I did this once, when I was about 20. No sex though, but plenty of other things.

I did meet guys at bars, then go on dates later with them and then sleep with them, even though it maybe wasn't going anywhere.

But as a general rule in college, we almost never let our girlfriends go home with guys we didn't know. We'd tell him to call her the next day and leave together. It was a safety thing, and a standards thing. None of us wanted herpes and if you drink enough shitty beer you get into situations you regret. We sort of all understood that and looked out for each other.

Well let's just say...we never made it home.

It was a crowded place so we began discreetly at the bar, and finalized things in a quiet backroom stock closet. I could hear the party through the door the whole time.

I love it. All these guys saying they have no game, yet think everyone else was doing it.

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Anonymous wrote:Male here. I lost my V card by picking up a college girl at a party when I was a senior in HS - 1986. Despite being nervous, I still remember every second and how beautiful she was.

Sounds like a John Hughes movie. Did she look like Molly Ringwald?

NP: back in the day, I would kill for Molly Ringwald.

Former ho here. I did this several times (maybe 10?) in college, both from bars and parties. Some were acquaintances, some were strangers, some turned into short lived relationships. I did it several MORE times in my early 20’s and a couple more times in my late 20’s.
I can say that I was always safe (both sexually and physically).
I’m 32 now and in a loving, monogamous relationship. I had a ton of fun when I was younger and learned a lot.

I did plenty of times. Last time I was 30 he was 21. It was a ton of fun.

About Last Night -- terrific movie (original version). Not Citizen Kane or Casablanca terrific, but terrific nonetheless.

Anonymous wrote:Male here. I lost my V card by picking up a college girl at a party when I was a senior in HS - 1986. Despite being nervous, I still remember every second and how beautiful she was.

Sounds like a John Hughes movie. Did she look like Molly Ringwald?

Plenty in my 20’s. I’m 40 now.

have

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently I'm a ho. I did it a bunch of times in my 20's and 30's. I'm now a nearly 50yo female.

same here. all the time. i thought everyone did?

Facebook, Snapchat and Instagram has put an abrupt end to those kinds of shenanigans.

All I can hear in my head is "You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals, so let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel."

Anonymous wrote:Apparently I'm a ho. I did it a bunch of times in my 20's and 30's. I'm now a nearly 50yo female.

same here. all the time. i thought everyone did?

If you went to beach week, you did this.

If you go to Dewey, you still do this.

Only once and I've been with many women. But taking them home from bars was just not my thing.