Anonymous wrote:This post makes me anxious! How do you all save that much? We’ve had many setbacks in the last few years between medical bills and unemployment. Some days I feel like I can barely keep my head above water.
It's hard- we invested a lot for DS, but hit the skids a few years ago, so the early investment helped us--college cost is outrageous. Here's the thing-- we have the money saved, but my DS has ADHD and realistically, in spite of being very smart, he will probably live at home and go to an in state school or community college at least the first year. Realistically, I don't think he's going to ready to be on his own at eighteen-- his maturity level will probably be that of a fifteen or sixteen year old when he graduates. Living at home will save us money, but it will ensure that our money isn't wasted. Friend sent her very smart son (similar profile) away for school right after high school-- kid blew his academic scholarship the first year. It' wasn't really his fault-- he just wasn't ready. I have another friend who lives in a large Canadian city-- she said it's more common other places for kids to live at home while they attend school.
I'm sharing this because there are def 1%ers here and their kids may take the traditional American college path--but it's not always a foregone conclusion even when the resources are there.