[quote][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DW has started hiding bottles and uses a credit card that she thinks I can’t check to get drinks at her lunches with friends now too on a regular basis. She is really spiraling downhill. Drinks at lunch, happy hour/late afternoon and evening/dinner. So sad. One day she will kill herself in car accident or die in a way the nurse described in an earlier post. [/quote]\
Whether you're OP or not -- Whoever you are, have you confronted your wife about the drinking you [u]know[/u] she is doing?
If you haven't confronted--why not?
Do you have children? If you do: You must confront because if they are in the car when she has that accident, they too may die. And if you let her go on driving them, or anyone at all, knowing she may be drunk, how could you live with yourself?
Confront, tell her getting help is non-negotiable, and take her damn keys. She will kill someone ELSE who is innocently driving down the road. She won't accept help? Leave. Take the kids if you have them.
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I have confronted her. She is in total denial. Of course I am concerned about drunk driving.