Anonymous wrote:Here is how you fix the problem OP.
At your next (socially distanced!) dinner party, just invite one of your DH's ex girlfriends. No need to tell him, he'll figure it out, and when he does, all the stars will align.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are we going to talk about the word "lover"? Maybe just calling him an ex would be less inflammatory.
LOL OK why is there a turkey in the bath with these love ahs?
Anonymous wrote:Are we going to talk about the word "lover"? Maybe just calling him an ex would be less inflammatory.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, how did your "friend" bring it up in conversation with DH?
I am really curious on how she went there -- was it a natural extension of a topic? Did she realize by his reaction that he didn't know?
Do you think she may have done so purposefully (as is the popular crowdsourced answer)?
She was gently touching his arm and telling him how important trust wasn’t in a marriage when she just blurted it out.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, how did your "friend" bring it up in conversation with DH?
I am really curious on how she went there -- was it a natural extension of a topic? Did she realize by his reaction that he didn't know?
Do you think she may have done so purposefully (as is the popular crowdsourced answer)?
She was gently touching his arm and telling him how important trust wasn’t in a marriage when she just blurted it out.