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Anonymous wrote:Half my gfs waited until after 35. They wanted to finish grad school and get settled. Well, guess what? Not a single one was able to conceive naturally and about a third couldn't carry a baby to term even after getting help conceiving.

I don't know the end game of you claiming its fine to wait but you're wrong.

Mother Nature doesn't want deformed kids so she prevents them from entering the populace. She accomplishes this through difficulty conceiving and the prevalence of miscarriages.

Don't fight her- she always wins.

Doubt you’re even a woman loser. If you are, you’re a disgrace to all women.

I am not only a woman but I'm a mother. I'd guess you're not, hence the saltiness about waiting too long.

Sad.

Not PP, but it is not anti-women to say that fertility decreases with age, or that birth defect rates go up. Your desire to be successful at work does not override these facts. What is sad is that instead of demanding better leave and promotion policies, American women have decided to just wait to have kids until they are infertile or need assistance. It’s not actually being a feminist to encourage your friends and strangers on the Internet to have geriatric pregnancies. We should demand better in this country so that women can get pregnant when their bodies are more equipped.

Anonymous wrote:Half my gfs waited until after 35. They wanted to finish grad school and get settled. Well, guess what? Not a single one was able to conceive naturally and about a third couldn't carry a baby to term even after getting help conceiving.

I don't know the end game of you claiming its fine to wait but you're wrong.

Mother Nature doesn't want deformed kids so she prevents them from entering the populace. She accomplishes this through difficulty conceiving and the prevalence of miscarriages.

Don't fight her- she always wins.

Doubt you’re even a woman loser. If you are, you’re a disgrace to all women.

Half my gfs waited until after 35. They wanted to finish grad school and get settled. Well, guess what? Not a single one was able to conceive naturally and about a third couldn't carry a baby to term even after getting help conceiving.

I don't know the end game of you claiming its fine to wait but you're wrong.

Mother Nature doesn't want deformed kids so she prevents them from entering the populace. She accomplishes this through difficulty conceiving and the prevalence of miscarriages.

Don't fight her- she always wins.

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Anonymous wrote:Nobody has time to read that nonsense. And thanks for ruining the post with your NEED to “inform”.

Sorry for whatever happened to you to make you feel this strongly about conception.

I actually don't care that much when a woman decides to have a kid. I will however correct wrong information with facts. The articles are related to the subject, if you don't like it skip over it.

It seems like you care a lot so I’m thinking you’re probably a pos incel or one of those women who had kids in her 20’s, did nothing else with her life, and wants to drag down other women to your same sad level. Stop trying to control other people. I say this as someone who had my first at 25 but thinks every woman should do what works for them.

I’m guessing she’s really struggling to conceive and it’s easier to look externally than grieve.

I think both of you have abysmal reading comprehension and understanding of context clues and should improve upon both of those before attempting to call people out, police threads and throw insults.

Whatever PP. Time to leave your bitter little headspace and get a life.

It's sad how people would rather dig in their heels and cement their idiocy than admit they are wrong.

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Anonymous wrote:Are you in a relationship now, OP? I think my biggest worry would be meeting, falling in love with, and then starting a family with a stranger within the next few years. I place a lot of value on old friendships and I knew my husband for several years before we dated/got married, and we had gone to school together so I knew his friends. I probably have a greater fear than most about this, but that would be my worry, not being too old to have a baby! Sorry to be a psycho and add more stress!

Most people get married after 2-3 years together, I think, no? How long are you suggesting people need to date?

And have a child immediately? I guess. It all just feels like a bug hurry up to make a lifetime commitment to someone you haven’t even met yet. Terrifying in many ways.

Anonymous wrote:Not in this area.

I had mine at 25 and 27 and was basically considered a child. People looked at me as if I was an two headed green alien.

Really? I’m surprised anyone cared. People are mostly self absorbed, especially here.

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Anonymous wrote:Nobody has time to read that nonsense. And thanks for ruining the post with your NEED to “inform”.

Sorry for whatever happened to you to make you feel this strongly about conception.

I actually don't care that much when a woman decides to have a kid. I will however correct wrong information with facts. The articles are related to the subject, if you don't like it skip over it.

It seems like you care a lot so I’m thinking you’re probably a pos incel or one of those women who had kids in her 20’s, did nothing else with her life, and wants to drag down other women to your same sad level. Stop trying to control other people. I say this as someone who had my first at 25 but thinks every woman should do what works for them.

I’m guessing she’s really struggling to conceive and it’s easier to look externally than grieve.

I think both of you have abysmal reading comprehension and understanding of context clues and should improve upon both of those before attempting to call people out, police threads and throw insults.

Whatever PP. Time to leave your bitter little headspace and get a life.

Ha ha! Not in this area.

One and done at 44...

Not in this area.

I had mine at 25 and 27 and was basically considered a child. People looked at me as if I was an two headed green alien.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody has time to read that nonsense. And thanks for ruining the post with your NEED to “inform”.

Sorry for whatever happened to you to make you feel this strongly about conception.

I actually don't care that much when a woman decides to have a kid. I will however correct wrong information with facts. The articles are related to the subject, if you don't like it skip over it.

It seems like you care a lot so I’m thinking you’re probably a pos incel or one of those women who had kids in her 20’s, did nothing else with her life, and wants to drag down other women to your same sad level. Stop trying to control other people. I say this as someone who had my first at 25 but thinks every woman should do what works for them.

I’m guessing she’s really struggling to conceive and it’s easier to look externally than grieve.

I think both of you have abysmal reading comprehension and understanding of context clues and should improve upon both of those before attempting to call people out, police threads and throw insults.

Here’s a magazine rack.

Had my second at 34 and was the youngest person by far in my Lamaze class.

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Anonymous wrote:Nobody has time to read that nonsense. And thanks for ruining the post with your NEED to “inform”.

Sorry for whatever happened to you to make you feel this strongly about conception.

I actually don't care that much when a woman decides to have a kid. I will however correct wrong information with facts. The articles are related to the subject, if you don't like it skip over it.

It seems like you care a lot so I’m thinking you’re probably a pos incel or one of those women who had kids in her 20’s, did nothing else with her life, and wants to drag down other women to your same sad level. Stop trying to control other people. I say this as someone who had my first at 25 but thinks every woman should do what works for them.

I’m guessing she’s really struggling to conceive and it’s easier to look externally than grieve.

I think both of you have abysmal reading comprehension and understanding of context clues and should improve upon both of those before attempting to call people out, police threads and throw insults.

No you won’t be obscenely old (weird word choice). Maybe in 15 years. Plenty of time to not settle for any sperm donor because someone on the Internet told you to conceive now or never.