How Opus Dei is the Heights? I thought they were founded by them and that they have an OD priest hold Mass. But most families are not OD.

what children in car crashes??? what are you talking about?

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this convo on the heights thread? My son is a freshman there, has no phone, doesn’t text and is being raised to respect his mother, sister and grandmothers. And we’ve seen the same in his friends and classmates. I can’t sleak of other schools but the heights is not portrayed correctly on these boards.

Respecting a woman and being able to work side-by-side with her as an equal are very different. Would you say that most men at the heights believe women are equals and belong in the workplace as an equal or better?

Or do you think they follow the teachings of the church that women defer to their husbands

You are a complete loon.

You actually can find all this information on the Heights podcasts

"The church" doesn't teach that.

Ephesians 5: Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

New poster here. This is selective and a misunderstanding of this passage. It fails to include the next verse, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and handed himself over for her”. And it fails to include the introductory verse, “Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ.” The passage is about mutual submission of wills, not superiority... Christ loved the Church to the point of death.

That said, I have no idea whether they teach this at the Heights.

Go to question 4. ... founder of Opus Dei

https://stjosemaria.org/st-josemaria-escriva-10-questions-about-marriage/

Don’t want to be accused of cherry picking but my favorite line is...

I often say jokingly that older facades need more restoration. It is the advice of a priest. An old Spanish saying goes: ‘A well-groomed woman keeps her husband away from other doors.’

That is why I am not afraid to say that women are responsible for eighty per cent of the infidelities of their husband

From the post: But they mustn’t forget that the secret of married happiness lies in everyday things, not in daydreams. It lies in finding the hidden joy of coming home in the evening, in affectionate relations with their children, in the everyday work in which the whole family cooperates; in good humor in the face of difficulties that should be met with a sporting spirit; in making the best use of all the advantages that civilization offers to help us rear children, to make the house pleasant and life more simple.

I constantly tell those who have been called by God to form a home to love one another always, to love each other with the love of their youth. Anyone who thinks that love ends when the worries and difficulties that life brings with it begin, has a poor idea of marriage, which is a sacrament and an ideal and a vocation. It is precisely then that love grows strong. Torrents of worries and difficulties are incapable of drowning true love, because people who sacrifice themselves generously together are brought closer by their sacrifice. As Scripture says, aquae multae, a host of difficulties, physical and moral, non potuerunt extinguere caritatem, cannot extinguish love (Cant 8:7). “

That's very beautiful, actually.

Anonymous wrote:I usually find the dcum schools discussion too snarky, but this is so funny I am starting to reconsider.

-a bad-driving Catholic Virginian

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Anonymous wrote:I'm agnostic and sent my boys there, AMA.

When I called they only wanted Catholics and its a highly religious school. So, this poster's kids will have to learn to find God very quickly or be an outcast.

The Heights is only 60% Catholic.

They are also 40% Virginians which is way more bothersome.

That's just because most of the Marylanders who enroll kill themselves in automobile accidents.

The fact that the posters who come here to write negative things about The Heights joke about children dying in car crashes tells you everything you need to know about them. Do you tell these funny jokes at parties? So droll you are!!!

Anonymous wrote:PP why are you quoting a whacky Opus Dei founder as support for your outlandish stereotyping of all men who ever attended all boys' schools?

Heights is Opus Dei.

PP why are you quoting a whacky Opus Dei founder as support for your outlandish stereotyping of all men who ever attended all boys' schools?

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this convo on the heights thread? My son is a freshman there, has no phone, doesn’t text and is being raised to respect his mother, sister and grandmothers. And we’ve seen the same in his friends and classmates. I can’t sleak of other schools but the heights is not portrayed correctly on these boards.

Respecting a woman and being able to work side-by-side with her as an equal are very different. Would you say that most men at the heights believe women are equals and belong in the workplace as an equal or better?

Or do you think they follow the teachings of the church that women defer to their husbands

You are a complete loon.

