Anonymous wrote:I'm a 33 year old woman who is friends with a 28 year old co-worker/friend. She introduced me to her dad at a pre-Covid party, and he and I stayed in touch. He is only 52 and still in great shape (full head of hair, very slim, 6'2, muscles, etc) and is an attorney. I am a GS-12 who is trying to settle down and he and I have really connected during COVID lockdown. He and I still have not "done the deed" because part of me think it's weird that that I'm friends with his daughter and have known her for over 5 years. But he says he's very interested in getting re-married and having more children, which is something I am definitely interested in.
I feel conflicted. I know she would consider me one of her best friends, but she has no idea that I've been seeing her dad. I also feel so tempted to finally "seal the deal" with him because he's so hot, and I know he gets turned on when we're kissing.
Anonymous wrote:Go for it! Happiness, love, a family, children.. it's nothing to turn your nose up at when it presents itself to you.
Anonymous wrote:We had dinner tonight and plan on having dinner again tomorrow. I know people are being critical of my writing style, but this is how I express myself. Thank you for reading my posts and commenting.
Anonymous wrote:[youtube]Anonymous wrote:If you date him I don’t know how much stock I’d put into his getting remarried and wanting more kids thing.
I think your friend will be weirded out unless she’s very open minded.
I personally have never understood huge age gaps but otherwise it seems like no one is getting hurt here so go for it.
Many of his golfing buddies and men in his firm are re-marrying at 50+ and having 3+ children (think Alec Baldwin). I would love to be able to quit my GS-12 job and stay at home, but still not sure what to do. If I work really hard, I might be able to get promoted to a GS-13 in a couple years.
Anonymous wrote:Why is you telling “your friend” an issue when she is his daughter!!! The onus is on him to tell her. He is her father! You are merely “her friend.” Their relationship is forever, you are a flash in the pan for her.
Anonymous wrote:LOL - I did marry a friends Dad. I was 40, she was 30 and he was 55. She introduced us and she thought we’d like each other and that was 15 years ago. It happens people!