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Anonymous wrote:As a man, I will chime I with an anecdote.

I dated a girl from 26-29. I had no intention of marrying her. In fact, I knew I wouldn't. But, she loved me.

I never introduced her to any of my family- relatively easy as they were 1000 miles away, but on 'our' second Christmas her best friend apparently told her I was odd for keeping her in the dark. She asked about it and I lied, saying I wasn't close with my family. She believed me.

The next contract I was on was the most gorgeous interesting, kind, funny woman ever. I fell in love with her in an afternoon. I ghosted the first girl over a month or two.

We have been married 11 years now and have two daughters. My family met her at my Dad's 60th which was two months after we met.

Point being- men do what they want to do.

This guy doesn't want your sister or the kid. That's why he's keeping it quiet.

This is informative and aligns with what I have seen in the past as well. This guy is honest and so a great deal to be learned from his post.

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Anonymous wrote:Update:

He went out again...didn’t come home until 6 am, didn’t call her once to even let her know he was still going to be out. She is friends on social media with this his friend who was out with him as well and saw videos of her boyfriend dancing with other women.

I know you all said I should mind my own business but she called me really upset. I was pretty angry for her for stressing her out with a new born, but I still held my tongue. He clearly still has some growing up to do :/

Does she live close to you? Maybe invite her to stay with you for a few days. If I were you, I don't think I would hold my tongue entirely. This guy is a jerk and bad news. The goal should be for your sister to leave him.

How is he a jerk? A parent isn’t allowed to go out for one night now?

Exactly.

They’re just saying this because he’s a man. If a woman had gone out for a night they’d defend her and say it was necessary and that she needed it.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Update:

He went out again...didn’t come home until 6 am, didn’t call her once to even let her know he was still going to be out. She is friends on social media with this his friend who was out with him as well and saw videos of her boyfriend dancing with other women.

I know you all said I should mind my own business but she called me really upset. I was pretty angry for her for stressing her out with a new born, but I still held my tongue. He clearly still has some growing up to do :/

Does she live close to you? Maybe invite her to stay with you for a few days. If I were you, I don't think I would hold my tongue entirely. This guy is a jerk and bad news. The goal should be for your sister to leave him.

How is he a jerk? A parent isn’t allowed to go out for one night now?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Update:

He went out again...didn’t come home until 6 am, didn’t call her once to even let her know he was still going to be out. She is friends on social media with this his friend who was out with him as well and saw videos of her boyfriend dancing with other women.

I know you all said I should mind my own business but she called me really upset. I was pretty angry for her for stressing her out with a new born, but I still held my tongue. He clearly still has some growing up to do :/

Does she live close to you? Maybe invite her to stay with you for a few days. If I were you, I don't think I would hold my tongue entirely. This guy is a jerk and bad news. The goal should be for your sister to leave him.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a man, I will chime I with an anecdote.

I dated a girl from 26-29. I had no intention of marrying her. In fact, I knew I wouldn't. But, she loved me.

I never introduced her to any of my family- relatively easy as they were 1000 miles away, but on 'our' second Christmas her best friend apparently told her I was odd for keeping her in the dark. She asked about it and I lied, saying I wasn't close with my family. She believed me.

The next contract I was on was the most gorgeous interesting, kind, funny woman ever. I fell in love with her in an afternoon. I ghosted the first girl over a month or two.

We have been married 11 years now and have two daughters. My family met her at my Dad's 60th which was two months after we met.

Point being- men do what they want to do.

This guy doesn't want your sister or the kid. That's why he's keeping it quiet.

Another man here; and this guy is spot on. He's keeping his options open/immature. Sorry.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a man, I will chime I with an anecdote.

I dated a girl from 26-29. I had no intention of marrying her. In fact, I knew I wouldn't. But, she loved me.

I never introduced her to any of my family- relatively easy as they were 1000 miles away, but on 'our' second Christmas her best friend apparently told her I was odd for keeping her in the dark. She asked about it and I lied, saying I wasn't close with my family. She believed me.

The next contract I was on was the most gorgeous interesting, kind, funny woman ever. I fell in love with her in an afternoon. I ghosted the first girl over a month or two.

We have been married 11 years now and have two daughters. My family met her at my Dad's 60th which was two months after we met.

Point being- men do what they want to do.

This guy doesn't want your sister or the kid. That's why he's keeping it quiet.

But he isn’t keeping her hidden from his family?

Another man here; and this guy is spot on. He's keeping his options open/immature. Sorry.

Anonymous wrote:Update:

He went out again...didn’t come home until 6 am, didn’t call her once to even let her know he was still going to be out. She is friends on social media with this his friend who was out with him as well and saw videos of her boyfriend dancing with other women.

I know you all said I should mind my own business but she called me really upset. I was pretty angry for her for stressing her out with a new born, but I still held my tongue. He clearly still has some growing up to do :/

Anonymous wrote:Held your tongue? This is your sister, id be pissed if my sister knew something and didn’t tell me. Regardless whether it’s good or bad, we both would want to know!

Anonymous wrote:As a man, I will chime I with an anecdote.

I dated a girl from 26-29. I had no intention of marrying her. In fact, I knew I wouldn't. But, she loved me.

I never introduced her to any of my family- relatively easy as they were 1000 miles away, but on 'our' second Christmas her best friend apparently told her I was odd for keeping her in the dark. She asked about it and I lied, saying I wasn't close with my family. She believed me.

The next contract I was on was the most gorgeous interesting, kind, funny woman ever. I fell in love with her in an afternoon. I ghosted the first girl over a month or two.

We have been married 11 years now and have two daughters. My family met her at my Dad's 60th which was two months after we met.

Point being- men do what they want to do.

This guy doesn't want your sister or the kid. That's why he's keeping it quiet.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This guy will unfortunately be engaged to some other unlucky woman in six months. She needs to kick him to the curb before he does it to her. At the very least, she should be on birth control.

This!

Wilmer Valderama, the actor, was with Demi Lavoto for 6 years. He’s now engaged to someone else today-it didn’t take 6 years. Men are notorious for dating women for years, turn around and marry someone else 6 months later.

Anonymous wrote:As a man, I will chime I with an anecdote.

I dated a girl from 26-29. I had no intention of marrying her. In fact, I knew I wouldn't. But, she loved me.

I never introduced her to any of my family- relatively easy as they were 1000 miles away, but on 'our' second Christmas her best friend apparently told her I was odd for keeping her in the dark. She asked about it and I lied, saying I wasn't close with my family. She believed me.

The next contract I was on was the most gorgeous interesting, kind, funny woman ever. I fell in love with her in an afternoon. I ghosted the first girl over a month or two.

We have been married 11 years now and have two daughters. My family met her at my Dad's 60th which was two months after we met.

Point being- men do what they want to do.

This guy doesn't want your sister or the kid. That's why he's keeping it quiet.

Anonymous wrote:As a man, I will chime I with an anecdote.

I dated a girl from 26-29. I had no intention of marrying her. In fact, I knew I wouldn't. But, she loved me.

I never introduced her to any of my family- relatively easy as they were 1000 miles away, but on 'our' second Christmas her best friend apparently told her I was odd for keeping her in the dark. She asked about it and I lied, saying I wasn't close with my family. She believed me.

The next contract I was on was the most gorgeous interesting, kind, funny woman ever. I fell in love with her in an afternoon. I ghosted the first girl over a month or two.

We have been married 11 years now and have two daughters. My family met her at my Dad's 60th which was two months after we met.

Point being- men do what they want to do.

This guy doesn't want your sister or the kid. That's why he's keeping it quiet.