You actually can find all this information on the Heights podcasts

"The church" doesn't teach that.

Ephesians 5: Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

New poster here. This is selective and a misunderstanding of this passage. It fails to include the next verse, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and handed himself over for her”. And it fails to include the introductory verse, “Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ.” The passage is about mutual submission of wills, not superiority... Christ loved the Church to the point of death.

That said, I have no idea whether they teach this at the Heights.

Go to question 4. ... founder of Opus Dei

https://stjosemaria.org/st-josemaria-escriva-10-questions-about-marriage/

Don’t want to be accused of cherry picking but my favorite line is...

I often say jokingly that older facades need more restoration. It is the advice of a priest. An old Spanish saying goes: ‘A well-groomed woman keeps her husband away from other doors.’

That is why I am not afraid to say that women are responsible for eighty per cent of the infidelities of their husband

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this convo on the heights thread? My son is a freshman there, has no phone, doesn’t text and is being raised to respect his mother, sister and grandmothers. And we’ve seen the same in his friends and classmates. I can’t sleak of other schools but the heights is not portrayed correctly on these boards.

Respecting a woman and being able to work side-by-side with her as an equal are very different. Would you say that most men at the heights believe women are equals and belong in the workplace as an equal or better?

Or do you think they follow the teachings of the church that women defer to their husbands

You are a complete loon.

You actually can find all this information on the Heights podcasts

"The church" doesn't teach that.

Ephesians 5: Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

New poster here. This is selective and a misunderstanding of this passage. It fails to include the next verse, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and handed himself over for her”. And it fails to include the introductory verse, “Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ.” The passage is about mutual submission of wills, not superiority... Christ loved the Church to the point of death.

That said, I have no idea whether they teach this at the Heights.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this convo on the heights thread? My son is a freshman there, has no phone, doesn’t text and is being raised to respect his mother, sister and grandmothers. And we’ve seen the same in his friends and classmates. I can’t sleak of other schools but the heights is not portrayed correctly on these boards.

Respecting a woman and being able to work side-by-side with her as an equal are very different. Would you say that most men at the heights believe women are equals and belong in the workplace as an equal or better?

Or do you think they follow the teachings of the church that women defer to their husbands

You are a complete loon.

You actually can find all this information on the Heights podcasts

"The church" doesn't teach that.

Ephesians 5: Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this convo on the heights thread? My son is a freshman there, has no phone, doesn’t text and is being raised to respect his mother, sister and grandmothers. And we’ve seen the same in his friends and classmates. I can’t sleak of other schools but the heights is not portrayed correctly on these boards.

Respecting a woman and being able to work side-by-side with her as an equal are very different. Would you say that most men at the heights believe women are equals and belong in the workplace as an equal or better?

Or do you think they follow the teachings of the church that women defer to their husbands

You are a complete loon.

You actually can find all this information on the Heights podcasts

"The church" doesn't teach that.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this convo on the heights thread? My son is a freshman there, has no phone, doesn’t text and is being raised to respect his mother, sister and grandmothers. And we’ve seen the same in his friends and classmates. I can’t sleak of other schools but the heights is not portrayed correctly on these boards.

Respecting a woman and being able to work side-by-side with her as an equal are very different. Would you say that most men at the heights believe women are equals and belong in the workplace as an equal or better?

Or do you think they follow the teachings of the church that women defer to their husbands

You are a complete loon.

You actually can find all this information on the Heights podcasts

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this convo on the heights thread? My son is a freshman there, has no phone, doesn’t text and is being raised to respect his mother, sister and grandmothers. And we’ve seen the same in his friends and classmates. I can’t sleak of other schools but the heights is not portrayed correctly on these boards.

Respecting a woman and being able to work side-by-side with her as an equal are very different. Would you say that most men at the heights believe women are equals and belong in the workplace as an equal or better?

Or do you think they follow the teachings of the church that women defer to their husbands

You are a complete loon.