Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is a horrible, sick, tragic thing to happen. There is MUCH MORE that is going to come out about this incident. Not positive for the teacher, let me just say that. I have a family member at Sidwell, in the middle school. The teacher was well liked by everyone, no one saw this coming, and most of the students say this could have never happened. Now, however, Sidwell is trying to "reach out" to alumni to see if this has happened before. Amazing how they have KNOWN since the summer and they are just now reaching out!
I think the evidence will show that this man is guilty of a lot more than just the incident with this one student. In addition, Sidwell was wrong in telling parents (when asked why this teacher wasn't at school during the fall semester) that the teacher had a "chronic illness" ... that is where the lawsuits will begin. They could have said "he is on admin leave" and left it at that. Having said he had a chronic illness leaves the door wide open for others to have contact with him. Even the teachers didn't know why he wasn't there.
I do not believe that the school told anybody that he had a chronic illness - parents assumed that was the case because he had been sick in the spring.
In all fairness, technically sexual abuse could be interpreted as chronic illness.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is a horrible, sick, tragic thing to happen. There is MUCH MORE that is going to come out about this incident. Not positive for the teacher, let me just say that. I have a family member at Sidwell, in the middle school. The teacher was well liked by everyone, no one saw this coming, and most of the students say this could have never happened. Now, however, Sidwell is trying to "reach out" to alumni to see if this has happened before. Amazing how they have KNOWN since the summer and they are just now reaching out!
I think the evidence will show that this man is guilty of a lot more than just the incident with this one student. In addition, Sidwell was wrong in telling parents (when asked why this teacher wasn't at school during the fall semester) that the teacher had a "chronic illness" ... that is where the lawsuits will begin. They could have said "he is on admin leave" and left it at that. Having said he had a chronic illness leaves the door wide open for others to have contact with him. Even the teachers didn't know why he wasn't there.
I do not believe that the school told anybody that he had a chronic illness - parents assumed that was the case because he had been sick in the spring.
Anonymous wrote:This is a horrible, sick, tragic thing to happen. There is MUCH MORE that is going to come out about this incident. Not positive for the teacher, let me just say that. I have a family member at Sidwell, in the middle school. The teacher was well liked by everyone, no one saw this coming, and most of the students say this could have never happened. Now, however, Sidwell is trying to "reach out" to alumni to see if this has happened before. Amazing how they have KNOWN since the summer and they are just now reaching out!
I think the evidence will show that this man is guilty of a lot more than just the incident with this one student. In addition, Sidwell was wrong in telling parents (when asked why this teacher wasn't at school during the fall semester) that the teacher had a "chronic illness" ... that is where the lawsuits will begin. They could have said "he is on admin leave" and left it at that. Having said he had a chronic illness leaves the door wide open for others to have contact with him. Even the teachers didn't know why he wasn't there.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:@22:57 Were students hanging out with him this fall despite that he was on leave?
Why would any parent think it is ok to have a relationship with a teacher where a student is "hanging out" with them? I would hardly think that opens the school up for liability.
Two words SLEEPAWAY CAMP!!!
Anonymous wrote:@22:57 Were students hanging out with him this fall despite that he was on leave?
Why would any parent think it is ok to have a relationship with a teacher where a student is "hanging out" with them? I would hardly think that opens the school up for liability.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm the poster who asked a few pages ago whether people had found this teacher to be creepy before this incident. The reason I asked, and this is not meant in any way to justify or lesson the horror of what happened, but I wonder, at his age, if he possibly was suffering from the beginnings of dementia or something similar. One of the symptoms of this can be highly inappropriate sexual conduct. It could be an explanation (not an excuse) for why an apparently popular teacher went off the deep end without any prior signs or clues.
Or maybe he didn't get caught until now, for whatever reason.....
My thoughts exactly. Many pedophiles and even serial killers tend to have excellent reputations until they're caught and the truth comes roaring out. Hopefully, the truth will come out soon enough through a speedy trial/admission. It would be horrible to further victimize the boy(s) he allegedly molested by not believing them due to the beloved teacher's wonderful reputation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I agree pp. What if the charges are false?
Or do they believe that the charges are true?
Come on. This is Sidwell we are talking about. Doesn't matter if the charges are true or false. There is no way they would ever be able to bring this guy back after being charged (as in, the police have reasonable grounds to think he did this act) with sexual abuse. I completely believe in due process and that he should be considered innocent until proven guilty. But Sidwell knows that there is no chance they would let this guy back in after being charged with this...guilty or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I agree pp. What if the charges are false?
Or do they believe that the charges are true?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm the poster who asked a few pages ago whether people had found this teacher to be creepy before this incident. The reason I asked, and this is not meant in any way to justify or lesson the horror of what happened, but I wonder, at his age, if he possibly was suffering from the beginnings of dementia or something similar. One of the symptoms of this can be highly inappropriate sexual conduct. It could be an explanation (not an excuse) for why an apparently popular teacher went off the deep end without any prior signs or clues.
Or maybe he didn't get caught until now, for whatever reason.....