Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm baffled by the idea that a 19yo didn't bring his own sunscreen, but instead waited for his friend's mommy to provide it.
Do you know many college aged boys? He probably would've just done without.
Anonymous wrote:Op here Jesus 6 pages? Not even reading it all.
We have PLENTY of food. He just eats it all. You buy more, he eats more. There's no bottom. We had 4 bags/boxes of cookies. My kids ate NONE of the first two boxes he went through. It's not an issue of not providing food. He just ploughs through everything we stock.
No he did not bring his own sunscreen. He even asked us to buy him a toothbrush and chapstick and toothpaste when we arrived because he didn't have it. We did. I didn't care about the sunscreen until he USED A WHOLE CAN BY HIMSELF for one single trip down to the beach! That's insane.
We have paid for all food and activities. However it would be nice if he didn't order a $40 freaking meal at every single dinner out for 6 people. Like damn. And if you're going to be like this, maybe offer to do stuff like carry stuff down to the car or do the dishes or thank us for taking you golfing, boating etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why did your son bring a friend on vacation at their ages? I can see if your son is 6, but 19??
Because the younger two are girls and we don't want our son to be stuck inside all night once the younger ones get tired or stuck doing only activities they can do. Ideally, the friend is so they can go out at night or do stuff like jet skiing and just keep him company. However, this kid also doesn't happen to want to go out in the evening, won't parasail or jetski, and hates walking or physical activity so it's been entirely pointless having him join. He goes along on group activities but has mostly complained about heat, water temp, fun level etc. Trust me, I regret the invite.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here Jesus 6 pages? Not even reading it all.
We have PLENTY of food. He just eats it all. You buy more, he eats more. There's no bottom. We had 4 bags/boxes of cookies. My kids ate NONE of the first two boxes he went through. It's not an issue of not providing food. He just ploughs through everything we stock.
No he did not bring his own sunscreen. He even asked us to buy him a toothbrush and chapstick and toothpaste when we arrived because he didn't have it. We did. I didn't care about the sunscreen until he USED A WHOLE CAN BY HIMSELF for one single trip down to the beach! That's insane.
We have paid for all food and activities. However it would be nice if he didn't order a $40 freaking meal at every single dinner out for 6 people. Like damn. And if you're going to be like this, maybe offer to do stuff like carry stuff down to the car or do the dishes or thank us for taking you golfing, boating etc.
what is wrong with you that you can't say "Hey Joe, expenses are adding up. How about picking some thing that costs a bit less."
My hunch is that he can sense your hostility and doesn't even know how to be a better guest in light of that. I know I would most definitely be afraid of touching your dishes.
Because THAT would make him self conscious and uncomfortable which I don't want to do even if he's driving me nuts.
Anonymous wrote:Op here Jesus 6 pages? Not even reading it all.
We have PLENTY of food. He just eats it all. You buy more, he eats more. There's no bottom. We had 4 bags/boxes of cookies. My kids ate NONE of the first two boxes he went through. It's not an issue of not providing food. He just ploughs through everything we stock.
No he did not bring his own sunscreen. He even asked us to buy him a toothbrush and chapstick and toothpaste when we arrived because he didn't have it. We did. I didn't care about the sunscreen until he USED A WHOLE CAN BY HIMSELF for one single trip down to the beach! That's insane.
We have paid for all food and activities. However it would be nice if he didn't order a $40 freaking meal at every single dinner out for 6 people. Like damn. And if you're going to be like this, maybe offer to do stuff like carry stuff down to the car or do the dishes or thank us for taking you golfing, boating etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here Jesus 6 pages? Not even reading it all.
We have PLENTY of food. He just eats it all. You buy more, he eats more. There's no bottom. We had 4 bags/boxes of cookies. My kids ate NONE of the first two boxes he went through. It's not an issue of not providing food. He just ploughs through everything we stock.
No he did not bring his own sunscreen. He even asked us to buy him a toothbrush and chapstick and toothpaste when we arrived because he didn't have it. We did. I didn't care about the sunscreen until he USED A WHOLE CAN BY HIMSELF for one single trip down to the beach! That's insane.
We have paid for all food and activities. However it would be nice if he didn't order a $40 freaking meal at every single dinner out for 6 people. Like damn. And if you're going to be like this, maybe offer to do stuff like carry stuff down to the car or do the dishes or thank us for taking you golfing, boating etc.
what is wrong with you that you can't say "Hey Joe, expenses are adding up. How about picking some thing that costs a bit less."
My hunch is that he can sense your hostility and doesn't even know how to be a better guest in light of that. I know I would most definitely be afraid of touching your dishes.
Anonymous wrote:Why did your son bring a friend on vacation at their ages? I can see if your son is 6, but 19??
Anonymous wrote:Op here Jesus 6 pages? Not even reading it all.
We have PLENTY of food. He just eats it all. You buy more, he eats more. There's no bottom. We had 4 bags/boxes of cookies. My kids ate NONE of the first two boxes he went through. It's not an issue of not providing food. He just ploughs through everything we stock.
No he did not bring his own sunscreen. He even asked us to buy him a toothbrush and chapstick and toothpaste when we arrived because he didn't have it. We did. I didn't care about the sunscreen until he USED A WHOLE CAN BY HIMSELF for one single trip down to the beach! That's insane.
We have paid for all food and activities. However it would be nice if he didn't order a $40 freaking meal at every single dinner out for 6 people. Like damn. And if you're going to be like this, maybe offer to do stuff like carry stuff down to the car or do the dishes or thank us for taking you golfing, boating etc.
Anonymous wrote:Op here Jesus 6 pages? Not even reading it all.
We have PLENTY of food. He just eats it all. You buy more, he eats more. There's no bottom. We had 4 bags/boxes of cookies. My kids ate NONE of the first two boxes he went through. It's not an issue of not providing food. He just ploughs through everything we stock.
No he did not bring his own sunscreen. He even asked us to buy him a toothbrush and chapstick and toothpaste when we arrived because he didn't have it. We did. I didn't care about the sunscreen until he USED A WHOLE CAN BY HIMSELF for one single trip down to the beach! That's insane.
We have paid for all food and activities. However it would be nice if he didn't order a $40 freaking meal at every single dinner out for 6 people. Like damn. And if you're going to be like this, maybe offer to do stuff like carry stuff down to the car or do the dishes or thank us for taking you golfing, boating etc.