Anonymous wrote:I was using his phone to call our phone company because my phone was dead and he received a text from someone with a picture of a young boy, so I clicked on it and saw the person saying, "I was thinking about what you said to me after we hung up, I'm so happy that you think of me that way. Thank you. Happy New Year my friend xo"

Opinions???
Also, I get it. I shouldn't have clicked on the text.

Give to local Police Dept

"I was using his phone to call our phone company because my phone was dead"

You were not. You were snooping.

Hey OP, any updates?

Anonymous wrote:Step 1: Call her and tell her you have her money and meet her and the son.

Step 2: At the meet, when you hand over the $100, give the boy a head pat and prick a hair out, Robert DiNero/Focker style.

Step 3: Run a DNA test on the boy and your DH.


Then come back and report results to DCUM for Step 4.

I like how you think!

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Anonymous wrote:Oh I would break dishes and demand answers.

+1 to the eye roll. Are you the pregnant woman from Off Topic who lost her mind over someone parking too close to you?

Another Precious Pregnant Princess.

pp again.
OP, I think you luckily stumbled on to the very early stages of an affair. Your DH made his feelings known to this woman and before anything happened, you saw the text and called him out on it. you do need to talk to him more about it and like the other pps said, stay calm, but explain to him that giving money to someone doesn't solicit a response like the one she gave. That it's clear from the text that he expressed feelings about her and she's happy about those feelings. He needs to come clean to you. Maybe you both can go to counseling where it's a safe place for him to share that he did indeed have some feelings for her, and you and he could work those things out.

I mean, it's human to be attracted to others that aren't your spouse. The problem is when you start acting on those attractions.