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Anonymous wrote:OP here. It doesn’t make me feel my baby is “ super special” to what a new, safe crib for him. I’m willing to budge on some things like clothes, swings, bouncers, etc., but not a crib or something important like a car seat.

Given safety requirements, my understanding is the all new-ish cribs (<7 years old, post drop sides) are safe. There isn't any safety justification for a more expensive crib on safety grounds. Even used cribs can just be washed with soapy water. (Of course, get a new mattress.)

OP, you'd get a very different set of answers if you asked about strollers. In that category, there is a huge difference in ease of use and comfort. It's a great place to splurge. I bet most here would support a splurge for a nicer stroller. Many would also encourage a splurge on a nicer chair or glider for the nursery. Many would support an expensive-ish car seat, as cheaper models can be less safe and have frustrating features (e.g., install or straps).

The thing with a crib is that they're mostly all the same and even if you want nice furniture, you have to know that the crib is likely going to get beat up and chewed so any extra investment is just a waste. Wait and get a quality big kid bed in two or three years. Get the cheapest crib you can stand now. Spluge in other areas.

THIS. OP, I know this is not what you wanted to hear. It’s obvious from your posts in this thread. Not sure why you bothered asking this question. Just get what you want. If you have the money to spend on a crib like pottery barn just do it. It’s obviously not important to most here to spend gobs on a crib, but if you are hell bent then just do it for heavens sake. Your question was not worth asking. Come back and ask about car seats (something where it actually matters).0

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. It doesn’t make me feel my baby is “ super special” to what a new, safe crib for him. I’m willing to budge on some things like clothes, swings, bouncers, etc., but not a crib or something important like a car seat.

Given safety requirements, my understanding is the all new-ish cribs (<7 years old, post drop sides) are safe. There isn't any safety justification for a more expensive crib on safety grounds. Even used cribs can just be washed with soapy water. (Of course, get a new mattress.)

OP, you'd get a very different set of answers if you asked about strollers. In that category, there is a huge difference in ease of use and comfort. It's a great place to splurge. I bet most here would support a splurge for a nicer stroller. Many would also encourage a splurge on a nicer chair or glider for the nursery. Many would support an expensive-ish car seat, as cheaper models can be less safe and have frustrating features (e.g., install or straps).

The thing with a crib is that they're mostly all the same and even if you want nice furniture, you have to know that the crib is likely going to get beat up and chewed so any extra investment is just a waste. Wait and get a quality big kid bed in two or three years. Get the cheapest crib you can stand now. Spluge in other areas.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It doesn’t make me feel my baby is “ super special” to what a new, safe crib for him. I’m willing to budge on some things like clothes, swings, bouncers, etc., but not a crib or something important like a car seat.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It doesn’t make me feel my baby is “ super special” to what a new, safe crib for him. I’m willing to budge on some things like clothes, swings, bouncers, etc., but not a crib or something important like a car seat.

That's the thing though, OP - I'm not sure the aspects of a crib that you view as "super important" actually are. Or even that a crib itself is is when they're tiny, because they barely use it. They spend so much more time in the clothes and swings and bouncers in the early days (which are great to get second-hand). You can get a "new, safe" crib from many sources, high and low budget. FWIW, I did splurge on a nice mattress.

It's fine if you want to get a fancy crib. But stop being defensive about it and stop acting like it's safer or something.

Not OP but many people have their babies in their cribs from birth or after a couple of months. Even if the baby is transitioned to crib at six months, you will still get plenty of use out of the crib until the child transitions to a toddler bed. Many use a crib for a toddler bed or for another child. I think it’s fine that OP wants something she likes. Many times a crib is worth an investment if you plan on transitioning to toddler bed, have multiple kids use it, or for resale value.

We used our Pottery Barn crib for two kid’s. We moved both kids in the cribs at 3 and 4 months old. We used the cribs before transitions them to the crib at night. Most of my friends had their babies sleeping in their cribs from birth or by 3 months.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It doesn’t make me feel my baby is “ super special” to what a new, safe crib for him. I’m willing to budge on some things like clothes, swings, bouncers, etc., but not a crib or something important like a car seat.

That's the thing though, OP - I'm not sure the aspects of a crib that you view as "super important" actually are. Or even that a crib itself is is when they're tiny, because they barely use it. They spend so much more time in the clothes and swings and bouncers in the early days (which are great to get second-hand). You can get a "new, safe" crib from many sources, high and low budget. FWIW, I did splurge on a nice mattress.

It's fine if you want to get a fancy crib. But stop being defensive about it and stop acting like it's safer or something.

Not OP but many people have their babies in their cribs from birth or after a couple of months. Even if the baby is transitioned to crib at six months, you will still get plenty of use out of the crib until the child transitions to a toddler bed. Many use a crib for a toddler bed or for another child. I think it’s fine that OP wants something she likes. Many times a crib is worth an investment if you plan on transitioning to toddler bed, have multiple kids use it, or for resale value.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It doesn’t make me feel my baby is “ super special” to what a new, safe crib for him. I’m willing to budge on some things like clothes, swings, bouncers, etc., but not a crib or something important like a car seat.

That's the thing though, OP - I'm not sure the aspects of a crib that you view as "super important" actually are. Or even that a crib itself is is when they're tiny, because they barely use it. They spend so much more time in the clothes and swings and bouncers in the early days (which are great to get second-hand). You can get a "new, safe" crib from many sources, high and low budget. FWIW, I did splurge on a nice mattress.

It's fine if you want to get a fancy crib. But stop being defensive about it and stop acting like it's safer or something.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It doesn’t make me feel my baby is “ super special” to what a new, safe crib for him. I’m willing to budge on some things like clothes, swings, bouncers, etc., but not a crib or something important like a car seat.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. We want a safe crib but I also want something I think looks nice. We don’t be decorating the nursery, but I want nice nursery furniture.

I totally understand this. My children also were raised in a bedroom that only a white crib, white dresser, white carpet, and stark white walls. No artwork, rug, or toys allowed. It may seem stark, but it was very soothing.

Wow. Please read up on child development. Kids need color. Soothing to you maybe but I promise not to them.

Anonymous wrote:The Pottery Barn crib isn't worth the extra money or the extra shipping cost. My DH insisted on a particular crib so we could convert it to a full sized bed. 10 years later, those cribs (we had a second baby 17 months later) are in storage, the conversion kit is no longer available, and my kids are sleeping in Crate and Barrel bunk beds.

I would go with the Da Vinci.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We want a safe crib but I also want something I think looks nice. We don’t be decorating the nursery, but I want nice nursery furniture.

I totally understand this. My children also were raised in a bedroom that only a white crib, white dresser, white carpet, and stark white walls. No artwork, rug, or toys allowed. It may seem stark, but it was very soothing.

Wow. Please read up on child development. Kids need color. Soothing to you maybe but I promise not to them.

Kids don't developmentally need the room they sleep in to be a certain color. You and OP are both nuts. Her kids weren't soothed or unsoothed by the color of the room they slept in.

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Anonymous wrote:Pottery barn. I would not get a used crib or car seat as they are both for safety. Spending around $400 is reasonable. I would not spend more. The cheaper cribs are not as sturdy or well made. I'm cheap but cribs and car seats were my one splurge.

OP here. I’m confused. You said Pottery Barn but said you would out spend more than $400. Pottery Barn Crib is $999 but in sale for $700.

The only thing we are using used is clothes from hand me downs. We are buying all the items that are super important or will be used for 2+ years new.

What items are "super important", OP?