Anonymous wrote:2018 7 k per month alimony for 6 years. Three kids sahm wife.

$7k in alimony is pretty big. I assume you are collecting something similar to that for child support.

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Anonymous wrote:I get $13,000 a month. Married 23 years. I worked part time.

These are exactly the kinds of unjust and offensive awards that modern alimony reforms are eliminating. Unless you are severely disabled, there is absolutely zero reason that you don’t have a fulltime job.

Actually, there are 13,000 reasons.

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Are you really a new poster or are you a chronic MRA troll annoyed women hold the trump card of having given men often desperately wanted offspring.

Desperately wanted? Men can father children well into their 40s. Women, on the other hand, face not only declining fertility in their early to mid 30s but also also face massively declining sexual value as their looks fade.

Nonresponsive. Just because you can buy a house at 40 or 50 doesn’t mean you don’t desperately want one, or even want one at 30.

Anonymous wrote:A female friend of mine just told me she is divorcing her husband. He is 20 yrs older than her. They’ve been married 15 yr and no kids. Shortly after they married, he took early retirement. She has supported their household for the last 10 yrs. He received social security and his pension. She has to pay him alimony until he dies or remarries.

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Are you really a new poster or are you a chronic MRA troll annoyed women hold the trump card of having given men often desperately wanted offspring.

Desperately wanted? Men can father children well into their 40s. Women, on the other hand, face not only declining fertility in their early to mid 30s but also also face massively declining sexual value as their looks fade.

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But facts matter. If men weren't so for feverish to get in and out of these golden vaginas they would't be sweating it over alimony. Men must know that most women don't feel that way about Penises. Dicks are a less than a dime a dozen. Most women, even young ones are not clamoring for it. Men want sex and some want it so bad they are willing to agree to any and everything. As they say "Don't hate the player, hate the game."

Why sign a contract when so many women are willing to give it up for free?

I didnt ask my wife for a prenup. I just handed her a notoraized document that stated she got everything except for 20k to keep me afloat for a few weeks and have a deposit. I never wanted to feel or her to feel that she had to stay with me to maintain same lifestyle. I made the money once, can do it again. Our relationship being successful is number 1 priority to me.

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Anonymous wrote:Woman here and I agree that alimony is ridiculous. There's no reason any person on God's green earth shouldn't be able to support themselves once divorced.

And women who had scaled back work or stayed home when their kids were small, thus sacrificing career advancement, including salary increases? Ever read “The Price of Motherhood”?

You made that choice knowing it might bite you in the ass in the future. Team No Alimony

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Thats the most ridiculous statement I've seen on this thread. It takes TWO people to make a baby dumbass. And given this logic, you want all women to "roll the dice" and decide to have kids knowing that if their marriage were to ever end they would just have to suck up all their lost income/earning potential for the years they were out of the workforce? This is the society you want to live in?? The social contract of rearing a family is null and void. All women who's marriages end and have kids forfeit any support from the father to compensate for the family rearing duties that took her away from an outside paycheck and to help her get back on her feet while she still has, at a minimum, joint custody? Umm, pretty sure we would have a negative population growth if this is the way the system was set up. You are not only a moron, but a truly horrible person

A female friend of mine just told me she is divorcing her husband. He is 20 yrs older than her. They’ve been married 15 yr and no kids. Shortly after they married, he took early retirement. She has supported their household for the last 10 yrs. He received social security and his pension. She has to pay him alimony until he dies or remarries.

2018 7 k per month alimony for 6 years. Three kids sahm wife.

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Anonymous wrote:In the middle of divorce, no alimony. Good friend...SAHM for 8 years...alimony was 3 years for her.

Exactly. Your good friend received what is called “rehabilitative spousal support” so that she could re-enter the workforce. You were already self supporting, so no support needed. This is the modern approach: it is actually quite fair and reasonable. Most of the ridiculous alimony amounts claimed in previous posts would never happen in 2018, those days are over.

Not in California. If you want a large alimony award, move to California.

You don’t think nourishing and growing life, and bringing it into this word contribute to something? I know damn well a mans body doesn’t go through that.



Who do you think keeps your nation free, dies in wars for you, and performs the most dangerous jobs in the society that women won't do?

Women want alimony? They have to sign up the draft too.

women do serve in combat, although this administration is trying to walk that back. And when women are represented proportionally in congress they should certainly be represented proportionally elsewhere including the draft.

Anonymous wrote:In the middle of divorce, no alimony. Good friend...SAHM for 8 years...alimony was 3 years for her.

Exactly. Your good friend received what is called “rehabilitative spousal support” so that she could re-enter the workforce. You were already self supporting, so no support needed. This is the modern approach: it is actually quite fair and reasonable. Most of the ridiculous alimony amounts claimed in previous posts would never happen in 2018, those days are over.

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You don’t think nourishing and growing life, and bringing it into this word contribute to something? I know damn well a mans body doesn’t go through that.

So what? Any 7idiot can have a baby.

I'm sure you've already been told, you're a pig. Whatever family dysfunction you suffered growing up, I'm sorry. But for God's sake please get some therapy.

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You don’t think nourishing and growing life, and bringing it into this word contribute to something? I know damn well a mans body doesn’t go through that.

Who do you think keeps your nation free, dies in wars for you, and performs the most dangerous jobs in the society that women won't do?

Women want alimony? They have to sign up the draft too.

And for every man that does those things, a woman has given birth to them.

New poster. Stop with the golden vagina birth BS. It’s really really stupid

Are you really a new poster or are you a chronic MRA troll annoyed women hold the trump card of having given men often desperately wanted offspring.

I’m a woman.