You need to understand statistics and risk. IUD's are highly effective. Uisng condoms is also more effective, but IUD's are already super-effective.

You probably wear your seatbelt when you drive your car. Do you wear a helmet also? Wearing a helmet will lower your risk even further that you'll be seriously injured or die in a car accident, so why not wear that also?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you have an IUD then the only concern is STDs. Both of you should get tested and then lose the condoms.

If you like 2 methods to feel safer, he can pull out.

(I'm a woman, BTW.)

what we did was pull out and a clean finish with oral. It seemed to be just as good or better!

That is a solution I can get behind. Just pulling out and letting it fly is no fun at all.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you have an IUD then the only concern is STDs. Both of you should get tested and then lose the condoms.

If you like 2 methods to feel safer, he can pull out.

(I'm a woman, BTW.)

I agree with this.

/also a woman

3rd and also a woman. IUD and withdrawal is good enough. Once you’re in your 30s, it’s not as easy to get pregnant as you think!

That can be a sticky situation. The only thing that sucks more than condoms is withdrawal. It's like trying to stop a freight train.