Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Denied at a high match that sibling was admitted to two yrs ago. Deferred at another. Submitted scores at 75th percentile. Accepted to one safety so far.
Wondering if this admission season is some sort of free-for-all. Feeling nauseated.
This is happening at our school too. So many deferrals. Do you think all these deferrals will eventually get in RD or even off the WL in June? With applications up 40%+ at most top schools, they are probably being cautious about over enrollment. Once kids start declining offers, I think it should shift. You can only go to one school and many kids on reddit are applying to 20+ schools this year.
That's all possible, but it'll be a long wait. Really wish I knew whether the deferral - and the direct denial! - were more along the lines of "we didn't think you really wanted to come badly enough" or whether it's "your grades aren't quite as good as your test-optional competitors, so you lose," two different situations.
When reports on early app numbers started to surface, with their huge increases, I was afraid this might happen. And we're not even talking tippy top schools, more like top 40s-60s.
Yes, this is my DC’s situation too. I do think test optional benefits public school kids with very high GPAs and no test scores. My kid has a high test score and lower GPA from a rigorous private that doesn’t weight grades or offer many APs anymore.
The poor's get all the breaks! It ain't right!!
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The schools have the profile from your's child's "rigorous private" so they can see the difference in rigor among schools. It's not as big of a dealbreaker as you may think.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DC is a truly mediocre student but has a high SAT. So far in EA at three targets, two reaches, and one safety. Weirdly, denied or deferred at two additional safeties and one reach. No hooks, no rhyme, no reason.
That is one tell tell sign for high income full pay students.
How do you figure? I am going to to guess that most on this board fall into that category.
Because wealthy kids test prep. Google and read the NYTimes article on Trinity College. Most colleges rely on tuition for making expenses. When push comes to shove, full-pay with great test scores get into these schools. As the NYT article mentions, however, professors hate this. Generally, low grade, high test score admits don’t enjoy traditional academics. That doesn’t mean they aren’t smart, motivated kids who will do great in “real life,” but they don’t tend to be great class participants.
I have a kid like that and that if not a true profile for everyone. High SATs with no prep, B+ average with all honors and APs at a tough grading school, a few rough spots over the years tanked enough grades to bring the averages down. This is a school where two wrong on a test is a C -- no do overs, no extra credit. Kids with this profile get into schools because the profile is understood in context and they do extremely well in college, finding it much easier than high school.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DC is a truly mediocre student but has a high SAT. So far in EA at three targets, two reaches, and one safety. Weirdly, denied or deferred at two additional safeties and one reach. No hooks, no rhyme, no reason.
That is one tell tell sign for high income full pay students.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DC is a truly mediocre student but has a high SAT. So far in EA at three targets, two reaches, and one safety. Weirdly, denied or deferred at two additional safeties and one reach. No hooks, no rhyme, no reason.
That is one tell tell sign for high income full pay students.
How do you figure? I am going to to guess that most on this board fall into that category.
Because wealthy kids test prep. Google and read the NYTimes article on Trinity College. Most colleges rely on tuition for making expenses. When push comes to shove, full-pay with great test scores get into these schools. As the NYT article mentions, however, professors hate this. Generally, low grade, high test score admits don’t enjoy traditional academics. That doesn’t mean they aren’t smart, motivated kids who will do great in “real life,” but they don’t tend to be great class participants.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DC is a truly mediocre student but has a high SAT. So far in EA at three targets, two reaches, and one safety. Weirdly, denied or deferred at two additional safeties and one reach. No hooks, no rhyme, no reason.
That is one tell tell sign for high income full pay students.
How do you figure? I am going to to guess that most on this board fall into that category.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DC is a truly mediocre student but has a high SAT. So far in EA at three targets, two reaches, and one safety. Weirdly, denied or deferred at two additional safeties and one reach. No hooks, no rhyme, no reason.
That is one tell tell sign for high income full pay students.
How do you figure? I am going to to guess that most on this board fall into that category.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DC is a truly mediocre student but has a high SAT. So far in EA at three targets, two reaches, and one safety. Weirdly, denied or deferred at two additional safeties and one reach. No hooks, no rhyme, no reason.
That is one tell tell sign for high income full pay students.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP lots of parents lie too. If kid is aiming for schools in the 50-100 range and is not getting in something is not adding up. Top 50 schools some have insanely low acceptance rates.
I agree that it seems many on this board lie. My child has only received acceptances so far, and I was surprised because his scores seem to be considered average or low on this board. DC is not trying for Ivies, but has a good mix of SLACs with a variety of selectiveness. One sport (his only EC), no hooks, weighted GPA above a 4, but probably a 3.5-3.7 unweighted. I didn't read his essay, so maybe it was out of the park. He is full IB, which many on this board pooh-pooh, but maybe schools care more about that than DCUM thinks.
Anonymous wrote:My DC is a truly mediocre student but has a high SAT. So far in EA at three targets, two reaches, and one safety. Weirdly, denied or deferred at two additional safeties and one reach. No hooks, no rhyme, no reason.
Anonymous wrote:My daughter has not received a rejection yet (but that is coming, I'm sure). 3.96UW, 4.21W, no test, mediocre EC to include 1 sport, volunteer work thru school, NHS, school ambassador. Only 1 AP but several honors classes.
Accepted at: Santa Clara, Pepperdine, Baylor, Loyola Marymount Univ, ASU (our state school), and St. Mary's of CA with merit - a few have offered significant merit. Offered honors program at ASU, Baylor, and St. Mary's.
Still waiting on: USC (her reach), University of San Diego, Occidental, and Pitzer (she has lost interest in those 2 for some reason).
She went in expecting to get rejected from USC, and while she will be disappointed, she will not be devastated. Given that her list was very reasonable for her stats, I was confident she would have a few good choices. To be honest, I'm surprised that she has several and all with some merit and a few very generous merit. She's a lucky girl.
Anonymous wrote:My DC is a truly mediocre student but has a high SAT. So far in EA at three targets, two reaches, and one safety. Weirdly, denied or deferred at two additional safeties and one reach. No hooks, no rhyme, no reason.