I'm 48 and I'm not sleeping with anyone on the first or second or third date, that's not enough time spent with a person for me to feel comfortable enough for that kind of intimacy. My current SO just made a comment about how he initially thought I wasn't interested in sex and he's glad he didn't follow that instinct because four years later and we're still rolling around and getting it in and trying new things.

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Anonymous wrote:Most of the women I met on dating sites had sex with me on the first date. ALL the others did the coffee thing first, then planned sex on the next date, or no next date. Yes, it's the norm now. My biggest surprise is how few, like only two, insisted on condoms.

This is insane. STD rates in DC are through the roof, including HIV.

Yet somehow, I've managed to never catch anything while enjoying condom free sex. Woman sure love that I have a vasectomy.

How do I do that? By knowing how that demographic for the STD rates in DC Baltimore area breaks down.

How does it breakdown? Where do you get your information ??

emoe else posted it but it was deleted, along with all the follow-on comments. I guess government statistics are deemed too racist in this day.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a 41 year old divorced woman, and I think I'm going to have a rude awakening when I jump back into dating. I'm used to getting busy after an exclusive monogamous relationship so after 3-4 months of about once a week or every other week dates.

There's a lid for every pot. Definitely you will find men who want to wait, there is even a thread on guy who doesn't want to have sex with his girl because too early

Completely agree... Early 50s MAN here, widowed for ~4 years and I'm not a fan of one-night stands. Granted, I was married for ~16 years and enjoy monogamy and looking for a LTR. Sure, I'm likely in the super minority and some posters will want me to hand over my "man card"; however, I'm looking for quality over quantity...

L_S

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As a man, I want to be Mr. Big, and the rebound guy. Tons of meaningless sex from women who expect nothing more from me. Sounds ideal

Me too

Anonymous wrote:42 year old single woman here. I definitely don't. I wait. I make sure we really like each other and have agreed to exclusivity and get std testing. Second or third date is first kiss territory for me.

Yawn, grandma