in a popular TV show that is currently filming. I was supposed to see him when he’s on his break. He had just a ton of money and influence, I was always attracted to his high speed lifestyle.

And now, like a total cliche I’ve eaten a gigantic piece of chocolate ganache cake and am watching old episodes of the TV show he’s on. I feel physically ill. I was way more into it than he was. I should have seen the signs that he was giving me one word responses and leaving me on read. I feel so lame.